A Good Problem to Have (I Think).....Advice?

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There’s this girl in my dorm, absolutely gorgeous, though a little naive and very innocent. She had a boyfriend and dumped him (roughly 2 months ago?).

She has been caught recently saying she wanted a boyfriend. Now, she’s the type of girl you date, not the type of girl you “hook up” with. I think she’s a virgin, and if I’m that guy (trust me, every guy in this school is gonna try) I wouldn’t mind dating her.

I’m very playful with her (sexual innuendos, sometimes sexually awkward, get a bedtime hug from her every night) much to the chagrin of many of the guys in our dorm and one of her 3 “best friends.”

She’s the type that is kind to everybody, so maybe I’m reading too much into her, but I’m feeling very hit and miss, interest and non-interest from her. I do think, however, I am staying out of the “just friends” zone.

Today, outta the shower, I put on some of the pheromones (2 sprays of IG on neck, 1 spray of Ammo over the one spray of IG, 1 spray IO each arm bend, and 3 sprays of MX203 on chest). Shortly after, I went into the one girl’s (the one who isn’t very happy about my flirting w/ her friend) dorm. All four of them and 3 other girls were sitting on the bed, watching a movie. I was showing them a vid clip on my phone. The one “bodyguard” wanted me to get out as soon as possible so they can watch the movie. The girl I think I like took my phone, laughed about it, and then I said something like “fine, kick me out, I don’t care,” and she said "BYE YANNI! YOU SMELL LIKE SEX (or you smell sexy, didn’t catch it exactly).

Does this mean ANYTHING?
I think I overanalyze all this situations A LOT.

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Nah dude from what you are saying sounds like she is diggin ya. But trust me though. If you want this to happen your gonna have to be pretty much up front and honest with her. Take her aside maybe ask her to go eat with ya or something. But you really need to ask her out soon, cause like you said everyones gonna be trying to get with her and she will… trust me she will get with someone. Might as well be you right? You got the edge with the mones and from what your pic looks like your not bad looking (not being gay). The worst she can do is say no. But it you dont do it and then you wait and she hooks up with someone else your gonna kick yourself for months and mope and say to yourself why didnt i just do it. I hope this helps dude and i really do wish ya the best of luck. Trust me ive been there and you dont want the second one. Keep us informed please. I want to know how it works out.

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Thanks bro. Unfortunately, finals next week so not much interaction, and then right after finals, they want us to go back home. She’ll be heading to New York, I’ll be heading to PA, a good 2.5 hours away. I never asked for her number, and I’m fine with that. IDK, I know some may lecture me on “just go for it” or w/e, but it can become REALLY awkward within the dorm if she did say no.

Tomorrow I’m going out w/ 2 new friends, both who did try to hook up w/ her, and may still be trying. Maybe I should ask her to come out w/ us?

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you just goin back home for awhile then back to school? or you done with livin near each other? and man thats cool if you dont want the chance of there being awkwardness then i cant argue with that but hey yeah i say atleast invite her out and enjoy the time you do have with each other.

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One month for winter break. Then we will be living together again for next semester. We will have, like, 2 days just her, her friends, and me in the dorm b/c we are gonna be tourguides for the college and need training. IDK how much I can do in 2 days, especially after a month of not seeing her.

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Hey you guys leaving like that gives you the perfect reason to try and get a date with her. You can do it non shelont. however you spell it, to see if shes interested. 2 days… i say thats plenty of time to figure something out.

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I meant we come back 2 days earlier*

Leave Dec 20, and instead of coming back the Jan 23rd like everyone else, we will be here the 21st.

Thanks for your help bro!

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Np man just hope i helped ya in some way, but man… even get her by herself for 2 days thats got to say something.

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I’ll do the best I can, and keep it posted.

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I think that you should date her, interact with her , have nice time togerther, because when she smelled the pheros she didn’t hook up with you.It means that she felt the sexual sparks but this is not enough.So you should work more as to have a good chance with her.
Wish you luck - and be romantic with the girl. :wink:

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I think tourch means nonchalant. Thats probably the right way to go and just be assertive and playful about it. Perhaps even with a month off pheros have made you a little more prevalent in her mind so you can simply relight the tourch since you already got lacquer on her with your “secret” weapon. Just wondering how do you go about hiding your mone products while living in a dorm. Must be pretty tough lol.

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yeah thats it nonchalant , TY :slight_smile:. And its torch think my name through you off there lol.

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omg haha i just noticed it now XD

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Whatever you do, make up your mind soon. If you are going to make a move, you want to do it before 1)she loses interest in you, 2)someone else snatches her up, or 3)you fall into the friend zone from which there is no return.

If you want to keep things from getting awkward, don’t flat out ask her out on a date, but make it like you are just two friends hanging out alone. Then while you are out you can make your moves and show her you want to be more than that. Maybe tell her something like “when you gonna give me your number so we can chill”, or just flat out tell her “gimme your number”. Might sound a bit forward, but it works 99% of the time for me. That assertiveness demonstrates confidence and girls pick up on that.

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Thanks for all the advice!

HAHA I have this thing that I tell her she has to give me a goodnight hug before I go to bed every night.

Last night I was chilling w/ her 2 friends, and she came by and announced she was going to go take a shower. I told her “just make sure u dont go to bed w/o giving me a goodnight hug.” She replied kinda sarcastically, ‘ok master.’

neways, about 15 minutes before she gave me her hug, I put on a quick spray of ammo. She was giggling during the hug, I asked her what she was laughing at, and she replied “nothing, just life.” then said goodnight and walked away.

dunno what that was about, did the ammo really have THAT kinda affect on her?

also, before she leaves for winter break, i was thinking about doing something that’ll keep me on her mind for the month off. don’t wanna come off creepy or weird though.

i was thinking when she gives me a final hug a lil kiss on the forehead and a “goodbye beautiful.” haha

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Sounds like you are doing good sofar, just play it up and be good to her :slight_smile:

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haha aight.