A mix worked for six weeks, then she lost interest and friended me: what went wrong?

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and she gave me the friend talk yesterday. The good mix (shown in my journal) did not work on her yesterday or the 5 days I saw her before that.
It had worked great for about 6 weeks before.

I feel kind of down after the friending yesterday. But I guess I shouldn’t worry too much since it wasnt my own personality that had her really attracted but it wa :cool:s the phero. Mix.

But I was struck by the on off nature of what happened. I believe I may have been being too nice after the first thing happened.

I go around in social circles sometimes where she is usually involved. I almost feel like not going in those groups anymore though.

Part of me wants to try a new and striking phero. Mix that might hit her again really deeply. She misled me for several weeks and kept on asking me about things in my life. I thought it indicated continued interest but nothing happened for these weeks and then I got the friend talk yesterday evening. I’m a bit confused because I had plenty of none in the mix.

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Did you say you talked to her for several weeks but didn’t ask her ona date? In that case yes she’d friend you mones or no mones.

I made the same mistake with K.. Then again with her I am double her age so and she always saw me with SO so Igot friended.

But I met someone new recently and only run into her once every 2 weeks or so. She european descent and about 30… I am not going to make the same mistake this time round.. Last time I got her name.. and she asked mine.. The next chance i get with her I’m asking her to accompany me for lunch .. I figure I break out of the friend zone this way from the beginning.

The Problem is a strong alpha approach creates great anxiety in me. She balks at summer ammo p75. Maybe someone can suggest a forumla for a 30 year old european woman? She doesn’t have big tits and ass and is very petite. Any suggestions? It’s for a first date , most likely lunch time and informal. :open_mouth:

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I had her 100% for 3 weeks. Romantically.

Im having anxiety and depression over having it end so quickly and change from her craving me to zero.

Ill try to move forward w. Other women but feel wiyhdrawal from nit having one right now.

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Why dont you focus on the fact that there are probably thousands of women out there like that one, is she really worth all the effort?

If you feel it wasnt your own personality that attracted her, well why dont you work on that then?

If you need ideas, feel free to PM, cause ive been there bro :slight_smile:

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What does that mean ? Please tell me you made a move sexually. I took a look at your mix in your journal and if you have been arousing her for 6 weeks and didnt make a move thats why your in the friends box.

Wrong mones dont work that way. There has to be attraction to begin with for the mones to enhance. Unless you were pretending to be someone your not which is not suggested because no one can maintain that for long. Thats not what congruence means.

Tisha

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Tisha nailed it: “there has to be attraction to begin with for the mones to enhance.”

I think of mones as amping up existing possibilities. They egg on an urge or desire but do not create them out of thin air. If she doesn’t like poor men, skinny men or guys with a baritone voice no amount of mones will change that. They ain’t mind control and don’t make anybody behave or feeling something that isn’t already there. However, if attraction exists, mones help bring it to the fore and amp it up.

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She expressed interest at first. Then I made a move. We were physically intimate, was great sex.

Now shes lost interest. I feel like crap. The mix is not getting her in bed anymore. It had worked incredibly well earlier.

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Im trying to proceed with things -in work, hobbies, women- but i feel disheartened.

Felt mote upbeat having the woman.

I am in social circles where she is around too.
So I will probably aee her.

She has anither guy who seems like a jerk.

I would still like to hit her with a magical phero. Mix that has her almost begging for me and thinking of me all the time.

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Its called not giving a damn and moving on. Sorry to be blunt and sound like a jerk, You hooked up with her, If she is as attractive as you say, then you should be happy you got to enjoy her lady bits, You cant be too disheartened. I mean you were not in a relationship. Sometimes attraction just fizzles, and Women in General are complex and emotional, confusing but yet amazing creatures. Hard to believe we are the same species, all it takes to make me happy is a woman that takes care of her self, lets me have some time with the guys, makes me a sandwich every once and awhile, and does not bitch or hollar at me when the game is on.

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We’re very different, you and me. But ur right about moving on. Hard to do. Im no ladies man and have had obstacles.

Anyhow, can I use a new mix to get her back in bed? Need to create lust.

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I doubt it, to be honest. It seems to be over. Harshly said: If you are that much of a clinging guy who tries more and more things and bother her more and more with something that’s supposed to be finished, maybe that’s why in the end she broke up.
If she was interested enough for mones to enhance it, then she wouldn’t put you in that friendsbox. She might just keep quiet about it and do nothing if the effect wasn’t strong enough. But yeah it didn’t go that way.

Let go and find someone else. Although I doubt there are “thousands of other girls out there who are as good as her” like everyone says, as in my whole gaming life Ive only met one potential girlfriend - nothing’s over. Start the new chapter in your life. Let go.

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P75 is good for making a slow burn, P83 is not bad either.