A314 devalues friends?!

I’ve noticed when me or a friend will wear A314, all the attention is turned to the wearer. This is awesome when i’m by myself but it keeps my boys from getting any attention.

Example:
Me: 2 sprays IS 2x 1 spray IO 2x
Friend: 1½ drops a314

Summary:
Girls approached. Complimented my buddy’s looks (nice!). He dominates conversation (unusual but acceptable). I try to say something and girls continue talking to friend (weird but ok). After repeating this scenario of me trying to say something and getting ignored my buddy and i both look at each other with WTF looks. He changes conversation to me. Girls quickly change it back. This continues.

My friend and i both agree’d that the A314 Hit was awesome. However the followup wasn’t. I’ve tried to socially buffer this with 2 sprays IS 2x with no luck. Same sort of results.

Things to try:
Both of us wear a314.

However i’m looking for a more complete solution so we can continue getting these far out hits. What would socially buffer the A314 to preserve the Value and Dominance of the other males not wearing A314?

I’ve noticed that we get extreemly nice hits when one of us is wearing A314 and the other is wearing socials like IO and IS.

I am white and 18.
My friend i spoke about in the example is persian (iranian) and 18.

I don’t know..funny things happen when you combine A314 and TAK. With some people, they try assert themselves over you if challenged, others are just very friendly and attentive.

I’d say the both of you wearing A314 would probably be the simplest solution, and maybe the best one. Have to see what the results are before saying much else.

ok. There is supposed to be a bonfire tonight. If it goes through we will invite this girl we met when he was wearing A314 and i was wearing shine. Hopefully i can test 1 drop each. I know he was more alpha when we split a drop but maybe he got more of the drop or it affects him more :o

Yawnnn… gotta go to school

..split..a drop? Wow. I’d imagine that’s pretty hard.

I would probably just give each of us a full drop. Or two, three, whatever, just keep it equal.

I just put a drop on my wrist then we rub our wrists together. Works ok.

He seems to get a much bigger ego boost from any a314 than i do. Maybe thats why. 1-1 he still out dominated me. We are gonna test 2-1 next.

I don’t work out very often where he works out all the time. I usually am the one that gets approached until recently. Maybe he produces more naturally alpha pheros since he works out alot (is that the case?). Regardless his body chemistry seems to make him more alpha.

It’s not all body chemistry/pheromones my friend. Definitely, if there is a significant difference in physical condition and that is a signficant factor for the girl, then that will play a role.

But the biggest factor, is and always will be, your actions. His actions happen to be getting him the reactions you want. I’m not saying copy him, but it is the difference in behavior, most likely.

I have a friend that I know, if we were to both wear A314 together, he would ‘dominate’ me. At least, it would appear so. He is just the type that comes in and likes to grab control of the conversation, situation, whatever. He just does it naturally, almost like an attention whore, though he isn’t one.

Sure, if I wear enough A314, that changes, but if his behavior will change if I change my own behavior, pheromones or not.

Thanks for all the advice so far. It’s weird though because before we started experimenting with pheromones i was always the one who would have girls come talk to me and get weird compliments. We are both good looking guys but in different ways. I’m the trendy, thin, raggedy but put together style and he is the buff, tan, brand name type. With that in mind we both usually do well on the attention from girls but before the A314 i would 90% of the time be the leader of the discussion etc. I barely get the time of day from anyone when he is wearing it.

When he stops wearing it its back to normal. He doesn’t challenge me about who’s alpha (like in private, verbal jousting between 2 friends) as much. When we meet up with people the conversation is more evenly dispursed. We always DHV each other when we talk to anyone will it be girls, guys, businessmen, or party goers.

After thinking about it in general, and thinking about what you said, maybe it just affects him more. Maybe his perceived confidence in himself rises when he puts on A314 whether it be placebo or not. I think it externally has an affect on others but it has a greater internal affect on the wearer.

Edit: By out dominated, I don’t mean like we had a competition or anything of that sort, or that it’s my goal to be more dominant than him. I mean that even though both of us steered the conversation to better include everyone (read: me and our other friend) it kept going back to him being the only guy talking. I couldn’t even separate the obstacle for him because they were so drawn to him talking lol.

Yea, pheromones can change people’s behaviors a lot, and they won’t even realize it. That’s what’s probably happening, you could try acting overly ‘alpha’, and see how he reacts to that. A lot of it is probably somewhat unconscious, but who knows. :stuck_out_tongue:

I remember a friend of mine, while wearing Ammo, decided my car’s radio, was his, and was changing the song, cd, etc..to suit his every whim. Normally, he’ll ask if it’s okay, or if I’m listening to the song. Here he was just so excited, (and frankly a bit self-centered), that he didn’t think about asking me if I was listening to the song. This was back when he was first trying out pheromones. Honestly, it was kind of pissing me off. So I just decided forget about it, and instead talk to him about his behavior.

I asked him, “hey, have you noticed any changes in your behavior?” and he says, “no, not really.” I smiled and told him, "I did, you changed songs like 7-8 times on the ride over here. Normally you ask me if it’s cool. Besides, you just don’t touch a yellow man’s radio! :stuck_out_tongue:

Anyways, yea, people can act pretty different. Makes me wonder how much different I seem.

Hey Panda. I usually wear two drops of A314, one drop on each jawline, on spray on IH4x and rub wrists together, two drops of Alter Ego on inside of each arm, and one drop of Raw Power. I noticed that the alter ego, which is comparable to the Ammo (Ammo has a little more -none) makes people more social altogether. The IH gets them to really open up and makes the conversation deep. The reason I wear the Raw Power is because I noticed that the A314 got me ALOT of hits, but I was “too cool” to do much about it. The Raw Power (Around my nose/neckline for self effect) counteracted this problem. But for you to get hits and to not devalue your friend, I would suggest the A314 + Ammo + maybe some IO for general social events and IH for something deeper, if you’re isolating your targets. I prefer the IH myself. The