hey guys,
So i went to the wedding this past friday night… i wore 3 drops A314 - 4 sprays TUTH (togo) and 4 sprays IO (togo)
i wore the TUTH to get my wifes gears grinding while she was drinking LOL but the A314 was supposed to up my status and the IO would tune down the “unapproachableness”
I found THE PERFECT test subject… my old gym teacher! This guy is about 6’4 - 270lbs… lots of muscle… but also has a big gut. ANYWAYS… i made sure to walk past him on my way to the bar… but i didn’t say hello. (we didn’t like eachother too much btw… i told him he didn’t know how to run a baseball team LOL) anywho… he saw my sister and got my mothers attention while i was sitting with my father. He asked those two (as he pointed to me) if it was me. then they all signaled for me to go over and say hello. I did… reluctantly… i noticed he was making strong eye contact with me. I made sure not to break 1st LOL. This guy practically kissed my ass… really… he wanted to know what i’ve been up to… how i’ve been doing. Turns out - we live down the road from eachother…
At the end of the night i was givin my goodbuys (us popular guys have to respect our popularness LMAO ) and he put his arm around me and said “Dude… your awesome… your strong, got a good head on those shoulders, and your a good lookin guy(this was meant in the most non gay way possible)… glad too see your doing well.” I said thanks and told him we may see eachother around and left…
While i was on the bus to go back to our cars a distant familly member was quite belligerant… i’m talkin… drunk as hell. he aparantly was fighting with everyone… i walked on the bus and he was actually real friendly. He was talkin to me about MMA (my dad told him i did MMA for a little while) - later on when we got to our cars he was fighting with his GF… well his sister approached ME out of 10 guys there to go talk to him! Me and my father tried gettin him to ride with us… he wouldn’t… it was a mess… but my father said that we kept it civil because he’s usually really aggressive.
couples on notes here…
the gym teacher was drunk - i still consider it a plus for the A314 and IO tho
This distant familly member knew i was doing MMA and MAY have thought twice about getting violent… but i do attribute the sister picking me out of 10 guys to the A314.
As for my wife and the TUTH… It worked… but the car ride made her sick on the way home and she passed out once she hit the bed… i just can’t frickin seem to get it in the hole
wish i could man… funny thing is… we saw a show not too long ago about husbands who raped their wives LMAO… she shot me a funny look.
update
I wore 2 drops A314 today at work (our boss is gone) - i was looked to for answers all day long. I do have lots of experience where i work tho.
Also, I wore 3 spray TUTH… i didn’t spray it for work purposes obviously but i used it when i woke up to see how the wife would react. i consider it 99% safe to say it has a defiante effect on her… After she got a wiff she hugged and kissed me and then made a squirmy face… grabbed down below (on her) and crossed her legs… then walked away tog et ready for work.
I was expecting anything… i jsut wanted to see how she would react under pressure of gettin ready for work - it works! now if i could only figure out my damn timing LOL… i have a feeling this mite help me take it to a new hole… errr i mean level if she was drunk with JUST the rite ammount of liquor and drowned with phero’s
haaaaaaaaaa!! That was funny! I see exactly where you trying to get at! I dont think is that hard tho’, you’ll get it! C’mon if Froddo made it to that volcano, you can do that simple task
Although I’m not usually one to advocate the therapy line (you know, “I’m in therapy - therefore everyone else should be…”), couples counseling is very cool. Even if all seems to be going well, it’s just like having a chiropractor adjust your spine. Re-alignment. There might be some dumb reason for the difference in libido - like “you don’t wash the dishes enough!” - Don’t laugh, I actually heard that!
let me say… it’s not like i don’t get it… but it does vary how much… might get it 3 times one week and then non for 2 1/2 weeks…
i definately dont want it every night… but come on… is twice a week too much to ask for? Dr. Oz on oprah says increasing the ammount of sex you have in your life directly correlates to how long you live. Ofcoarse he didn’t mean one night stands… but loving passionate sex. I didn’t tell her that part tho LOL!
No offense to anyone here regarding couples therapy or counseling… it’s just something i can’t do. I’ve gone before with an ex girlfriend and maybe it was just THAT counselor but i hated it with a passion. it was all anti-male rhetoric - i swear to god. I Expressed all my concerns and what i want out of the relationship (sex was not an issue LOL) and basically it was all my fault - yet i did absolutely everything for her… she was 20 years old and didn’t have her drivers liscense because she was too scared to take the test! idunno… honestly i don’t think we’re at that point yet…
i’ll report back as soon as i can with more findings…
you are correct I meant to say it was one of the largest, not THE largest.
So 3-4 times a night it too much?
have you tried asking her what gets her motor running?
I would suggest talking with her, some people get into a rut and get stuck off track. Maybe you need to schedule time for making Whoopee or Oprah. Some people plan “date night” where they alternate what the other wants to do. this is something you need to discuss with your wifey, preferably not in the bedroom with Mr “Little Hazard” at full attention. Maybe take her out to dinner and bring it up as the conversation allows. Hey you know your situation best,
I hope your Turn Up The Heat helps, and maybe doing the little things to lay out an evening of unbridled passion is in the near future.
That’s too bad that people have had experiences with bad therapists. I guess I was lucky enough to get a guy who just help us see each other’s point of view rather than interjecting any agenda of his own.
Even if you have a great relationship with open communications you can still miss some of the subtle signals that are being unconsciously sent (e.g. “Guess Why I Am Mad At You!” and the like). It might be something very tiny, and very obscure that’s holding her back.
Again, I’m not saying that everyone should do therapy - far from it.
Planning it is a BIG NONO… she hates that. When i try to plan it she often says “I just want you to go for it… don’t plan it… just be romantic.”
now thats all fine and dandy… but when i try and do that… shes not in the fuckin mood. I’ve tried it 4 or 5 times now… and each time shes denied me. So i say EFF it… im only gunna make dinner and lite the damn candles so many times before i realize im getting desperate LOL.
one time - and your all gunna laugh - i told her i was going to grow my facial hair and not sahve till i got sex LMFAO! she tried testing me… i went about 2 weeks without shaving and she hated it LOL. Got lucky that time… i hate when it comes to that - i hate facial hair lol.
idunno… it doesn’t stress me out as much as it might seem here… goes to get a massage - i can usually outlast her
) and he put his arm around me and said “Dude… your awesome… your strong, got a good head on those shoulders, and your a good lookin guy(this was meant in the most non gay way possible)… glad too see your doing well.” I said thanks and told him we may see eachother around and left…
