Check out this ebook How To Become An Alpha Male by John Alexander
Cant remember how much it costs but if your really intrested in how an alpha male talks,reacts and all that this is the book for you…
Well how bout a review
The ebook is 170 pages long.
It contains alpha male traits like body language,mindset,how to think,it potrays all qualities of an alpha male and then compares them to beta male traits.. when you finish reading the ebook you will be able to tell who really is the ultimate alpha male around your friends and others and yourself. At the end there is a little bit about becoming sexual with a women example the kiss test and so forth but it is mostly just about alpha male qualities though!!!
THIS EBOOK IS HOW AN ALPHA MALE SHOULD REALLY ACT!!!
10 OUT 10 STARS
Can’t say that was the most in-depth review, but thanks for sharing. 
I dont know what else to say really..
All you can do is take my word for it!
Here is a quick example i copied and pasted…
Beta Male Charachteristics
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Using “ah” and “um,” partial sentences, and partial
words. Studies have shown that people consider others who
talk like this to lack confidence and not be too bright. It’s a sign
of nervousness. The reason we say “um” is because we’re
afraid we’re going to be interrupted by the other person. Instead,
don’t be afraid to pause for effect. Pausing before important
points will make you seem more competent and people will
remember what you say. -
Speaking too fast. This gives off the impression that you
feel anxious and have low self-confidence. A normal, comfortable
speaking rate varies within a moderate range from 125 to
150 words per minute. Slow down! -
**Speaking with a monotone voice, also known as mumbling.
**People with a narrow pitch range are viewed as
unassertive, uninteresting, and lacking in confidence. So vary
your pitch and you will be perceived as outgoing and alpha. -
Pausing too long before responding to a question. This
indicates that you’re thinking too hard for your answer, which
makes you seem indecisive. It also looks like you’re trying too
hard to win the other person’s approval. -
Pulled-in, closed postures. An alpha male spreads his
arms and legs out and is open. When standing, you can force
open your body language by hooking your thumbs in your side
belt loops. -
Holding your hands in front of you. This is a defensive
gesture. Instead hold yourself open and vulnerable. (You make
yourself physically vulnerable because you feel no fear.) Let
your arms relax and be open. Nobody’s going to punch you, so
why do you need to block yourself? -
Twitching your fingers or hands. When you’re across the
table from someone there’s a natural inclination to play with sugar
packets or straw wrappers with your fingers. Don’t. And
don’t drum your fingers on the table—women respond poorly to
that.
Just hold your hands and fingers relaxed. Rest your forearms on
the table, keeping your arms open and letting them drop forward.
Keep your hands and arms open and relaxed. Most of the
time this means having them about 18 inches or half a meter
apart, your palms facing each other, with fingers curved slightly
upward. As your palms face each other, they should also face
the woman.
Open palms convey honesty and being completely comfortable
with yourself. Having the back of your hands facing her can convey
that you’re hiding something. -
Touching your face when you talk. This indicates that
you’re thinking too hard, you’re indecisive, or that you feel shy.
To convey confidence, at time you can hold your hands together
in a steeple shape in front of your chest or face. (A lot of professors
do this when they are lecturing.) Another posture that will
help you when you need a huge display of confidence is holding
your hands on your hips. Cops do this when they need to establish
authority over criminal suspects. -
Folding or crossing your arms in front of you. On rare
occasions it is possible to fold your arms in an alpha fashion
(watch Brad Pitt in the movie Fight Club for a good demonstration
of this), but as a general rule, avoid it. -
Rigid or hunched posture. An alpha male has a relaxed
posture, whether he’s standing or sitting. Loosen up and spread
out. -
Looking down. The alpha man holds his head high. It
shows zest. Looking down at the floor telegraphs “loser.” Keep
your chin up. Expose your neck—don’t worry, nobody’s going to
choke you! Look at the person you’re talking to; remember what
I said about using your eyes. -
Nervous facial gestures such as lip licking, pursing your
lips, twitching your nose, and biting your lips. An alpha male
has a relaxed face and mouth because he fears no one. -
Excessive smiling. Studies of primates have shown that
beta males will smile as a way to signal their harmlessness to
stronger males. Beta humans smile to show they’re not a
threat. The alpha male, however, only smiles when there is
something to smile about. And yes—he can be a threat. -
Walking fast as part of your normal walk. Instead, walk
a little slower than normal, almost as if you’re swaggering.
You’re alpha—no one’s chasing you and you’re not rushing to
please anyone else. If you’re not in a hurry to get somewhere,
walk like you’re relaxed and confident. Think: “I am the man. I
can make any woman happy.” -
Walking only with your legs. Don’t be afraid to move
your torso and arms. Try this: walk as if you’d just had a massive
success and felt on top of the world. Watch what you do
with your body. You may find yourself moving your arms along
with your shoulders and having a slight bounce in your step.
Now, do that all the time. -
Slouching. You don’t have to stand uncomfortably ramrod
straight, but you should have your shoulders back. Watch Brad
Pitt in any of his movies for examples of how to comfortably hold
your back straight. (I keep bringing Brad Pitt up because he
provides an excellent example of what good body language
looks like. Also watch George Clooney in his films. For fans of
older movies, check out Sean Connery in From Russia With
Love and Rock Hudson in Pillow Talk.)
Blinking a lot. Instead be leisurely about blinking your
eyes. And don’t close your eyes in discomfort. Just let your
eyelids relax. In fact, let them droop a bit. Don’t be bug-eyed. -
Shifting your eyes back and forth when you speak.
That’s very beta. When you’re in a conversation and you’re doing
the talking, gaze at the other person’s face. Nonverbally,
this communicates that what you say is important and worth listening
to. -
Holding too much eye contact when the other person
speaks. Ignore the dating advice books that tell you to hold
non-stop eye contact. Non-stop eye contact makes you look
needy, socially retarded, and, frankly, like a weirdo. Instead let
your eyes blur and then gaze at her eyes. Look through her
rather than at her. From extensive testing, I’ve found that gazing
at a woman about two-thirds of the time is optimal. By the
way, only hold the gaze when she’s telling you something genuinely
interesting. Otherwise, focus on other stuff like her hair,
things going on around you, etc. -
Being uncomfortable with your eyes, period. The bottom
line is that your eyes should be comfortable, relaxed, assertive,
and sexual. -
Looking down or to the side before answering a woman’s
question. If you do need to look away before answering in
order to think, then look up and to the side. Studies have
shown that this displays more confidence. -
Being afraid to touch a woman. Be confident about it
when you touch women—any nervousness at all can be fatal for
your relations with her. Be alpha and physically move her when
you need to. Hold her hand to lead her around, etc. Be gentle
—if you use excessive pressure, you reveal your insecurity.
(Since you’re alpha, of course she will follow you, so there’s no
need to be anything other than playful and tender.) It’s natural
to touch others, as when you’re emphasizing a point. So let the
love flow! -
Turning your head fast when someone wants your attention.
Instead use the movements that you would when
you’re at home—slow and relaxed. You’re not at anyone’s beck
and call. You’re alpha, remember? -
Using long, sentences.
Well, on your advice, I went ahead and bought this. SO far I’ve only read the first chapter and I’d say its pretty dead on, but not so much of anything I didn’t know. There are some great reviews on amazon, but I bought it right from John’s site for cheaper.
Once I get into it some more I’ll let you know what I think.
Hey Pherosmurf, thanks for the PM.
I wasn’t really looking for the content of the book per se. I was more interested in your thoughts on the book. Why did you pick it up? Why that book rather than the plethora of other ‘Alpha Male’ books out there? Did it have a significant impact on you, if so, in what way?
You know, not a book summary, a book ‘review’.
But thanks for posting that excerpt anyways. I read through it, it doesn’t seem like a bad place to start.
Great info. Paragraph posted above shows a few beta traits I still have around. Need to get the book and work on it.
I picked it up so i could be seen as an alpha male… i was good with women but the more and more i practiced body language and that it just became natural to me after a while… I picked this one because it was recomened to me by david de angelo through an email he sent me(subscriber)
“Secrets of the Alpha Man” by Carlos Xuma is a good one too
I really liked this book, I think for PUA’s it’s a great companion book to the MM. Where the Mystery Method tells you “what to do and say” in a situation with a woman. This book is more about changing who you are. I think it’s especially ideal for guys that confuse Alpha Male with “Chest Thumping Bully” and actually beta themselves by falling into contests of one upmanship.
Xuma’s Alpha Man series is great stuff and very compatible imo with David Deangelo, especially the products “Deep Inner Game” and “On Being a Man that Naturally Attracts Women”.