An Introduction

Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!
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Greetings all!

I stumbled across this forum while looking for perfumes, and since I did a bit of dabbling in pheromones when I was younger, with interesting results, my attention was grabbed.

I’m curious. I’m a people watcher, and like to observe social interactions, particularly in the workplace. I work in an office environment with roughly 100 people in the same room, give or take. I’m interested in seeing how those interactions can be manipulated given the introduction of different pheromonal stimuli.

Also, for some reason, I’ve got this image in my head of the scents and pheromones being colours, and I’d like to paint with them.

At the end of the day, what I hope to gain is an easier interaction with people, as I am quite socially inept. Or at least I feel that way.

And that is all :slight_smile:

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Hello Harpychick, welcome to pherotalk!!

I’m obviously not a female but I have brought products for my mother who is also a phero user. She also works in a corporate environment and her go-to product is Instant Sexiness B. She absolutely loves it. It helps make her boss (who can be difficult to work with) much more easy going and also makes those around her be nicer towards her. You can get Instant Sexiness in a to-go bottle and try it out yourself. If you like it then get a 30ml bottle.

Good luck, and I hope you find everything you need!:slight_smile:

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Hello Harpychick,

Welcome to the forum.

K made a great suggestion with IS/B. Alot of the women hear have said great things about its place in the workplace. Socially, I would suggest you take a look at Instant Shine, IO, and IH. Instant Shine is can help elevate your mood as well as the moods of the people around you. IO helps promote chattiness and can assist in making you appear more appraochable. IH can help lead to deeper conversation and help you connect with people you come in contact with.

I must say that it would be great if once you decided what to get that you stuck around to report your findings. People are the best phero testers. They usually notice the little things.

Good luck, and welcome.

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Thank you!

I’m really pleased to be here, and the out of the gate advice is fantastic!

I’ve started my collection, all to gos, to see what I like. Instant Shine, Openness, Honesty, Sexiness B, and I’m not sure why I did it, but Turn Up the Heat. I am very keen to do a bit of reporting, and eventually would like to play with the experimental stuff as well.

And it occurs, perhaps a bit more about me might help with tailoring…

I am initially perceived as aloof, with no real desire for purely social interaction (I am actually just terribly shy, unless it comes to business matters that I am very competent in). Once a person gets past the initial impression, usually 6 months to a year unless they make an incredible effort, I am quite friendly, open and caring, and a little bit amazing, if I do say so myself.

I have recently, with the value of recent being five years ago, moved to a new country. The network of friends and family that I would normally rely on for interaction is unfortunately only reachable by phone…and honestly, most not even that. I am married, but my husband and I don’t really talk much, as we have little in common, and tend to bore the pants off each other. His social circle has adopted me, but it is nowhere near the level of acceptance I left behind.

I have made one real friend in the time I have been in this new country, a point which was driven home by a recent return to my origin, where I was nearly overwhelmed by adoration. A place where I was worshipped by people who knew me for decades. Does this sound egotistical? Maybe a little. It still makes me uncomfortable to realize it.

Basically, I’m lonely. It has been so long since I’ve had to step out of my comfort zone to meet people, that I’ve forgotten how.

I live in a near tropical environment, so tend to show more skin than I am necessarily comfortable with (and I think that shows). I am from a much colder climate, so spent my whole life in jeans and sweaters, even in the summer. I have a decent body. Not super hot, but I’m happy, and that is saying a lot!

I second guess myself when it comes to interpreting people’s interactions with me, but when I’m observing between other parties, I’m pretty damn good at picking it.

Um. I’m so tempted to delete all this, and say ‘screw it, I can work it out on my own’, so I don’t actually put myself out there at all. But ya know what? Screw it. Who is gonna judge me, really?

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Welcome to Pherotalk Harpychick!

I am excited and happy about the potential you see on here for you and I hope that you get the kind of results me and many others have experienced.

Have fun.

Your gc was issued! :smiley: