I joined a while back, got busy with other things and now am dipping my toe in again. I’m 61, retired (because I could and to take care of my health), though doing a little legal work part-time. I live in the beautiful high desert of Arizona and spend a lot of time hiking, cycling, kayaking, etc. and being involved with a lovely community. I’m having the relaxation and fun that I feel like I missed out in an earlier, busier life. Also, I’m still pretty juicy and would like to have more of a romantic life!
By profession-lawyer-I am probably a little intimidating, and I am by nature serious and concerned with the eternal questions, but would really like to be more in touch with my wild and crazy artistic side, which also lurks within. So, I’m starting with the consumer products, and will go from there.
I am new to the mones myself but I can a sure you that you came to the right place. There are lots of folks here that know the ins and outs of the mones, and what would be best for you.
What type of guy are you looking to attract?
I really don’t know what to suggest for a woman to attract a man but I can tell you that I use the Instant Shine and love it, it works well for me another good one for you would be the IO together with the Instant Shine would make you less intimidating.
Thelostsock made some good recommendations with Instant Openness and Instant Shine. Instant Openness is know as the “ice breaker” pheromone and is great for making people more talkative and more likely to approach you. Instant Shine makes people feel good just being around you and can help brighten the mood in any situation. One important product that I would like to add for help in the romance department would be Instant Sexiness. This is an attractant for females and it comes in two types, A and B. A is for more alpha, dominant, assertive female personalities while B is for more beta, submissive, girly-girl type personalities.
Based on your description of yourself, I think A would be the best fit for your personality but it requires that you be a little more assertive in your search for a mate. Not that high-quality men won’t approach you but you won’t be approached as frequently as with B, simply because of the vibe it projects which can be intimidating to less “alpha” males. Instant Shine and Instant Openness will help balance that intimidation factor out for you though. Just make sure you try each product on it’s own so you can see what it does and what dosage is best for you. And don’t be discourage from using Instant Sexiness B, many of the more involved females here use both in different situations and find them equally effective.
Thanks for the welcome, Thelostsock (also an interesting name). I’ve practiced Buddhism for a while, hence the name. Hmm, don’t know what kind of guy–someone who is kind, enjoys being outside, takes care of himself–lots like that where I am, I just need a little help to get that zingy feeling back. Yes, I did order that one; I tried it in the past and found that it did provide that little extra zing-osity.
Thanks for the thoughtful welcome! Yep, that’s the plan I kind of sketched out–at this point in life I kind of am the way that life has shaped me, and it would be fun to be more playful.
Hi lotuspetal. Welcome! I like your name too, very pretty.
I’m glad you’re enjoying your “new” life. The gents have made some good suggestions. Starting with the Instant line is the way to get your sea legs.
IS/A was considered the go pheromone for the sexy alpha-babe vibe. Unfortunately, that product has been discontinued. Explanations for that can be found in the women’s section of the forum. You can give the new version of IS/B a try. I haven’t tried the newest version myself. So, I can’t offer a comparison as to effects compared to older versions. BUT if it has similar properties to it’s predecessors then it offers a confident soft feminine vibe.
Instant Honesty is a good one. It’s an excellent social lubricator and makes people feel comfortable around you, inspiring communication on a deeper more intimate level.
A little romance is good for a girl no matter her age, lol. The girl may be a shade older but she’s still there , so you’ll want to look into getting some copulins/copulin products to get some of that wild/crazy goin’.
Essence of Woman/EoW is straight copulins, available at Love Scent. Copulins, when worn by a woman, are known to raise testosterone levels in men by 150% within 15 minutes of exposure. It takes a little getting used to because it stinks a bit…think fermented fruit with a cheesy edge, lol. Not tryin’ to scare ya here. It’s not too bad, really, and eminently workable. Most of the women use/swear by it. Hand to God, ma’am. You just need to find your “sweet spot” < the number of drops/sprays that work for you…wait for it to dry down properly…about 15 mins…and apply a cover scent over it. Nice full bodied fruity, sweet or vanilla scents work especially well. Pink Sugar is a popular cover if you like sweet scents. Although it’s entirely possible your favorite fragrance will cover EoW just fine.
There are also very nicely scented/perfumed copulins products on the market that are worth looking into but we’re not permitted to discuss them on this forum. Google is your friend.
That said, it’s simple enough to make your own perfumed cops by dropping EoW into whatever perfume you like as long as strongly scented. So as not to screw up a whole bottle…pour a few millimeters of perfume into a separate bottle (say 10 milliliters for example) and add a few drops of EoW…shake and wait a couple of days because cops have a tendency to “bloom” …shake again and sniff…if the cops scent isn’t detectable add more drops…shake, wait, shake, lol…check it out on your skin to see how it is. You get the idea. I add them until I smell just a trace of the cops because that’s the way I personally like it. Sometimes I find it actually improves the perfume. You’ll just have to experiment a bit to see how you like it and if you’re getting the reactions you want. You can always punch it up by applying straight copulins and then using the cops scented perfume over top.
Another alternative is to take a nice big blob of strongly scented body lotion…plop it into your hand and mix in some straight EoW…apply and let dry down. (Or you can mix EoW straight into the lotion bottle if you prefer. Check the lotion the same way you would when adding EoW to perfume.) Then you can spray any pheromones you’d like to use over top and finish up with a complimentary scent and you’ll be good to go!
I hope that helps!
If you have any more questions, you should post them over in the women’s forum so the girls will see them. They’re apt to get lost here in the intro shuffle.
Thanks for the nice welcome, Bella. Yes, think I’ll experiment with the IS/b–accessing soft and girly isn’t that difficult. I actually got the EOW before, and coming across it recently reminded me that this pheromone thing is pretty interesting.
BTW, I surmise that you are associated with this company in some fashion, perhaps? I wanted to mention that I really am appreciating their whole approach and sense of ethics, and their encouragement of experimentation and reporting. It’s an uncommonly good attitude, and they deserve a lot of props.
My pleasure, lotuspetal. No, I don’t work for AD. I saw the title of your post and thought maybe I could be of some help.
I have the previous version of IS/B and love it. I have a very alpha personality and find that IS/B does just fine for me. I like the way it makes me feel and my husband, (men in general), always respond well to the softer signature. Where as the former IS/A had more of a tendency to bring the alpha to the forefront. Some women need/like the confidence it inspires…me… not so much. I’m already forward/confident enough, so when I used it I always made sure to temper/balance it with socials or we might need to call 911.
So, you’ve used EoW before? Did ya have any luck? IS/B works great with EoW. It’s a man magnet!
I like your name too, very pretty.
, so you’ll want to look into getting some copulins/copulin products to get some of that wild/crazy goin’.