I have a long history with my Ex. I have known her for almost 12 years. 4 of those years we dated but then had to go to long distance. We communicated and because the communication was strong I came back into her life. Not only her life but we were working for the same company. Two months after I returned she broke up with me and almost 24 hours later began dating a rebound. Her emotions are just confused right now.
Thats when I learned about Pheromones. Does anyone know a good attraction Phermone that is safe to use in the work place that would bring old feelings back?
I have been looking into Evolve XS. Does anyone know anything else. care to share stories on if Phermones helped win back your ex?
You should read-up on fallout mixes - A base mix of something like A314/IH/P74 is versatile but superb in the workplace - Then you introduce s sexual like TUTH once you move to a more social/uninhibited environment where emotions can flow more freely.
You also need to re-evaluate your behaviour to present the most attractive aspect of yourself and adopt other strategies to ensure regular but minimal contact to ensure an exposure/withdrawal cycle for the pheros is established and be prepared to persist with your base mix for sometimes prolonged periods. Some other change - like an overall smarten-up, style etc is also useful. More or less, anything that makes her see you a little differently.
Personally I’d say that Evolve alone is no good for this - but you could use it as sexual steering on top of your base mix.
Its also important that you don’t rush into this - and take a bit of time with the pheros involved individually, so you get an idea of how the dose/combination works out for your individual situation.
As this is your first post, you should also start your own thread in the Intro Forum, with a bit more info about yourself and your situation - that will get you a wider range of advice and the GC to help get started with AD products.
If you are looking at deep connections to be reestablished, then IH is what you can try with .
This is also mentioned in Mobo comments.
Additionally for bonding you can also look at p96 .
If you can look back and know what were the probable reasons and can post here, it can be of help in suggesting you more specifically . else go with Mobo comments .
If I wear Instant Honesty around my Ex, she isn’t going to be talking about her ex to me all the time? Right now she hides the details but talks to other co-workers. What would Instant Honesty Effect her if she has a boyfriend but I have this phermone around her?
I agree with Mobocaster. Your best bet for the work place is to use A314 as your base. Then I would wear IH but on your wrists so it doesn’t effect you but your targets. P74 works very well to for bonding.
For work I normally wear A314 and IS as my base and I try to steer it a little with P74 or P96. I would start with A314 though for sure.
This is a near-certain attraction killer - and its what her “friends” are for - Not the guy she’s going to be attracted to and who is attracted to her. To begin with, just keep the meets short, enough to ensure phero-exposure but present a positive and upbeat/untroubled face to her and don’t make the relationship/break-up a subject at all. Her own responses to the pheros and your new attitude will help her see that something has changed and curiosity plus an emotionally engaging phero-sig can soon turn to pretty strong attraction.
With time and repeat exposures, she will probably start looking for some kind of validation that she did right by dropping you but its important you don’t give it to her - that way her own inner conflicts and dissonance will help trigger a stronger/deeper attraction response and even then, you don’t push for a relationship. You need to wait till the fallout has developed fully and she’s the one hell-bent on a relationship with you.
Until that point, you retain all your options in front of her (even if you don’t have any!) - which may not include her if you so-will-it.
Some IS in the mix will also help steer the IH in a connecting/feelgood/conspiring direction and away from the “too-deep” vibe that IH alone can have - Although with the bonding properties of IH/P74, it may not be needed.
And if she’s hiding details from you, that’s a pretty good sign that as well as guilt/doubt, there is some amount of residual attraction - promoting a “did I do the right thing” mood.
That’s really quite good!
If she really had moved-on, she would have no problem at all about telling you her version of things - but you don’t want to be giving her the validation/comfort to do-so.
You also don’t want to be probing any co-workers for info about her - it will get back to her at some point and will make you look much weaker or worse still creepy/stalkerish. You need to be presenting a strong/upbeat face to anyone who might interact with her, esp fellow women and a positive respectful attitude to her current choices if the subject does come up - the power of office gossip is not to be underestimated!
If she dumps you and then 24 hours later she is dating someone else. This sounds to me you need to move on and find another woman. I understand what you are going through but, there are so much better quality women out there.
I think my ex was in contact with one of her former exes while still with me. While still with me I believe he harassed her and put negative thoughts in her head to where she thought so low of me because the other ex was bringing me down. I am pretty sure that was what happened. Told her things to make her hate me then sucked up to her and told her what a perfect boyfriend he is. Which he isn’t. My exes parents don’t like him even though they have to be supportive and take their daughters side. He pushes her father to the ground and tell my ex he hates her parents.
Her parents actually like me but have to take their daughters side. She headed for a violent relationship. If only she trusted me enough to stick around…
Maybe the mones can bring back some of the loving emotions she felt when she was with me because she still feels something buried deep in her head.
Smelly does have a point though - She may well have feelings for you but may also be quite unable to maintain or be ready for a full-on relationship just now.
She could be with rebound-guy simply because she feels little or no relationship consequences with him.
So if she does prove responsive to pheros, you will need to keep things easygoing between you, keep safe and not look to rush back into a relationship - until she is pushing hard for one herself and you are utterly convinced she is serious.
You may find this post to be of particular interest. Maybe not quite the same exact situation, but similar. So what would be best to attract her again ? It includes a lot of insight from mobocaster and a few others.
because she still feels something buried deep in her head.