pretty self explanatory.
have an ex i still care deeply about and am curious if this could assist in rebuilding the attraction.
any help would be appreciated.
Well yes and no,
Pheromones will work if there still is a bit of attraction.
But if it’s not there, it’s not there and mones won’t help with that
im pretty sure there is some attraction. last time i saw her she flirted and hugged me a lot.
the only problem is she has a new boyfreind, so idk if that will impact it.
dont give me that move on shit please. already heard it. just looking for some help with my question
move on.
btw. pheros are not gods in a bottle. fairys maybe, but not gods; they help, but they dont do everything,
im not looking for a god in a bottle. im looking for something to give me an extra edge.
i know the actions and traits she is attracted to, i also know that she is very attracted to smell. so just a little help could be big.
I guess of course attraction can be there as there was before. Where there once was fire ashes may still burn.
If you are sure you don’t want to move on, at least, don’t go after her. If you are to stand a chance, that will happen only through congruently attracting her back to you.
-mones will have an impact for sure. However, however, they wont do anything for you in order to re-build the relationship unless you act in the appropriate manner.
If you are really sure its worth trying and you are certain that your desire for being with her comes from an honest space of being in relationship with her for the good reasons; then -mones will help. You need to have a very clear state of mind and perception of self as you will need to communicate congruently to her. Otherwise, -mones wont do for you what you can’t do for yourself with out them.
So, my two cents, soul search, be clear on your intentions, be attractive don’t attract; don’t do the things that attract her be them if that is your real you. Act congruently and then amplify with -mones.
Vangelis- Yes, i am sure it’s worth it. we had an amazing relationship, but my lack of maturity(first relationship) killed us. The reason for the breakup were my fault wholly. I know what needs to be done, and that its very risky anything will happen, but luckily with her, not matter what stupid thing i do, she will still talk to me and have me in her life.
so yes, its worth it, and trust me i hae though about this for a long time.
so which ones should i get? luckily she is a hairdresser, so she cuts my hair.
and luckily, before all the fighting we did post breakup, she was very attracted to me(confidence, sense of humor, all that). I just need to grow up, stop acting like a punk to get her back, and do ne who i am. the guy she loved( i know, corny).
Any help would be great, and thanks Van the insight.
If all you need is a ‘little help’, then pheros are for you.. they can be the missing, but necessary element. 
Good luck.
Did she break up with you recently? Was it a long relationship? etc… etc..?
For sure pheromones will give you an edge, as it would with anyone else.
it was around 3 months ago, but i cant still talk to her whenever i want. like i said, last time i saw her(few weeks ago) she flirted majorly with me, lots of hugs, joking, smiling.
the problem i think is that she is afraid that i havent changed and that i will not appreciate her.
the relationship was about 2 1/2 yrs.
i dont care if its nearly hopeless, to me she is worth it. I love her dearly, just wasnt grown up.
so anything that can help i will use.
How the best you looks like - feels like in your mind?
A314 helps build-up the aura of confidence. However, at you age I will recommend more IG.
MX292 does a similar thing but more like in a Rock Star sense
IS is like polish, brightens you best you up
IO / IH help with communication skills
at your age AMMO will be ideal for attraction and sex vibe.
For the moment stay away from IJ and TUTH if you are attracted to her and at your age you will be producing enough none for the purpose.
As for what to do, there are different approaches and I can only share mine; others might come by and drop their two cents. There are a couple of things you can try :
IG + IO (1:2) if you want to attract people towards you and have small chat and you want to project the kind of vibe of an important but approachable man.
IS + IO + IH (2:1:1)If you want to hang-out longer and have deeper conversations while highlight how fun and exciting man you are living life in the happy note.
AMMO (solo of with any of the above) This will start building into the attraction and sexual notes you will need at some point.
MX292, for me and in your circumstances, is a stand alone product that will give you many things. Unless she hasn’t see you in a long time I will use this one in the second or third encounter.
Now, here is the important thing. When choosing what to wear be sure that you are conscious of your context as you want the environment around you to work in your favor. Therefore, don’t wear -mones nor the mixes only for her, unless you are going out in a date. Wear them for you and the kind of aura you want to project as you go about interacting with people, she is just happens to be one of the many people you will encounter that day; hence you want to ‘touch’ everyone with your phero wand so the spell works its magic building up your aura. The above creates positive feedback loops: your sense of self is not dependent on her reactions, you emit a good vibe, people respond postively to you, you’re sense of self increases, and on it goes… Meanwhile she is around you and like honey to bees you become more and more attractive…
honestly, if appreication was the only problem, sir, and you have to be honest, then I think if you just tell her what you told us, and she didnt have a boyfriend… that would be enough, in your case, based on what information you have provided.
i have plenty of confidence, as i am a naturally confident person.
I havent seen her since the beginning of august, so would mx292 be a good choice?
Ammo sounds like the best. i think the biggest sticking point between us is her not wanting to go too far with me cuz she has a bf.
like if we flirt texting, she will do it then back off thinkin she cant do that stuff.
so i think when i see her that would be the only problem. so anything that could help her feel more comfortable, and sexually attracted is best.
Michael- she does have a bf now…he was there to do all the nice things that i didnt a lil after we brokeup. seems like a rebound because of how fast they have moved, nd the fact he has pretty much given his balls to her( bunch of presents, yadda yadda)…i tried telling her what i said, but she wouldnt believe me. that is the honest reason we brokeup, as her best friend(mutual) told me a few days ago that is what my ex told her…
thanks guys
Well the thing is, If it was all rather recent then her current boy friend Might just be her ‘rebound boy’ and so it might not last for long. Which generally means, she’s not quite over you.
If you have a conversation with her, pheromones such as Instant Honesty should help relax the mood and possibly make her open up to a little…
A314 could be used to make you look more mature, but that could also be like treading on thin ice, especially if she could easily get aggitated by you or if you OD on it.. I’ve never used it so probably not the most accurate statement there.
Instant shine would make you look more youthful, fun to be with person to a certain point, which could help to portay your change in character to mr.nice guy from mr.nasty.
Spaceland - just to relax the atmosphere a bit
we brokeup about 3 months ago, they have been together about 7 weeks, so its very possible he is a rebound. she decided to start seeing him when i told her i didnt want to get back together(stupid mistake). and the rate that they have moved is ridiculous. get this:
they get together(3 days later she sends me dirty pics)
a week into the relationship they say they love each other( when she tried to get me back, she said she felt nothing for him and still had a ton of feelings for me, that magically left in the span of a week).
2 weeks in, he moves into her moms with her( ridiculous)
5 weeks in, the go on a vacation, meet his fam, he gives her a promise ring
today they just got an apartment
as you see, they took a yr long relationship and crammed it into less than 2 months.
she is already saying she wants to spend her life with him yadda yadda
all this and she was in love with me 3 months ago.
it dont add up, thats why i think he is a rebound, and the fact she cant be alone.
also, she knows everything that goes on in my life that i tell our mutual friends. She knew i got a motorcycle the day after i told a mutual friend of ours. so i think she may be hiding feelings for me.
Yes and No / No and Yes. You got the clue in your next sentence (my highlight).
And that is the right order, first comfort, then… whatever is next…
You want to avoid falling in the “friends zone” but not necessarily that means you need to pump the sexual tension. You avoid falling in the ‘friends zone’ by the statements you make with your body and spoken language.
You want her to trust you again as, it seems, attracted she is already. Think out of the box. Many think that the way to a woman is through igniting her sexual instincts. Believe me, they have them as burning as we do (just wonder around the ladies section of this forum). If what you are sharing is true (including your ‘mutual’ friends comments) you are not lacking attraction in this interaction.The obstacle is not that, in your case getting her hot and horny seems not to be the challenge to work with.
Above all, if I got you right, you want a new relationship with her not just get laid once more with her, right?. In this case, slow is fast… not to slow though 
.
yes, i want her back, the reason we brokeup we immature growing mistakes. stuff everyone does.
I think she is still attracted, but its very small. She has told me a few times she isnt attracted to me, but her actions tend to be the opposite. Also, you can never truly believe what a girl in her situation says.
here is an example:
she started flirting with me over the lip ring she got. knowing i love that stuff. i tried to push the envelope, she backed off, but then sent me a pic after she told me she shouldnt be flirting. this happened after she was gonna come visit me at work(i decided no, cuz i thought it was a poor choice)
One final comment and I am off the forum for today. There’s a reason why I am not giving you the ‘move on’ jazz. However, I will say two things:
a) Is not about her, is about you: Why now you want to be back with her once she has a boyfriend she is engaged with?
b) Let go any outcome, what ever comes out of your efforts to get her back is a good result. Therefore, your most important goal here is to guarantee that a better man comes out of this ‘fight for love’ and that man has to be you.
Bon chance mon ami.
she isnt engaged. she was given a promise ring.
i want her back because i truly love her. even though i didnt show it. we are very compatible and happy. she just couldnt take me not making her feel special and being romantic.
plain and simple, its worth it.
i have already started taking steps to become a better person, for me. Now i just want to be the better person for her as wel, like she always wanted me to be.
thanks man
I was thinking you don’t have a chance when I saw the title of the post.
You might. You can get an edge with mones and that’s it. However, you might be able to turn the edge into a win, that is COMPLETELY up to you. Pheromones can get you to bat, you have to hit the homerun. Ok, enough of that, you get it.
If you do get the change, I hope you have an idea of what you need to do to repair the past and move in a solid direction.
You have been given some good suggestions of what mones to use. I’d follow Vangelis’ suggestions.
Good luck.