My crush has had a lot of boyfriends in her life, 13-20. We are really good friends, and I want to take things further with her. I’m thinking IH is the best way to go here especially since I haven’t seen her in 8 months. We have the same class together and if I sit next to her, I feel like this interaction will be just even greater. I want her to be able to trust me, and feel that I could be a potential candidate for her next real relationship. Am I right? Is IH the way to go here, or is there something I overlooked?
IH good.
A314 communicates solid boyfriend material. Dont have an arsenal without it.
I’d hit the 1.23b spray. Throw in some IShine for other days.
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This is screaming friendzone or worse at me.
The only thing in your favour is that you have not seen her for eight months, so you have a perfect opportunity for a “you’ve changed” situation but you are going to have to ramp-up your attractive behaviors and not be so much of a friend to her.
However the “lots of boyfriends” thing also gives me some concern, so don’t go all-out for a relationship till you are certain she is wanting to go that way too. She may well just be out for some fun and IME women just out of relationships are seldom willing to jump back into one unless they already have someone lined-up.
To that end, A314 is certainly one to consider, along with IS for the feelgood factor but I would look to introduce something more sexual pretty fast and ensure you are congruent with it - don’t sit beside her or be too approachable and certainly don’t go the bonding/trust route till attraction is well established. Make your contact count in the best most exciting ways you can and leave her wanting more of you. 
That is solid advice and i couldn’t agree more - friendzone is the worst thing for a guy who likes a girl.
A314 definitely with a dash of IH and IS.
Be careful with the IH!!! You want to be seen as boyfriend material instead of friend.
I would add 3 sprays of a314 and 1 spray of IH and IS respectively. You’re hear to listen, but you mean business and above all don’t find her boy problems too deep.
It’s taken me years for this to work, but when girls come to me with their problems I think of them as guys instead of girls.
Heck treating women like I treat my own guy friends has done a lot for me. If they ask for advice don’t even respond to emotional stuff. Give them get up and go stuff. Atticus Finch listened to Moe’s or whatever her name’s problem was but he never broke down his demeanor for her. I try to embody that image when women ask me for advice.
Seems to work in my opinion. I just need the a314 spray and watch the stuff come alive. I love the intimidating feeling it gives off especially when debating.
If I was in a school situation again I’d probably try to make my self seem to be shining with attractive and positive energy. That depending on what fits you and your style though.
Two things your situation reminds me of.. either shes a serial dater, jumping from one guy to another. Or shes going to need time to recover. In option one ask do you want to be a rebound by acting right away? Option two, don’t be the shoulder to cry on if your looking for more. Rarely will it turn into something meaningful.
The best thing to do is focus on being the best person you can be along with being approachable. At the same time allow yourself to be approchable to any women! And definitely show that “you’ve changed” but not focusing solely on her unless your reciprocating her attention as that would be too needy.
IS would work for positivity, A14b is prob your best bet that way you have some respect and maturity along with a little bit of none for attractiveness sake. TUTH or AMMO would be too in your face for this.
IF … you’d ask me, I’d say, depending on your age:
18-25: 1 drop of A314 and 2-3 sprays of IS, get to class, and claim a seat nearest the door … 1, 2, or 3 going back, or 1, 2 going across the FRONT of the class!
25+: 2 drops of A314 and 2-3 sprays of IS … claim one of the same seats.
And I agree with DO NOT SIT BY HER, and pay attention, 'cause if she WANTS to bite the hook, you’ll be able to tell!
I reserve ALL rights to be wrong. Women are amazing, and puzzling, too! 