Body language 101

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I have noticed a number of people making posts and saying that their game was not as good because they didn’t know the place they were in… it was not their local etc. And hence didn’t get the same hits that they thought they should.

I’d like to share something with you all. The power of body language.
Most people here are on the look out for others body language and APPARENTLY us guys cannot multi task. So we will tend to look for others but not be aware of our own, to some degree I think this is true.
Believe it or not, every single one of us reads body language daily on a subconscious level. However, it’s a skill to be aware of it. Some times it’s blatantly obvious what people are saying with their body language and other times its not. Some people are very good at hiding it (normally people like you and me that can read it)

Think of a deaf person, they are natural masters of reading body language. Pretend you are deaf for a day and look at everything that is going on around you… you will likely see 10 times as much as you did the day before. After a while you can see how people are feeling and how they are reacting to things others are doing. Open your ears and then you don’t have to see anymore… isn’t that intresting???

The point here is this… there is this 90 / 10 rule that gets thrown around here. 90 present you and 10 percent mones, I believe this is true. I think however that there should be another 90 / 10 rule. 90 percent what your body language is saying and 10 percent the content of your conversation. Sure, the content of your conversation has a lot to do with how the conversation will go. But, if your body language doesn’t match, it’s just like ODing on TUTH. People will subconsciously be able to tell something is not right.

The guys out there that get a lot of the woman are natural extroverts; they find it easy to approach and hold the conversations, even if they are talking complete crap to the woman. Why do they have better luck you may ask? Because their body language is fluid, its effortless, it just happens. And that accounts for a high percent of the emotions that people pick up on (without knowing it) when you are talking to them.

Think about this… if you meet some hot girl in a bar and you go up to her and start talking to her. She tells you that her kitten got run over last week and the person didn’t even stop to see if it was ok…
So, you’ve walked up to her thinking I’d love to bend this girl over and were displaying that with your body language (you just cant help it if you are thinking that). If she didn’t pick up on it at that moment, she will when she starts to talk about her kitten that you couldn’t care less about. Your body language will show it off big time that you don’t care and are just after one thing. If you are genuinely sympathetic towards her and her kitten, then you don’t have anything to worry about, because your internal response changes your appearance for you automatically.

Learn how to read body language and further more, learn how to read yourself and what message you are sending people. I think this has a lot to do with the success of any mone approach strategy.

If you don’t feel the affects of the mone below, you still have to show off the image you are sending with your new signature.
A314 = walk tall, talk with confidence
Shine = Happy, vibrate
TUTH = take control and lead the way (to the bedroom…)
Instant Jerk = Cocky, I can have anyone I want.
Instant Gentleman = Upstanding guy, not arrogant, but genuine.

Additions and comments are welcome

Body language books with a social rather than business focus?
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Excellent post Alfa1.

It’s so easy, especially for newbies, to get caught up in the hype of this product, or that product - it’s all next to useless if you don’t have a grasp of the basic skills of human interaction…

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Exactly, the mones here are great and if people learnt a few other things to help them alone… there’s no turning back!

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Well put. Reps for you Alfa1. This is a great discussion and hopefully people will read and use the info to their benefit.

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Very true. I’ve been testing my new pheros in bars/clubs and it is very easy to know who is having a response to you just by observing body language. The first night of testing I got some very strong hits (DIHL, body turned to me completely, head tilted, compliments, lots of looks and a few stares, etc.) and rapport was usually just given to me without my having to work for it. I was wearing A314, P83, and TUTH, and I was as congruent as possible with my idea of what that signature implied…

I was really surprised at how quickly rapport could be deepened without any kind of covert influence (Speed Seduction, Hypnosis, NLP, etc.) on my part while wearing these three pheros (A314, P83, TUTH).

I did have one really strong nonverbal response that seemed odd to me: a girl pouring my beer at the bar locks eyes with me, and just keeps looking into my eyes, and she doesn’t blink or anything. She keeps looking and after about 20 seconds or so, she get this look of panic in her eyes!!! She really looked like she was on the edge of a meltdown anxiety attack or something… So I break eye contact and she excuses herself from the bar!! Does anyone know what that was all about???

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This is more of the same that has been posted in the past.

We call this congruence…

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Maybe so :slight_smile:
But I haven’t read any of those posts… And like any good topic… many books will be written on the same subject with the authors own style. You can read one book and say that was complete crap and then read the same thing written by someone else and be able to relate to it in a second and think, that was great… this is my style and I hope some people will relate to it if they don’t relate to some of the other posts of the same topic.

This post is directed more at looking at your own body language, as apposed to others… It takes a whole lot more Self awareness to notice what you are doing than it does to see other peoples. Most people I believe will go through their whole life without taking a deeper look at themselves and how that affects their communication.

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Maybe she was getting really hot and bothered, and couldnt handle it.

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This is win!

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I will refer this to you.

Just flip the info, most is generic.

It would be better to add to that thread so all information is kept in one place.

If you want to study body language, practice pickup in a mirror.

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Anybody ever writen a letter to their ex and told them what they think? And never posted it? It’s quite therapeutic.

I’ve just done that here (not about my ex), 1872 characters. Then deleted it! Felt good!!!

This thread will live a short life out in the open like it is, but it has been read and received by many already. My job is done :slight_smile:

I’ve had a crap day… on the scale of one to five… I have changed gear at 5th and slammed it into reverse and blown the trans to shit…

If you want to read the link in the quote above… Get yourself one BIG Mother fu#k*n cup of coffee.

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Hey, I’ve got a question. Asking a girl to “smell my new cologne, tell me what you think.” Good idea, bad idea?

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Hey Goon,

I wouldn’t say it was a bad idea. All depends on the situation. I wouldnt just rock up to someone at the mall and ask them. But, if you have been talking to them for a bit and there is some way of get it into the conversation, then yeah, why not…

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Yeah, that’s what I’m talking about, someone who sits next to me in class and talk to frequently. Just wasn’t sure if it would cause a bit of an overload or something of the sort.

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You’ll be fine in that regard. Let us know what happens… What are you planning on having on?

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Alfa, consider the importance, based on your observation, of the effects not on others, but on yourself, of the pheromones you apply. Then consider the importance of where you apply them.

You can get the same (or maybe better) self effects by applying to the neck, chin or even upper lip/moustache, depending on the carrier fluid, at one unit (spray/drop) this way than you can with 2 or 3 or maybe even more sprays to, say, the backs of hands.

That’s why, when I wear A314, I tend to put one drop as close to my nose as possible, so it affects me, and my body language becomes more congruent.

You can actually affect a mix quite powerfully by where you apply what. For instance, applying one drop of A314 to the chin, and two sprays of TUTH to the hands, will tend to project a much more aggressive masculine sexual vibe than it causes you from self effects, not only because of the added distance and diffusion of the TUTH application, but the fact that A314 is heavy on androsterone, which buffers enone. So you can use this apparent discrepancy to produce body language that is much different than you might get with the reverse placement.

It’s worth being aware of when you put on multiple products at a time.

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Great advice Catlord,
I haven’t used A314 under my nose yet. I’ve read about using it there for the self affects. Time to give it a try there I feel :wink: And with some other appropriate combos in different places.

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I was thinking IG, IO or IH, and IS.