I don’t know but when I first ordered my pheromones I was very doubtful they would do anything other than a smile if even that.
I wasn’t expecting a miracle, or for that matter I was skeptical they would even work. I had bought some stuff on eBay once and it came in a cobalt blue bottle, (not the Androtics type) and it smelled really bad. I asked the seller whether it was supposed to and he said that the smell is completely different to women. I had to really think about it and I came to the conclusion that it was possible. After a long workout at the gym I don’t believe that I smell, but a former lover of mine told me I did. Perhaps my eBay bought pheromones would work for me after all.
I was so excited that I was going to go out and have women throwing themselves at me with uncontrollable lust. I sprayed myself with the pheromones expecting my miracle in a bottle. (I still have the bottle, it’s almost full, but there is no label) I went out and I had some strange reactions (not knowing what to look for) like anger, aggressiveness, and even a few smiles. The ones who were aggressive seemed to be turned away by my smell. The two or so women who smiled at me probably liked the scent.
I’m sure I can figure out what type of pheromones they were from the reaction knowing now what I do. The point though is there were certain I didn’t understand. I thought I would be able to spray sex appeal from a bottle. The scent might have been sex appeal and I will attempt to wear it again, but my problem was that I had no concept of what sex appeal was. I wasn’t congruent to the pheromone signature, therefore the results I expected never materialized.
Imagine the garbage man collecting trash with some Stacy Adams shoes, Armani suit, Oakley sunglasses, a diamond earring, while toting around a prospectus to a mutual fund. He might be dressed successfully, but his appearance would not fit what he was. (No disrespect, just an example) It would be the same as me (at the time 315 lbs on a 5’8" frame) walking around in old clothes, no self-respect, no dignity believing I had sex appeal. It doesn’t work folks.
You hear it many times from most of the experienced users: your pheromone signature has to be who you are. They are not saying A314 is the James Bond type aura just to save the stuff for themselves. They are saying it because they want you to understand the power of pheromones and how to use them.
I myself find it difficult to wear A314 in the proper setting. I realize when to wear things to get the most out of the signature. I read some posts that suggest wearing it to interviews (again just an example), but this to me also has to have a perspective. Would I wear A314 if I was a kid, or acted like one to an interview where my pheromone signature might intimidate the interviewer? This would surely create tension between myself and the person interviewing thus hindering my opportunity It’s the same thing as an 18 year old, not an Alpha, wearing it to school. The signature would not fit the profile and the pheromones would be wasted or worse, you could find yourself in a bad situation.
We talk about results where the user without experience, needs to understand my results, will be completely different from yours. There might be similar effects, but never will your results be the same. It is even possible to experience completely opposite results using the same product the next day. Why does this happen?
That is a question that has many, many layers. One night I might go out feeling great, like I am the man and have excellent results. The next night I wear the same mix, but the situation itself is different. While wearing sexual pheromones you might encounter a situation where there is a much bigger Alpha male, and find his aggression towards YOU intimidating. Your Alpha pheromone signature is now not congruent with your body language. Body chemistry, attitude, surroundings, there are many variables to pheromone signatures.
I wonder how many of you when you say nothing happened while wearing this stuff, even knew what to look for? Were you expecting the HB9 to rip her clothes off and jump you? How many have read my post pretty cool results so far, and said if I try that I’ll get the same results? If you answered yes to any of these questions you are in for a let down.
You have to put things into perspective. If you are anything like I have never had an HB9 jump me just because I walked by, have you? It has never happened and never will. Whenever I see a girl I have to work hard at achieving the result I desire. I do this through observation of body language, and my skill I learned from the Mystery Method and David DeAngelo. (MM is awesome). I work hard to get what I want. There are NO people on this planet who have not worked hard and are satisfied. Do you think Paris Hilton is satisfied? If she was she wouldn’t do the things she does. The recent death of Anna Nicole Smith should be proof enough. Results are a reaction to some type of action. What type of action have you taken to get the results?
I question motives if you don’t see any results from pheromones, because the results you seek would have materialized if you harvested them. Pheromones are like planting seeds on a farm. You have to till the earth, plant the seeds, water them, and keep the disease, insects, rodents away. Then after all the hard work you need to harvest your fruit. Did you think it would end there?
Now you have this beautiful fruit that is the sweetest, best looking in the entire world. The problem is the guy (SteveO) on the next farm over has the sweetest, best looking fruit too. SteveO takes his over to the market. He gives out samples, explains the growing process and sells his fruit as the best. (Damn that SteveO) SteveO now has a shelf in the market while your fruit spoils.
My good forum friends it is the same concept with pheromones. You can’t expect results without putting in the effort to obtain them. When you are watching for body language do you even know what to look for? Again I think you are looking for signs that are not there. Women are refined and unlike men can control their impulses. Especially when those impulses are not congruent with the man they are looking at. If I have sex on my brain and the girl in front of me is not to my standards I say to myself: this doesn’t calculate, I’m not attracted to her. There is a girl at work who does not take care of herself. She is 400 lbs and not attractive to me. She is a very nice person and I get along with her well. I share stories about how I lost 115 lbs to try and inspire her. If she had bathed in pheromones would I be attracted to her? NO!
It would not compute in my brain and the attraction I felt would be me believing she is a lovely girl who has so much intellect to offer and I hope she decides to win her battle with obesity.
I am very good at watching for tiny little signals of body movements that mean so much. These are lost in my posts because I don’t explain how I take action to get the results. When a lady has her legs crossed and her foot pointed at you, that is a sign she is interested. Blinking is a sign, arms crossed, legs crossed away from you, arms and legs crossed, facial expressions, body posture, every single move the human body can make is a signal of a persons interest in you. I highly recommend getting a book and studying body language or you will miss it.
I continue to read posts about not noticing anything, so I will repeat: Every single movement of the human body has a meaning. If you are too busy watching for obvious things like the HB9 rubbing her hands down her pants you will most likely miss the slight movement of her thighs together, or her deep breathing, twirling her hair, how many times she blinks, maybe even the lean a slight bit closer to invade your space. The thing is every one of those movements can be calculated in fractions of inches so while your busy looking for things that are not happening you miss the things that did happen.
I love the posts where new pheromone users say that nobody bothered talking to them. That’s the funniest thing. Try this experiment tomorrow: Not wearing any pheromones go to a public place and don’t say a word to anyone and see how many people you can get to talk to you just cause you’re there. I doubt it will be very many if any. If you want a conversation, start one or you’re going to be a pretty lonely guy with a big supply of hand lotion.
If you’re a shy guy and wear pheromones around your friends and nothing different happens it shouldn’t be a surprise. Your friends know who you naturally are. You have to build your signature into yourself. You create your personality. I suggest you try pheromones on people you don’t know so you can get an unbiased opinion.
Can you grow into your pheromones? That’s the beauty of them! You, my good forum friend can be anybody you want to be and the pheromones will help you personify that signature that you are going to present. Be the man you want to be while wearing the pheromones and the results will present themselves. Don’t go out looking for the miracle, go out and create the miracle.
Sorry about the long rant, but my date flaked on me so I was bored and felt this needed to be said.
SteveO (pherojunky)