I’m from Brazil, and I’ve been “lurking” these forums for a while, now. I made my first order about 2 weeks ago. It consists of:
Instant Openness Instant Female Magic
Turn Up The Heat
I’m in my late 20’s, and as some have suggested on some threads, I’m testing each item at once, to get to know their effects on me… today was my first day with pheros. I put IO.
Tomorrow I’ll be at the movies, and some more experiment is to be expected too!
At the moment, the situation that I hope pheros would me more useful is this: I have this close (girl) friend of mine. She ended a very bad relationship months ago, and I know she is still a little hurt, like “in a shell” state.
I admitted to her a little time ago that I like her not only as a friend, but as a woman too. She said did not feel the same, but she also said that she didn’t know that if it was because she was not ready yet, as she was not eager to find someone new… so I suppose there’s still hope!
So, I plan to introduce these helpful “friends” whenever we hang out together, be it at the teather, her home, whatever. And I intend to go slow (no 5 sprays of Turn Up The Heat, or something like that ). What do you guys think/suggest?
Maybe I’ll be outvoted, but I say save the Turn Up The Heat for last, when you’re sure you’re gonna score. In the emeantime, I would give her all the room she needs, but still be supportive. Wearing Instant Openness will be good to wear at this time. If she seems cranky or in a bad mood, that might be the time to pull out the Instant Female Magic.
Welcome to the forum, ankhbr! It’s great to see the community of phero-users growing, and misconceptions about pheromones (that they’re purely for sex) slowly being demolished by companies like Androtics. The Instant Openness and Instant Female Magic should work well for what you’re attempting to accomplish. The Instant Female Magic will calm her when she’s around you, make her feel comfortable, while the Instant Openness will make her talk to you. If I had to suggest something it would be Instant Honesty, as it will help you get past the chit-chat that Instant Openness might cause and get to the heart of things. Also, Instant Shine will just make her happy around you, and people like to be around people that make them feel happy.
Maybe when she gets comfortable enough, you could add a spray of Turn Up the Heat, covered with other pheros like IFM, Instant Openness, or IShine to buffer it. Get her to at least notice you sexually. The slight sexual attraction might be a good way to switch tracks, even though you probably wouldn’t be acting on the attraction. It would be there, a sort of light tension, and once planted, she’ll start seeing you as a good choice, and her body will start seeing you as a potential mate. That might sound bad (or not) but the feedback from her body will start the necessary chemical changes to cause her to really start to feel that way about you, even if she has not intention at the moment of getting physical. I might be wrong, but my advice seems logical enough, at least to me. Others will be here soon to help out.
By the way, do you plan to use the pheros anywhere else besides on her? Perhaps at work or with other friends?
i see you’ve ordered some pheros already!
idont know too much about guy’s pheros and im sure the guys will give you a good suggestion but i can tell you that instant openness is a great convo opener and people will want to talk to you longer and more
also for your situation, i woudltn use too much sexual pheros yet.. have you considered instant honesty? it gives off the vibe that you connect well with the girl and maybe ease her into considering you as a more than friend more ..
Hi ankhbr! As a woman, I am going to second Vespero’s good advice. Don’t be afraid to use a little bit (like 1 spray to your upper chest) of TUTH in this situation along with your socials (IO and IFM) … right now you’re in friend zone with her and you don’t want to stay there!
If you had some A314 or Instant Gentleman, that would be perfect along with your small dose of TUTH - strong and protective but very much a man and not a girlfriend! Good luck!
Yes, it seems like a good idea trying to put a little bit of TUTH, to create some tension. Putting it alongside Instant Openness and Female Magic, right?
Will do it, applied on wrists or behind ears…
Today I tried 1 spray of IO when I went out with a couple friends, next time will try 2.
At home, I also tried IFM on the back of my neck to see if I felt any “self-effect” (as some do, like a little depression). None felt, for now. Will keep observing.
Yes. She’s the biggest purpose, but not the only one. I will be trying at work, too. And today I started my first test with friends.
I absolutely love it when the members come by and make my job incredibly easy. I mean the advice given here today is exactly what I would have said and suggested (rep points).
ankhbr, you’re also doing a bang-up job, by taking the advice of your fellow forum friends and running with it. You’ll see, over time, the more you post the quicker you will become a reporting user and as such will get most advanced products in the store discounted to half price. Again, its as easy as posting your reports, questions and insights regularly.
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