I need an advice in how to break the “don’t touch me” vibe
For example, I have a 21yr female friend who is very extroverted, playful and talkative.. she occasionally shows some IOI’s.. but she have a very strong physical barrier which makes she feels uncomfortable.
In this case, she had a very positive response response from Ammo, but the “don’t touch me” (or “dont get too close”) vibe was still there.
This is where you have to put in your part, the pheromones are already doing there part. Now you are the only one who can fix this. If you can’t, then maybe you will have to move on as she might be feeling uncomfortable for a reason.
Oh, I wasn’t saying just because of you. Perhaps she has deep personal issues that affect her wanting to get close to a guy, or be touchy feely. I suggest you REALLY talk to her as a good friend, and basically be honest and ask her that you notice that she seems to have this “barrier” around her. I think she may actually tell you a reason why, so add some IH and IO before asking her so she can be open to you verbally and honestly.
Is she Aquarius? Those types are too often all talk and no action.
In any case, maybe she has high barriers? That can be an appropriate choice for a woman. You either overcome that with male strength of character or you find another TG. I recommend the latter course since there seems little sign you going to get anywhere as-is.
Good combo, if you want to take things slow you could do 2x ifm and 1 shot ammo. That would be good because she’d feel really safe and secure around you but you wouldn’t lose all sexual presence. Then next time around you could switch the ammo for tuth or apply 2 shots of ammo instead of 1.
Taurus. But she really acts like you said: Talks a lot, but run away when the subject is ‘action’.
Moving on has always been an option, but is hard do it cos she ocasionally show some IoI’s…
i dont know i may be old fashioned but if you cant get her to move into the “action” phase why try and use chemicals to get that from her.
stick to what you think works for you as far as pheros and try getting to the bottom of it with conversation. if you think its pheros that got you where you are currently let it be you and your conversation that brings it home.
When I read “nutter” I see that as a nut case, wacko, strange in the head.
Nutter - that’s my general notion of Acquarians!
Never heard of Gegogi’s explanation but then we move in different circles and often have differring perspectives.
As to Taurus - some of best lays there are, especially if you like 'em plumb and soft. Get ready for some serious digging! But then, I’m also an Earth sign (Capricorn.) The throat is a definite erogenous zone for most of them. Hint -ask her to sing for you.