callin all men that used to b shy, plz help me b more sociable

You should get one of those 3 inch sketcher boots. I wear them in cold days.

im not knockin your advice, i appreciate it actually. but i realize ima b short with or without some shoes. so what i am tryin to do is just be happy in my own skin. yeah im short as hell. but im funny, smart, stable. i have a lot of good in me too. and people on here helped me see that light at the end of the tunnel. so no shoes for me. ima just b happy with who i truly am.

dam that nlp stuff is really workin…

You came to the right place, I can see you have a more positive outlook on your life and that is an accomplishment in itself. You should be proud of yourself but you are just starting your journey toward becoming the man you have always wanted to be. I gotta wait three weeks for this ultimate edge program to get here but I hope its worth the time and the money. Im a Entrepreneurship major so Im hoping I can benefit from it.

So what kind of NLP training have you guys had - and what works? I have been reading about NLP and it would seem like NLP and mones really could mix very well together .

now don’t get me wrong im sure diff people teach in different ways. but i believe that all nlp is the same. i have been listening mostly to audio books cuz i been to busy to actually stop and read. but so far i been listening to a lot of tony roberts, real good stuff. kinda weird cuz he says Wat im thinkin and its a dam audio book. so i like the fact that he speaks from experience. but mainly what i been hearin over and over is affirmations. they really help me a lot. for instance i have trouble bein in large groups of people…iraq… i been avoiding crowded places a long time. so today i hyped myself up to walk through the mall. i was nervous as hell. but im in my mind i sorta chanted a little affirmation. and i just didn’t let my negative thoughts speak their mind. i forced myself to refuse what my normal thoughts were. bout an hour into walkin the mall i was actually calm. so calm i wasn’t doin the affirmation. so mainly what im sayin is when my mind says everyone is lookin at u. i just say yeah they r lookin cuz they like Wat they see. basically i try to turn whatever my neg minds tells me to something positive. i just refuse my natural programming. long road ahead but these baby steps and the mones r helpin. is io and ih work wonders. some people r tellin me too much. but the io and is helps me smile and talk more. which is something i rarely ever did

Now that what IM talking about dood! Mall is where the women are. but how did you get your audiobook so soon though, I gotta wait three weeks for it

definitely proud of these baby steps im takin. and by no means do i claim or assume that im “cured”, i just know that nlp helps. all the things i say i can’t do, im actually doin. so i know i have a very very very long way to go. but to see such fast results and all i have to do is tell myself something. definitely opened my eyes. thanx and i hope nlp helps u out. im not even sure which books i have on my computer whenever i have time ima read more. the audio books r good to.

well i am not tryin to get banned from pherotalk cuz i really like this place. so i can give a very subtle hint but my lips r sealed on this one. but you seem cool so im sure u can figure out what im sayin. go to thesaurus.com and type in cascade. look at all the synonyms and u will find the answer to your question. good luck man

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Your tone sound positive, and you seem motivated. How’s Fort Campbell?:slight_smile:

MVKBUGATTI

there is allot of info about the phero part so i am not even gonna try, but with the height part,

wear height riser shoes, they are hidden heels that gives you from 2.5 - 4 inchs height plus more condifence when walking. I use them , and i am like 5.6-5.7 … search them online, i would send you the links but i am not sure if i can do that here so pm me, just search online, there is a few store…

…take the P___ off the pedistol…

Even hot Girls Take a $hit.

P.S… it smells…

ft campbell seems okay. only been here bout a day. now clarksville :smiley::smiley::smiley::smiley::smiley::smiley:, yea ima like it here…

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now let me ask u a funny question. but before i do…NO HOMO!!! now what the fuck do u do when u get a girl back to your place and get naked? she has to feel weird when u r shorter all of a sudden.

that made me laugh, thanx. but its easy to say that yet no one can explain it. pedestal or not i still gotta figure out what to do

never supplicate bro - u dont need to be taller.

there are a shit load of tall people not gettin laid. that is just another negative self belief that allows u to accept not going for what u want.

NOT TO MENTION A HUGE DLV(demonstration of lower value) WHEN SHE FINDS OUT.

women are way more concerned with ur overall social skills then ur looks plain and simple or ur damn height.

guys that;

can make them laugh
make them comfortable ( sharing life storys)
protect them
make them jealous (true attraction)
and show there social group which he optimally should be the leader of

will attract her a damn sight more then ur height

maybe if u were 3 feet tall it would play a legetimate factor but like i said

there are short people gettin laid at this moment without any platforms shoes on.

yea i feel u man. we can only control certain things. sux but thats life. as far as social skills. ha! ima have to go huntin for social skills for dummies. i got zero, i try but its just not a natural thing for me. i am getting a little better. actually been lookin up instead of down, well most of the time anyway

like I said hit up the pua communities specifically dedicated to help people learn how to socialize with skill.

venusianarts forum

there are numerous others but i only use venusian arts forum.

AND GO OUT

EVEN IF IT KILLS U; ONLY WAY TO LEARN IS TO PRACTICE AS WITH ANYTHING ELSE IN LIFE !

Don’t get stuck in the so called venusianarts forums dude.

Most of the stuff is crap… and has no bearing on who they are as a person.

Trust me… learn psychology, or just work on bettering yourself one thing at a time.

Anyone want to bust my balls on pua stuff, I’ll tell you where to meet me.

as a city moderator and lair leader I’d be glad to invite you for a weekend trip.

:wink:

I made a thread about breaking out of your shell a while back. It has a few tips from personal experience.