Can Pheros Confuse a Guy's Feelings for You?

Wow, ya’ll are on fire over here! LOL!

Well, let me give you an update on my TG. This quite long.

Last night I went to his house; he hosted a social night followed by a trip to see fireworks.

Product: IS/A To-Go w/some EOW mixed in. Also some residuals from IO I sprayed earlier that day.

Dosage: One spray to each wrist and one spray to back of neck.

Environment: TG’s home and later on outside in a grassy area (to watch fireworks)

Duration: 4.5 hours

Self-Effects: Felt a boost of confidence and mood elevation. Slight sexual arousal. Increased feelings of sensuality.

Effects on Others: Overall,women were a bit standoffish. Men were receptive. This is interesting, because I have worn IS/A at work, and I usually get a positive responses from women there, exhibited in increased respect and attention. Kind of a status boost and I feel that acknowledgment from them. This time, the women I was around (whom I hadn’t seen for over a week) were a bit reticent towards me. They would greet me warmly, then back away and give me some distance. Like I said, the men were very much friendly and receptive to me.

Received warm welcome from Girl 1, but then she backed away.

TG/Host was distracted by preparing food and greeting guests. No response from him until later.

Felt a little invisible to others, but still felt confident.

I struck up a conversation with Girl 2, who is very quiet and reserved. She was hard to engage, but I kept the conversation going by asking her tons of questions. Finally, when there was a pause, I excused myself to get some ice cream.

Girl 3/other group leader, a bit standoffish and guarded. Warmed up much later in the evening though.

Girl 4/quasi alpha?, quiet, guarded, was skimming a book. We had a short conversation. Later, when preparing to play Catch Phrase, she tried to assert “authority” over me by telling me to move over to the end of the couch so that Girl 1 could sit down. I kind of ignored Girl 4 b/c Girl 1 clearly wanted to sit on the floor. Then Girl 4 asked me to move over again, and was very “extra” in her delivery. I said sure in a nonchalant way. Girl 1 again verbally expressed that she wanted to sit on the floor, so I kind of laughed to myself and shook my head. Girl 4 kind of apologized and removed herself from the game and sat behind me on the floor. I don’t really recognize her authority, because in my mind, she has none. I think that is why there is friction between us. She was kind of bitchy towards me, and that didn’t seem usual for her.

Later on we drive to fireworks show. TG rides with me :slight_smile:. I’m sure he got a good whiff of the IS/A while in the car. We get to the site, and to my delight, he ends up sitting next me on the grass with Guy 1. Oh, I should say Guy 1 and I chatted a bit at the house, talked about my work. Guy 1 is nice, but I’m not really interested in him.

I talk with TG during the fireworks, and he asks me about group salsa dancing later this month, and I tell him it’s still on. He then tells me about his interest in shag dancing and how he wants to check it out. I say I’d be interested and that he should set it up. He is very enthusiatic about this. Then later back at his place again, group plays another round of Catch Phrase, and he reminds me about shag dancing. I reiterate that we’d be salsa dancing on Sunday and shagging on the following Thursday. He’s all for it! :smiley: We chit chat. He gives me a hug before I leave.

Oh, and I chat with Guy 2, who is old enough to be my father, about his energetic daughters who were with him. He puts his hand on my waist when he responds. Interesting.

So, I think the evening with IS/A was a success. I got to talk more with my TG, and I got some good subtle hits with the other men. I have to say that they have always been friendly to me, even before I started wearing pheros. It just seems like now, their attention gravitates towards me a little more.