You could run mones to shoo her friend out such as A314.
Ha ha phero-bomb him LOL
It was too late to do anything last night so I’m glad I didn’t apply any mones. We did chat for about an hour before gong to sleep though.
I’ve got 2 drops of A314 on at the moment.
I may scrub that off later and run P131 solo when we put a movie on.
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ah ![]()
Horrendous Day.
Worst Day ever?
YES
I’m not going into details as this is supposed to be phero journey but as my life is the backdrop to this I supposed I’d better give a summary.
I had to pack and leave but I’m back now. I did get as far as my parent’s house where I was offered a room. But for reason’s of insanity I came back home.
I did also write out a more detailed summary but it was long - despite being a summary. It was boring. And it made her out to be a bitch. So I deleted it.
Anyway, things are still a complete and utter nightmare and we still haven’t watched that movie, but at least she is out for the day. ![]()
woohoo - she’s kicking me out again. and she’s not even here to do it!
4 times in 3 days new PB!
I strongly suggest wearing the same mix every day so she doesn’t get confused and stop testing other stuff on her. I’m going to send you P74 at 12.5mcg - wear it with A314 and IH around her every day… Hope it’ll help you get her on your side… It’s hard for a woman to be mad at you when you wear P74, it’s very sweet, sociable and light…
Thanks very much for your help ![]()
She seemed a bit calmer when I spoke to her on the phone sheesh.
I suppose she’s not the best candidate for testing. I was mone free yesterday and so far all day today. Didn’t seem much point in putting it on before she went out.
I’ll put some on before she comes home ![]()
Yikes mate, that sounds awful.
Hopefully things get sorted out, in her head,
I have posted in my journal for a while because things have not been good at all. ![]()
I don’t want to go into details because it’s just plain embarrassing to lead the sort of life I am living right now.
There had to be a lull in this storm and it seemed to happen yesterday. thanks to still18 I had some P74 to combine with IH.
Those two together may have helped that lull arrive sooner.
I don’t care if I get friendzoned - it’s safer there LOL
Frankly, it’ll be easier to get out of the friendzone once there than to get out of this situation whilst trying to remain a couple…
My parents have offered support in case I decide to bail - and they really want me to bail now, but I’m not ready to throw in the towel. This is last chance saloon.
Thanks for reading and thanks for all the support ![]()
It will not friend zone you, it will establish your bond. At worst it will make things amicable for the kids, which if all things implode will be the important one’s.
Thank goodness Still18 sent you some P74, he is a class act.
I’ll 2nd that ![]()
I think you were absolutely correct. In fact 2 drops is too much and I don’t think 1 will work either.
I couldn’t be sure because her cycle is all over the place but she came on yesterday…
I wasn’t sure because she was late last month. So did she have her dates right? I just didn’t know.
It makes sense now. Her anger was on a different level this month - it stayed at high peaks for hours and was quite hysterical at times. I’ve seen this kind of hysterical anger in her before a few times, but several times over a few days? That was not normal.
I’m armed with a calendar now and together with the dates I have for last month I should be able to start predicting her much better. I just need to find out (gently) when her period ends. Last time she was 5 days late and her period only lasted 1 day ![]()
So no ENONE for next month at all on the run up to that time. I have some suggested products to order and try out for then too. There’s no point in going completely phero free. I have 7 years worth of baselines to go by, so if I don’t get to test special products I’ve always got socials especially P74 and IH to fall back on.
Once again thanks to everyone for the support ![]()
When you do go with ENONE products, I would try Summer Ammo first, as the P130 helps you be non-reactive, which means her temper will not bother you as much as well as the TAA/IS and Ammo being a solid mix to begin with.
I was feeling adventurous today and went with:
4x MX427 (TAA) to the wrists and neck
2x p131 neck
1x heavy ammo split between the wrists
2 A314 behind ears
Applied about 1:30PM
Reasoning: Things are OK. Things went OK with this mix on too. ![]()
It was the closest I could get to Summer AMMO 2012 with my usual base sig of A314. I layered the TAA with the HEAVY AMMO. I put the AMMO on after the TAA so that it would slow the diffusion of the TAA. I also layered P131 with the TAA on my neck, again with P131 on 2nd - not sure if that would have the effect in slowing down the diffusion or not.
I was quite chilled. Some things that would normally irritate me still did but much less so. The kids played up so no where near as effective as IS, but overall a good mix.
No hits to report as I was mostly outside at the coast. The only time I spent inside was in the car or in the chippy which was very quiet and the central library which was cool with the A/C on.
Tonight I am reverting to P74 and IH (my usual around the SO atm). I’ll scrub off everything except the A314.
As noted in my previous post though A314 is out the window for that special time of the month.
Last night was OK I was wearing
2x P74
2x IH
It gets me snippets of deep stuff here and there.
Baby steps for now…
I went with 2x HEAVY AMMO yesterday on the inside of each elbow along with my usual 2 drops of A314 behind the ears. I also had 2 x IS dbl strength on the neck.
The day went OK although my eldest step son played up all day (that’s quite usual for him mones or no mones although I’ve found in the past IS helps here a lot but not yesterday).
I got a peck off my SO - the first since those horrific few days I had around my birthday.
Last night I went with 4x P74 [50mcg] and 4x IH. We watched a movie - not an awful lot of chit chat, but about 2AM neither of us could sleep. I initiated sex and got it… This is quite unusual esp so soon after an argument (several days I know!!!).
I always find BNOL (molecule in IH) key for making women comfortable enough to have sex, it’s something about trust and a sense of connection that makes women want to be intimate.
It’s been the most consistent product for me so far ![]()
In an earlier post last week I blamed ENONE for “irritating” my SO to the point of hysteria (along with arguments etc). It now seems in the light of recent threads that it might well have been the Androsterone content of A314.
A314 was the only thing I was wearing at the time.
it seems that masculinity and alpha vibes do not mix well with my SO during her period.
Although I won’t be risking it any time soon ENONE may well be OK around her - especially as I wore plenty of TUTH around her last month (caveat she did have a cold)
I am glad you got lucky and are figuring out what, and more importantly, when to use mones.
Not posted in a while. things have been very rough.
But, yesterday was the best of all the rough days and actually went quite well in the evening.
Usual 2x a314 during the day.
Evening scrubbed up.
MX415 with Body Kouros as a cover scent. [edit: I mean MX412]
Then later on for the night I added:
10mcg TUTH
40mcg TAC
2x IS dbl strength
The night proved to be very successful ![]()
Considering the last week of hell I’ve been though it was exceptionally raunchy. We’re both knackered after the late night last night though so I’ll lay off the TUTH tonight. Time for some IH and P74 ![]()
edit: I was mone free for the worst of the rows so I can’t blame the mones for that although I can thank them for last night ![]()