Dee PawPaw's Journal

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Women's Journals
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I bought a handful of pheromones to brighten up my life.

I have Come and talk to me, TAL, TAF, Instant Shine, Instant Honesty and P83.
I have only tried TAL, TAF and Instant Shine so far. I did not want to confuse myself by wearing all at the same.

Instant Shine appears to have a masculine smell. Nevermind. Not that it bothers me. I got TAL and TAF in chocolate and vanilla scent. I like the vanilla scent better. It appears clean and fresh. While the chocolate scent has a more dark, mysterious, pulling aspect to it. Almost secretive. You need to be a certain type to pull it off.

I wear all of them together - so I am sure I smell funny :smiley:. Not that it matters.

Instant Shine puts me in a lighter and relaxed mood. I am more talkative, and relaxed with people. Due to that, people appear more comfortable with me. I am not necessarily confident, perhaps just more relaxed.

I am not sure if TAL makes an Angelina Jolie sexy vibe. I am wearing the 7.5gm per spray strength. I spray twice across my chest. I wear it at work. I cannot see any notable differences. My workmates are not falling at my feet or anything like that.

On the other hand, I noticed that a particular woman who saw me as a competitor for a role that we were both interested in does not appear comfortable in making contact with me. Do I intimidate her? But that is the only time, I noticed something peculiar. In the past, this woman has always been friendly towards me regardless of what she felt about me inside her head.

I am unsure if its Instant Shine or TAL but I appear to care less of what others think of me. I used to be very self conscious before. I feel less inhibited now, and I definitely flirt more with vendors although I dont tend to cross the line.

I feel more assured, and more in control. As if I can perform under pressure while smiling all the time.

I am not sure what TAF is doing to me. Perhaps, it makes me bit hyperactive (like doing tasks in a quicker manner) and focussed (?). Cannot fully explain because I am confused myself …

Will post more :slight_smile:

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Solo testing should lend you some answer. :smiley:

Good stuff you got here. :slight_smile: Im subscribing. :slight_smile:

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Welcome Dee,
Now I don’t feel so badly about the way I started. I seemed to almost go all in. I had a blast, but for testing sake, it is quite true, its hard to differentiate.

Happy testing!

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2 days after I started wearing TAL and Instant Shine, my manager’s manager on whom I have a crush on came near my desk and stood there for 2 whole minutes, typing something onto his phone. I mean he could have typed something on his phone anywhere. Why did he have to stand near my desk to do that? Was it TAL & Instant Shine pulling him to me? I do not know…

I always get tongue tied around this guy. I was too scared to say anything to him :frowning:. He has an intimidating vibe. Perhaps, he wears the A314 pheromone… lol…

I think I may come off more charming and flirtish (and even witty!) since wearing Instant shine. Even towards women. Not that I want to sleep with them, but I feel that I do that in order to build a rapport with them. But I feel natural doing that. I do not feel like I have a calculated agenda doing this.

I flirt like crazy on the phone with vendors. I make small talk. I make them feel quite comfortable. I ask about their kids and family. Their holiday plans. You get the idea :slight_smile:…

I also feel that I have become more easy going and forgiving towards most people at work. I did not used to be like this before. I was pretty stiff, and was a ‘no-small-talk’ sort of person who cut to the chase. I feel that I could do sales now if I wanted to know. You know, you need a special sort of personality to be good in sales. I think I may pull it off if given the opportunity :slight_smile: :slight_smile:!

Even when people are behaving less than ideal with me (perhaps, they are being rude or put me down, etc), I feel more empathetic towards them. I do not necessarily feel angry. In fact, some instances, I feel sorry for them?! OMG, what are these pheromones doing to me :smiley:?

It appears that I have increased my tolerence for bullsh!t from other people whilst taking note of it for future references. I also appear to have become more patient and in control of the situation. Even when my manager is losing his head over what one of the project team members had done, I held myself together, and even managed to console him! Usually, I am the one losing my head and going hysterical.

On the other hand, I appear to hold to grudges that I held before I started wearing my pheromones. Is that weird or what ?! Intriguing!

Despite all the wonderful things that have happened above, my boyfriend is not any nicer to me. He is grumpy and unhelpful as usual. And does not follow my commands. Bad dog! Lol…

Also, I am not any less shy in working meetings with senior managers. I don’t talk at all. I do not contribute. All I do is listen. I fear they think I do not have much to contribute. I need to get over this!! Any tips, ladies? I think I become intimidated by these people with big ideas, and big mouths. You find that some of the participants talk for the sake of talking without actually contributing anything substantial. But at least they are talking. How do I get myself to talk?! My muteness at working meetings drives me crazy. I am pretty good one on one. Do I have douse myself in Instant Shine for this? I am not sure if that is recommended…

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Hit on Yourself: Dee PawPaw’s Journal

You may or may not believe it, but that clam in the office used to be me… I had a situation today where I wanted to disappear into the wall, but I find I have more confidence with the pheromones. I think you just have to find a combination that helps you feel confident and empowered, and yes I realize that sounds like a sales line, it actually is true.

I have the same experience. I didn’t hold grudges or anything before really, things that might have bothered me before don’t really bother me now, and that somehow makes me so much more attractive to people, both guys and girls, though I love men too much to switch teams.
Check my post if you don’t believe me, and I promise you there are others who share some of these experiences.

I wore Instant Sexiness B today and Turn it up (Turn up the Heat) with two old mones that I don’t think are listed.

I think (and mind you, I’m still fairly new) you should try Instant Sexiness B and possibly put Instant Shine with it or Turn Up The Heat. Ensure you place a spray where you can get a hit on the sexiness to boost your own confidence a bit because I think people are noticing you, you just have to notice you so to speak. I wear mones for me, and I enjoy seeing what they do to others. It seems you are enjoying what they are doing to others and are missing out on a good portion of the fun.

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Great thank you, Lillian. I agree that I have to find the combination that works for me :slight_smile:.

Thank you for recommending the pheromones :slight_smile:

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No worries.

I’ve been kicking around in here for the last few weeks and can tell you DeeA, Sonni and Justintime469 can direct you maybe more specifically to items that may work for you. I wouldn’t disregard others as exceptional, I just see these chaps a lot in threads I read and they give some good recommendations as well as breakdowns.

They will kindly also request you start a journal to post your results, that works for us as a community, but for you as well to see your progress. If at some point you are wondering if you as a person have changed while using these mones, you can easily look back into your journal and decide for yourself.

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Very nice journal so far. I agree in that sometimes I tend to wear a bunch of things together without really testing to. Just have fun and enjoy it. I test a lot of things and sometimes put to much thought into my combos. Test and get a good base of ones you do like though so at least you have something to put together for any situation.