I’d rather go for the person I like the most and feel comfortable with. Otherwise, even if you just wanta do the nasty you still gotta spent time with her and talk, turning it into a shallow and dissatisfying experience.
I suppose I did word that wrong, Gegogi… What I should have said would be more along the lines of going for the best target for you individually… I have seen some very high class women out there, walked up to talk to them, and been horrified with their personality almost immediately, sending me running. But I went up to talk to them, since I’ll never judge a target by their looks… The old “book-by-it’s-cover” adage applies here… I do still believe that high expectations bring high results, though. If you walk up to a target believing that you’re not going to get the time of day, then you won’t. But if you walk up to them already KNOWING that they’re interested, then odds say it, they will be. Even if you wouldn’t fall into their usual ‘type’, they will still sense the confidence in your smile, and I have yet to meet a woman who doesn’t find confidence attractive.
What I look for in body language is “Is this girl sitting beside me acting similarly or differently from the 10 other girls seated further away?”
Today, again in orchestra when my phero sig is at it’s peak, the chica sitting beside me was probably the most talkative person that day during class & made many little noises that probably only I could hear, but then again, barely no one talked. Today was different though.
Simple compare & contrast.
Dont mean to be crude but you KNOW youve got her when you hear a vart. Its a unique sound i got once with MX203 and a blonde Starbucks barista, again with MX103 and a Filipino. The reaction is a mix of embarassment and also somewhat “wow its warm in here.”
What about sneezing? One lady goes through a sneezing spell when she eats with me- i figured it was a spice in her Chinese food, but could it be her VNO?
I would also add leaning towards you and taking in deep whiffs as another IOI, deep inhalation was listed in this thread but I’ll add when they lean towards you or rest on their hand taking in deep whiffs you know they are affected.
