Hi guys!!! I’ve been checking out this site ever since a friend told me about pheromones and how they work. Now, I know it’s different for different people, but I sure hope it works for me!!
Just a bit about myself: I’m 30, female, and can be quite shy with strangers. I’ve noticed that I try to put up a really competent front when speaking to new people. This could be due to the fact that I’m a woman in a male-dominated work environment (I’m in engineering, based in Asia). Because of that, I sometimes come across as being a little aggressive, and this tends to put people off. This can be detrimental to both my work life and social life as well, since there are dating opportunities in the work context as well.
From reading the posts, it seems that I should be getting IS/B to soften that out a bit. I’m hoping to use IS/B in both social as well as work-related contexts, to soften others’ perception of me. Why IS/B and not A is that I think the aggressiveness bit is not going away, so I’m sort of looking to soften it up a little. My friend squirted sone instant shine on me but that doesn’t seem to work for me, so I’m looking for alternatives to start off.
Hi and welcome PrincessBee. First things first. Go here and read; fill in the blanks on your intro post (you can hit the edit button) so Mickaelia can issue your GC when she sees this next week.
Then read the others to get an idea of where you’re starting. These are so helpful and the information is in an orderly fashion; and easy to find again.
What is it you’re wanting to achieve with mones? How did you find this forum? Those kinds of things and the second link will give you basic descriptions. Start with the socials: Instant Honesty; Instant Openness; Instant Shine and (not really a social) Instant Sexiness/B.
Those are the best places to start. IS/B is great for confidence as well as feeling sexy. The others are aimed at men to wear.
Again, welcome to the forum; read some journals and have fun planning what you want to do.
As Astrea said please give us some more information so that we can tailor suggestions specifically to what will work best for you.
Also, I would not give up on Instant Shine (It’s a great product!) because it did not work the first time on you. You have to experiment with these products and find your sweet spot (the number of sprays that work best for YOU)
Thanks guys for the quick response! I’ve also read research in some threads that pheromones have limited effects on the Asian men and women. This could explain the non-effects with instant shine. I’m wondering in this case if I should even attempt this at all!
If you read what was there; different mones appear to work with certain ethnic minorities better than others. Traditional Asians and (dot) Indians don’t really respond to the sexual mones but better result with the social and respect mones. Culturally, the sex aspect isn’t a concern in their societal values. Respect and social standing are.
The one spray of IS as ClintX pointed out; was only 1 spray and you haven’t done any testing. I don’t have a response to one spray of IS.
Sweet spot testing is finding the number of sprays that’s your perfect effect is what it is; not a location on the body. That’s one of the links I gave you. Please read them, then ask the questions that come when you’re planning. All the information is in a nice orderly fashion and answers the questions you’re asking now. But in an order that makes sense.
Some persons try these products once and bam they get results. With others it takes some time and coaching.
I suggest you try instant shine using the sweet spot method before giving up and if it really does not work for you then products like Instant openness and honesty will work to soften your image.
The ladies will be able to assist you even further in the female section.
Thanks again guys! And thanks mickaelia for the gc!! Ok I’m swayed by public opinion, and will try instant shine and instant sexiness B! Question: since IS/B isn’t available at the moment, is there an expiry date on the gc? When is it expected to be restocked?
