Experiments with female roomates

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I currently live with two females. One is 27 the other is 41, and both very attractive. I have noted some sexual tension from both but also know that they are probably under the stance that if I was to sleep with either one it could cause problems, kind of like apprehension about sleeping with someone you work with.

So, I just received my order of ammo and will be ordering Instant Shine and either Instant Openness or Instant Honesty followed by A134 soon.

This will be a log of my findings.

Initially the younger roommate was here today and I put on a single spray to the back of my neck after taking a hot shower and just walked by her to introduce my new scent. She has been a little plugged up recently so I don’t know if it will be picked up like normal. When she was leaving for work she came in the kitchen and seemed to have a slight smile and her eyes seemed a little twinkley (I am making up words here), basically seemed slightly excited, but I also am rational and I might just notice more things because I am actually looking in detail for responses that just could be the same without wearing it.

I will add another spray or 2 when my older roommate gets back in a little bit.

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ooh alll that ammo will get ms.41 alll riled up :wink:

You probably already know that older women can take, and seem to like more none. I don’t think hooking up with roomates will be good in the long run. You can have a fuck buddy for a bit, but then you risk losing the friendship you had.

Just my 2 cents.

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Yes thank you for the lookout. I did read about older women and --none so I think I have a little playground for experiments with different products and amounts with the age gaps :slight_smile:

I totally support your other comment too. I would not consider it if I did not have a lot of experience with casual friendships and what to watch out for or say when etc. The older is pretty sexual too and have clarified time and time again about my position on that type of thing. In past experiences I have only had one or two that really ended up expressing frustration because they wanted a relationship, but I talked it out and I am still great friends with everyone I have been involved with. So yes, with your advice I am certainly going to be very careful and will only move on opportunities that I am confident that the right understanding is there.

Thanks again for your response and an extra nudge as far as making sure i don’t jump in over my head lol.

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When I was a young 'n stupid college student (little brain in control), I banged a couple of my housemates. Was great for a short time but I ended up looking for a new place to live when things went to shit a short time later.

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Not sure if my prior comment will have shown up before this one but trust me I know what you are saying and I think my other post clarifies that. Chances are I wouldn’t even If I had the opportunity. The main thing that I love is knowing I am driving someone crazy even if nothing happens.

For instance I dance really well and have competed in some various styles before. When I go out I will catch women checking me out and sometimes I will go up to them or where they are sitting and totally flirt with them which of course if their friends were watching to and the particular one receives the attention you know she feels flattered that you came up to her. Then I will just walk away sometimes. The fact of just knowing that as I walk away they are giggling and talking and knowing that I probably made her night in a non physical way gives me a little bit of a rush. So again my goal in this is not to sleep with either of them, but more to see the effects and if it works right just enjoy the fact that I know they are getting worked up. I have other sources for the physical stuff that bear no burden of worry about friendship :slight_smile:

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Interesting, I had posted two replies that never showed up. Ill see if they are awaiting mod approval before trying to reconstruct what I wrote =(

Anyways, Gegogi, I could not agree with you more. When people are younger there always seems to be a stigmata that sex has to mean something emotionally even after the act. Especially with women at a younger age, men too, there is the whole jealousy aspect that even if you have casual fun there is still an emotional impact that can lead to problems if the other person is starts flirting or sleeping with someone else.

My favorite are “cougars” for the last four years, late thirties to early forties. After having children at an early age, accepting my responsibilities to the fullest, a marriage and divorce, running my own business for 6 years among other things for some reason I just do not often relate with women my age. The other thing is that with older women sex is not taboo for most, by then you kind of figure out that it is fun and feels amazing and doesn’t require attachments, you don’t have to play games to beat around the bush or try to manipulate the situation to gain the other persons comfort level with you.

I am on great terms with everyone I have been with and only some differences with ones I actually dated for a while. Of course over the years I have lost contact with many but know if I bumped into them we would break into great conversations. I believe that to be that I always say up front what the situation is and if that is a problem then lets not.

Regardless, I will clarify that the end goal here is not to have sex with them, I am a fanatic of seduction and I am sure if I put effort into it I could. I am interested in seeing with the aid of pheromones that I can visually see a change in there behavior to where they have a hard time hiding that they are feeling extremely turned on and it will provide a great environment to test different combinations etc. I kind of get a rush knowing that someone is completely turned on even if it doesn’t go anywhere, and I could just say the words and we would be embraced if i followed up with it.

So to exemplify my agreement with your statement I would have major concerns if I were to sleep with the younger one than if something happened with the older. I have already had conversations with her about sex and know she can differentiate between casual fun, closeness, comfort and emotional intimacy. So regardless of the study or not I would make damn sure there was an understanding and that it wasn’t just b.s. and I could truly tell that they were on the same page.

Thanks for the heads up and the words of caution! I can always value a good lookout.

Also, is there anyone that agrees or disagrees with what I stated, I am interested in other peoples experiences.

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When you’re new the mods will have to approve your posts.

Once you’ve been around a bit longer then they’ll show up right away.

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Thank you Baldman, I figured that was the case and then there was a post i made shortly after those on another persons post that showed right away so I got confused :slight_smile:

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You got it jb! Hi and welcome…:slight_smile:

Yeah that happens, lol. :smiley: Sometimes repeatedly…great if ya don’t mind moving or are already on your way out the door, lol…

That’s because, most, haven’t matured enough. So, they’re mentally and emotionally unequipped to make that distinction between love and sex. They think they go/havetogo hand in hand…soooo not true. It has a lot to do with brain chemistry.

No commitments, no real emotional ties, other than sex and both of you like/want it that way…perfect! That’s why some guys like them.

No hassels and no complaints on either side. TCB right up front. :wink: …don’t like the terms?..no deal. Simple.
Kinda like buyin’ a good used car…you use it for as long as you want/can then trade it in for another model, let’s call it a ‘new used’ one…other car’s not complaining, ‘cause it’s exactly what she wanted and is goin’ out with a bang!
Really not my scene, but hey, to each his own…believe me, I understand perfectly why this is so appealing…to both sides.

It’s good to be a person, not a just a hormonal animal, in any sexual situation…people will speak well of you and you can feel good about yourself. Unselfish, really, and everybody gets what they want…hopefully. And about the rush?..ah..eeeeyeah! :smiley:

Good luck with your ‘experiments’…and keep us posted. :slight_smile:

Reps!

Bella

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Bella, thank you for all your input!

Yes i much rather prefer a single partner and falling in love, so much greater. But yes, in my position I have set a goal to build my business and for once be ahead of the curve rather than holding on with the whites of my fingers. So I abstain from involvement as my business requires a lot of time that If I would allow myself to get deeply involved my business would fail or the relationship would. So that is my sacrifice :slight_smile:

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sweet, good to hear your views on that too. I’ve also realized i’ve got sorta the same mentality, I would rather have fun, without all the emphasis on sex, otherwise it gets boring/bad things happen (like 4 bad ex’s :cry: ), except for the the fall in love aspect, i don’t see myself falling for anyone for a long while.

But ya with my gf currently, we decided not to have sex for about a month, just because when that happens, they go…“oooh I love you…” and shit they don’t mean.

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I’m like you in that it’s great for your confidence to get IOIs. It helps raise your own confidence and puts a spring in your step.

So go for it, my friend.

I guess so long as you’re not deliberately ‘playin with them’ and they already know where you stand, then fine.

As the others have said you know where the line is and it probably isn’t advisable to cross it IF you calue yoru friendship.

However, it may be that you get to a point where you don’t mind losing the friendship for something stronger with one of them. If so, that’s your choice as well.

For me, sometimes it is nice to just let things sort themselves out and see where they go (I control most other things in my life, so this is my release).

Nice thread.

Best of British :smiley:

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Understandable…nothin’ wrong with that!..as long as you don’t hurt yourself or anyone else in the process…but you already know that. :wink: