I want to start off by saying that I have been talking to this younger chic since the 4th of July. She does not live in my home town but she will be moving there in Jan.
She is 22 and I am 31, so there definitely is an age gap. She seems very interesting enough that I would be game at attempting something exclusive with her. But here is the problem…I think she had been burned big time in a previous long term relationship she had. I get the vibe that she is trying her best not to let any guys get close to her. Which actually is kind of crazy because she works as a shot girl for several liquor companies. She is a very fun /social pretty girl, who is for the most part enjoyable to spend time with.
The last time we hung out was for the Vikings game last Thurs night at my place (I had a party). She happened to be in town and I invited her over. I was wearing 2 drops of A314, 2x Ammo, 2x IO, 2x IH, 2x Shine. I was getting some IOIs from her, she sat next to me and would lean in close, but that could be because she didn’t know anyone too.
We chat maybe 2-3 times a week via text messages. I give here a lot of shit and always try to make she is the one making the first contact. I keep it as fun and playful as possible.
So here is what my question is, I will be going to the Twins and Vikings games this weekend and I asked her if she wanted to go. She said yes, so I expect to be seeing quite a bit of each other. What do you guys think I should wear to get her to feel as comfortable as possible with me. Here is a the list of what I have IO, IH, Shine, Ammo, A314, Tuth
This by far the slowest I have ever pursued a relationship. She is quite standoffish (almost like she is testing me) and I have yet to get anything other than a hug from her. I would like for her to feel very comfortable with me and loosen up a bit. I feel like I am at the point where I need to shit or get off the pot with this chic. Any advice would be great. Thank you.