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I want to start off by saying that I have been talking to this younger chic since the 4th of July. She does not live in my home town but she will be moving there in Jan.

She is 22 and I am 31, so there definitely is an age gap. She seems very interesting enough that I would be game at attempting something exclusive with her. But here is the problem…I think she had been burned big time in a previous long term relationship she had. I get the vibe that she is trying her best not to let any guys get close to her. Which actually is kind of crazy because she works as a shot girl for several liquor companies. She is a very fun /social pretty girl, who is for the most part enjoyable to spend time with.

The last time we hung out was for the Vikings game last Thurs night at my place (I had a party). She happened to be in town and I invited her over. I was wearing 2 drops of A314, 2x Ammo, 2x IO, 2x IH, 2x Shine. I was getting some IOIs from her, she sat next to me and would lean in close, but that could be because she didn’t know anyone too.

We chat maybe 2-3 times a week via text messages. I give here a lot of shit and always try to make she is the one making the first contact. I keep it as fun and playful as possible.

So here is what my question is, I will be going to the Twins and Vikings games this weekend and I asked her if she wanted to go. She said yes, so I expect to be seeing quite a bit of each other. What do you guys think I should wear to get her to feel as comfortable as possible with me. Here is a the list of what I have IO, IH, Shine, Ammo, A314, Tuth

This by far the slowest I have ever pursued a relationship. She is quite standoffish (almost like she is testing me) and I have yet to get anything other than a hug from her. I would like for her to feel very comfortable with me and loosen up a bit. I feel like I am at the point where I need to shit or get off the pot with this chic. Any advice would be great. Thank you.

Just wear what worked on her before. As they say, if it’s not broken, don’t try to “fix” it.

If she’s been recently burned that might be a good thing as she might be looking for guy who is more ‘grown up’ so the age difference may be a great thing. She may also be looking for you to make a first move as she has been burned lately as well. Just try to read what she’s thinking throughout the date and play off of that. For comfort I would stick with a little A314 along with IH. If you’re looking for a bit of attraction… even later in the date maybe put on some ammo and gauge her responses to that as well. Oh, I would also through IS over the mix as a whole as well… can never go wrong with that!
Let us know how things go… good luck!

If it was still available is suggest mx301 with A314.

The Twins is a baseball team and the Vikings is a football team. Wow, that is a contest I wanna see! Where can I get tickets?!! Ooops… I’m sorry. You said games (plural).

I remember a twenty-two year old I knew once. She had just gotten out of a relationship where the man treated her very badly, and he definitely had, too. The complete story, which I came to know later via a mutual acquaintance, is that this man – in the throes of ecstasy – offers her anything she wants. She asks him to build her a house! He does!! She doesn’t realize he is gonna want to live in the house with her. Think of the Spanish verb casarse. Long story short, getting rid of him and keeping the house didn’t work out for her. Instead she got a trip to the ER.

Twenty-two year olds have very little sense of propriety, especially those who act old for their age, especially those who work as “hired guns”. The latter tend to be narcissists, which kind of translates to little sense of propriety when dealing with the expectations of others.

It is entirely possible that she is just using you, though she doesn’t think of it that way, and when she actually moves there in January, she’ll drop you like a hot potato. It would be interesting to know what the guy’s side of the story is in that previous “long term” relationship where she feels she was burned big time. Note that her main job skill (shot girl) involves the mercenary manipulation of men. Note, also, that, at the age of twenty-two, she hasn’t been alive long enough to have had what many of us would call a serious long term relationship.

I think the “shit or get off the pot” attitude, though logically appropriate, could backfire big time. You don’t want to be accused of stalking or sexual assault, and you don’t need to be guilty of these to be accused. When sensitive young things sense pressure, especially from an older man, they can freak out and report their hallucinations to cops as truth. Plus the law only cares how the girl feels. I’ve seen it happen.

If your only other alternative is to put your heart on the line, I’d caution against it. Twenty-two year old girls change like the weather. If you can continue seeing her without expectations or emotional investment that’s the best case. It sounds like you might be letting yourself get way ahead of her, Mossible. Don’t lose this attitude:

As far as pheromones, I think the A314, IH an IS are great. I’d go with -

3x A314
4x IH
2x IS
1x TUTH

Some P86 would really top all that off nicely.

Ok, let me clarify my statement about shit or get off the pot. I didn’t mean I was going to attack her or put a bunch of pressure on her. What I was talking about was the fact that I usually don’t pursue anyone for more than a month. And now it is getting to the point where if nothing happens between us, I will completely lose interest in her.

What you are saying may very well be true about her using me and then dropping me once she gets here. I guess I will have to see. I do appreciate your feedback and I will keep posting updates.

I actually find the whole process interesting and am looking forward to seeing what happens myself.

2 drops of A314 (A314 Classic Edition – Trust & Respect Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314) , 1x Ammo , 2x IH , 2x Shine.

The A314 will last the longest followed by the –none which should cover you for about six hours. If you feel things are making headway, you may want to consider adding another spray Ammo later on. Yes, continue with the ‘Shine’ and Instant Honesty.

As was mentioned, MX301 is effective in attracting young ladies. This past Friday that stuff has brought a young lady out of nowhere to my feet. It seems to have a pull on young ladies.

Final thought, don’t play the ‘nice guy’ part. By that I mean, nice guys make good friends. LJBF! We don’t want ‘nice’ to be construe as weak.

Just be charming, funny, overtly confident, and unapolgetic (DHV). We all like challenges and so does she.:slight_smile:

Thank you for the advice. That is exactly the approach I plan to take. You have my word that higher value will be demonstrated. I expect that I will be the usual "gentle"man. Hopefully my teams win also!