Well, Sara, not having large breasts doesn’t mean that you’re not SEXY!
Men’s eyes are like “kaleidoscope”! Truly speaking, I found girls with exposed navels are sexy and it turns me on! Sorry, I didn’t mean to be rude or to offend anybody here, it’s just my likes/opinion.
well i’ve got a practiced eye for noticing frames. But I also hang out with a lot of Bodybuilders. So from a “professional” eye - i look for symmetry and overall muscularity.
But what gets me going? Initial attraction is to dark hair and dark eyes, but that never seems to be who i eventually find most appealing. My current guy is is blue-eyed with brown hair.
I love big arms and shoulders, and big traps and forearms get me everytime. along with solid legs. I don’t have to see abs, but they are always nice. and a nice muscular butt.
as far as personal style - i’m most comfortable with a cleancut, military type style. hair kept short or bald, no facial hair.
As far as faces - i like symmetry - but not necessarily classically good looks. Just a face that pleases me. And good teeth. Good, clean straight teeth are important.
It’s so interesting that you used that word! Symmetry is the foundation of beauty. Which I find fascinating! Seriously. As is the space between the eyes. The farther apart the eyes, the more beautiful they are considered – and this is universal.
And Mohammad – :o
it is funny how symmetry is almost hardwired right?
i soemtimes look at people who’s faces i find appealing - and often look to see which features make them so appealing, and it’s often hard to tell - it’s just like all the pieces together are what make them beautiful.
Actually, no it isn’t funny, but expected. Back in the days before MRI’s and PET scans, when we were running around with stone axes in animal skins “symmetry” meant “healthy”. Back then lack of health and disease would cause conditions that would destroy symmetry (e. g. swollen sinus cavities etc.), so the presence of symmetry meant that the individual had never suffered from those conditions and therefore was healthy enough to successfully reproduce and carry on the species.
This is also why men continue to look for “curves”, e. g. enough fat to support breast feeding through lean times and wide hips (easy birth) etc. See, us guys being focused on “looks” isn’t because we’re “dirty dogs”, but because it’s built into our genes, and isn’t something to be “civilized out” after only a couple of thousand years.
For me, it’s the
- Dark hair
- Chiseled face (don’t mean a “model look” but close to it than round or long)
- White teeth, pink gum
- Abs abs abs!!! And because they work hard on that area they usually have that irrestible indentation on the lower back aka strong back
- Deeper voice
- Strong nose slightly “beaky” just like Carie said but not long nor flare
- Masculine hands (they can get that from working out or working)
-Pecks are an added bonus, usually perched on strong rounded butts
-Body hair on lower arms and legs, nowhere else - Adaptable to all sorts of occasions as far as clothing.
I used to like men in suits (years ago) … it’s not easy to asses their builts under heavy clothing
hahahaha nice thread
want to know what most of us men want in a woman? motley crew I think said it, tits, ass and beer
LOL Bronzie… yup, and WE know it ha ha ha
And Bronzie - doesn’t need to be in that order either
Matt
well Bronzie, I think you missed “something” there!!
Oh lordy, my ideal man:
A renaissance man! Jack of all trades kind of guy, who can whisk me away into some aural soundscape fantasyland he builds with his guitar one second, then throw me out of a wwii prop plane the next. One who’s knowledgeable about nearly everything from the actual physics of the flux capacitor in your standard issue, time traveling delorean, to, hell, I dunno.. women’s lib movements of the 1960s.
In a nutshell: a fascinating conversationalist. Very fun!
Attractive is a guy I can keep pace with, or even outsmart. I chew on those guys like cud.
Dead Sexy is a guy who’s got me beat on a bunch of levels and constantly challenges me, pushes me forward.
Physically? I haven’t nailed this down yet. Don’t call me a cheese, but Tom Selleck?? What happened to REAL MEN who look and act like Tom Selleck!!!
And oh, swoon… Richard Branson…
Screw this metrosexual gobbledygook! What a fad. Justin Timberlake DEFINITELY is not bringing sexy back. He’s making an atrocity (and some damned good jingles) out of it! Sure, well tailored, well groomed, sharkskin boot wearing pansy boys are nice and all.. (FOR DINNER!) but where’s the hairy guy with an axe who can carry you over his shoulder and shoot a bear at the same time? And do an argentinean tango. AND slice intricate patterns in the carpet with his samurai sword? ANNDD help little old ladies across the street, or open the car door for you?
I’m old fashioned.
I don’t think physical looks matter so much, just as long as you’re a LIONHEART!
heh which X-Men dude was everyones favorite?
seriously, i never want to date a man prettier than me.
well bear in mind i sometimes feel like a gay man trapped in a woman’s body but for me it was nightcrawler, and i have a certain fondness for the gay iconography of old boy with the jeans, engineer boots and big old wings. hee hee.
Oh god… Hugh Jackman as Wolverine has got to be the hottest ever. I usually don’t like huge ripped guys, but damn is he sexy!
Gem quietly hides the jeans he customised himself with silk flowers, his womens bracelets, pink sparkly belt and eye liner:o
HAHAHAHA… it’s okay Gem! You’re a PUA Extraordinaire… These peacocking doodads are perfectly fun! I mean.. c’mon… imagine how much fun I have when I infiltrate PUA lairs and play with all their necklaces and jinglies and shiny stuff!
I always rip their necklaces out from under their buttons and unbutton their shirts enough so they show a sexy glint of chest hair, and say, “We want to touch you! GIVE US SOMETHING TO TOUCH!”
Hell, if I Were a PUA, I would be the CHEESIEST. I’d get a gold plated milton bradley game or rubiks cube! and wear it around my neck. I would wear shoes by Swear and drive a monster truck mini cooper.
Man, I would get so many negs about how my mother didn’t love me…
Are you serious? OK OK OK.. Omg, this question is sooo exciting to me.
Gambit.
Hands down.
Remy LeBeau. Is. So. Hot. My lip totally quivers at the idea.
Scott Summers is a pussy. Wolverine… is sexy (but probably REEKS of -none). Beast is sexy. I… *am dorky.
See, it’s cause he’s not a huge ripped guy, he’s a petite ripped guy with adamantium claws!
Gambit – I can’t deny it. Those black eyes and that accent… and that crazy head thing with the wild hair – and that TRENCH COAT – forgive me while I melt.
Wolverine is a far second – now that would be INTENSE. hee hee hee.
Has anyone watched those online Brawny Man Innocent Escapes? Where he’s the perfect man and talking to you a la The Continental from SNL?
There’s your axe man, Jasmin.
ooooh see thats what i expected to hear, yes gambit rocks but far more impressive is wolverine compared to cyclops.
gem, i dont even know what to say.
part of me thinks you should continue to hide the jeans.
the other part thinks you are indeed a superhero in other threads.
not this one,though.
LMFAO mna he has a sexy voice lol(that is not gay in anyway… man i wouldnt mind being him for a day hahaha
hmmm speaking of super heros, which ones would you like to get with,ladies???
is it indeed an x-men, or are the others more impressive?
i must need help.
i thought HELLBOY rocked…