Hi everyone,
I’m male, 55 and from the UK. Pretty outgoing and confident in everyday life and have a reasonable circle of friends, been lucky enough to keep friendships over a long time so really just a normal (although sometimes feel ancient) man…
In a LTR with a wonderful woman (48) who makes me very happy.
Just started experimenting with pheremones to see if they can help with a specific problem she has…
Will come back later and report on success or failure - hoping for success
Trying TUTH, IH, IO and IS currently, will look at some of the MX series soon (once finances permit - the $30 shipping hurts a bit ).
Have been reading lots of posts in the forum and feel encouraged by other peoples reports so thanks to everyone who writes about their experiences - keep them coming please.
Anorgasmia - plus some comunucations problems, both probably caused by and exasperated by a disastrous and abusive marriage…
She says she was ‘normal’ before being married and ‘lost it’ a few years after… We have already made some progress in the last year but are looking to see if things can be helped along a little.
Our relationship is very understanding, close and loving, we just need to bury the effects of the past
Then I think you have selected some good pheros. I think TUTH may help in Anorgasmia. With the right number of spray, there will be some turn-on.
IO and IH will definitely help in communication. IO will make both of you more chatty to each other. IH will make the comversation more personal and longer lasting.
Shine will lighten both mood. Better mood will help in many things.
I will not pretend for a moment that these products can cure or neccessarily even help with medical conditions. What they can do is help with the social environment within your relationship while you are working on the other.
I am in my mid-40s and married 20+ years. There are also quite a few other guys about our age: Steve, Renny, Mark-In-Dallas, MarkL, Gegogi. I mention that as dosing can be a little different for guys our age as opposed to guys in their twenties.
With that in mind there are quite a few guys who are here for knida the same reason - smoothing out or spicing up the marriage. There is a thread in my signature block that talks about just that. We talk about products and strategies that you can use to improve communications, provide a calm effect at home or even spice things up as needed. Please give it a read as it is more than I can go into in this space.
Once you have read that, please come back and ask any questions. We are happy to help.
I read all of the thread links in your sig a while back when deciding what to make my first phero order include - they really did help. Must admit to reading a lot of your posts over the forum and enjoying the comments made, thanks!
We think the condition is not so much medical as psyhchological and hope that things can be brought back to ‘normal’ without serious counselling, although it remains an option still.
We are working on better communication and relaxation as first base, she has opened up a lot over the last year and we hope that with a little phero help we can get even better results - fingers crossed!
Like you I’ve found bosshanks threads a big help in my marriage. I strongly recommend you get some IFM. I have found it to be worth it’s weight in gold, especially when coupled with Instant Honesty. It really helps my wife to relax and unburden some of the ‘darker’ memories.
Good luck and best wishes. If it is more psychological I would really recommend going with the social products - Ishine and Instant Honesty and IFM. Be cautious with the 'none.
farmer, just to give you an idea of what can be achieved, below is an extract from my journal about 6 weeks ago. Bear in mind that my wife has also come out of an abusive relationship, had zero libido and wouldn’t communicate with me ( for that matter, I didn’t either!)
Major row with wife Saturday morning to the point that I nearly packed my bags and the bad atmosphere dragged over into Sunday. Sunday evening, she’s in the shower and I decide to step off the deep end and hope I float (got to the point of having nothing to lose) so 2 drops A314, 2 sprays of Turn Up The Heat, 4 shots Instant Female Magic and a shot of Instant Honesty x4 to the hair.
***30 minutes or so we go to bed and I completely bare my soul,fears and frustrations. Normally, this would have resulted in a row of apocalyptic proportions. Not a raised voice. Yes she was angry and upset and I heard a few home truths come back the other way before spending the night on the sofa but she now knows precisely where I perceive the problems in our marriage.
After the kids are in bed tonight, we will finally get all this sorted out and it looks like the foundations are solid ready for us to build on!
Not to say that that particular mix would work for you but there is always someone on this forum who can help, that’s why I love it!
Inability to achieve orgasm can be frustrating for both of you. If it is psychological mones in conjunction with other treatments may aid in helping her solve this. If its medical they will not help her with this. It is my guess from what you have mentioned that it is psychological.
Just be patient and keep using them, give her time to process the signals. You seem to be quite supportive which is great.
I think IH and Tuth are both good. I do suggest, when your ready, you also consider IFM to give comfort and ease and maybe some AMMO for day time use just to sort of prime her arousal.
I used the GC to offset the cost of DHL and ordered IFM, Ammo and (thinking like Diamond ) a full size IH (2x) today. The fun should start this weekend - with the new stuff arriving next week we should have a good range of triggers to play around with.
I’ll keep you all posted over the next couple of weeks
Well, now have Heavy Ammo, IH x2 and IFM to add to the arsenal Thanks to Jamie and April (I think) for the little extras on both my orders - appreciated
I’ll open a journal to keep track of what is happening here, although it will only cover familiar ground for most of you, for me it is a new and hopefully good time ahead.
Been reading loads of journals and other posts over the last week or so and would like to give my thanks to the people who are spending so much time documenting their experiences so carefully.
It may seem redundant to some to post whats already been talked about alot but believe me its very valuable to the research Androtics conducts. We are trained to pick up patterns and possible hits and reactions. So when you post a detail that seems like no big deal to you, It can mean a heck of alot to us.
Have fun with your products and we look forward to reading your journal
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