I heard that it’s the feeling of “having to go pee” that stops them from getting to that point. As supposedly when you’re working the special spot a feeling of having to go pee overcomes them first, but then eventually that turns into the actual ejaculation. Is this true ladies?
I don’t know why women are so squeemish about it. When I called my sisters and told my female friends, I was totally jacked up!! It was true!!! It could happen!! It wasn’t fiction and I knew how to do it and it was CRAZY intense! I wanted to spread the good news, give them all rabbit vibrators for Christmas so they could practice! But alas, every one of them (besides my one friends–who too can do it now) was absolutely disgusted! “Are you sure you didn’t just pee or something?” WhatEVer! Nobody even wanted to hear my instructions on how to get there.
I strutted around for a week. Yo beetches, I can female ejaculate. Yah, that’s right! …sigh…nobody shared my enthusiasm but my partner.
Yes, it usually kind of feels like you need to go pee. Peeing right before the play begins often helps reassure you that it can’t possibly be urin. When I first tried to learn to do this, I would purposely bear down trying to make it come out. Sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn’t. We were on a mission though. I was like..ok..I’m going to try this..if I pee on you…my apologies in advance. After I’d do it, I’d be in a panic sniffing the sheets to make sure. lol It always was ejaculate.
OK, great. So then I was doing something right. My wife stopped me because of that feeling, but I assured her that was normal. However, yeah she didn’t want to continue. I guess it’s still pretty much a taboo for some of you ladies according to what you said regarding your friends, so I’m surprised.
haha i know what you mean 
no matter how many times i tell me partners, to let it go, they never do it, they make me stop, not even when i show them articles on reputable places about it.
what i love best is when they think they got to pee real bad, and they go in there and they cant pee(cuz they dont have to pee…) 
, makes me laugh. only got one girl to do it, and woooooowie she was happy
and actually the way i found out about it was back in my lonely days when my girlfriend was my right hand… her name was cytherea LOL.
LOL, I hear you on that one!
This is not true for me, but there is a huge urge to bear down, like I felt when I was late in labor. But I don’t flood the way some do, so maybe that is why I don’t feel the urge to pee. But I do feel it when the glands release to the urethra. That much sudden pressure right there is pretty hard to mistake for anything else.
Diane
We listen. We care.
Welcome home.
And another potentially revealing and interesting forum topic has died…
btw, its not rocket science that women have less testosterone… they are WOMEN. The difference is, that small amount of testosterone affects them MORE than testosterone affects men.
A little postscript:
As usual, we got caught up in the details of structure and technique. Just like other enthusiasts get caught up in overhead cams, G-forces, and horsepower.
We touched on, but did not persue (perhaps that fear of intimately exposing ourselves, eh?) is the use of our sexuality as a transcendent, sometimes even spiritual experience. Where/when sex becomes “like the essence of prayer”. I have had the great good fortune to experience a few flashes (seconds?) of that possibility. I think that most of us who have experienced this higher level of sexuality can at least acknowledge the possibility of a sexual spirituality.
What we don’t realize, but by logical extention should be eminently possible, is that transcendent sexuality can be a gateway, a doorway to an alternate reality beyond this ‘real’ world.
These are among the last few posts from our friend Tacitus as he transcended our community.
Wow, how did I miss this thread??!!
Very interesting to hear everyone’s experiences, especially Diane’s, after reading which I think I need a cold shower
LOL! Jankren I have to say I find you very entertaining.
C’mon Xev, we’re really trying to get past the primitive foolishness that has been used to divide and oppress all of us. I for one, do not find oppression or denigration entertaining anymore.
Please ignore him.
I would honestly appreciate it. Thank you.
OoohYahhh
Quest for Supernatural Sex? and other mindful babble
A few moments ago I made a post in another thread, A314--Changes you...and That affects Others. that applies directly to the thread link I gave you earlier, and more importantly, to our quest for supernatural sex.
And one of us made it to the other side!
Damn… that’s nuts…oooohhhhyyaa
“Yo beetches, I can female ejaculate. Yah, that’s right!” SWEET!
Anyone else a fan of grape seed oil for this? I have it on hand just for one of those… I think you deserve something special moments…
I usually hold this back for a couple of weeks lotta work… but if she is good to me… I’ll be good to her 
Too quick and this can get you a clingy stalker…
Makes me blush to talk about this on a mixed forum but I have done so infrequently. I don’t know much about the technical side of things because my hands arent shaped thus that I could do this to myself, but I agree that it is a subset of the G-spot orgasm.
There is something deeply spiritual and transformational about the orgasm. I would say that the ‘normal’ orgasm is an echo of the ‘supernatural orgasm’ rather than the later being an extra’d up version of the Standard Orgasm. Physical and emotional unhealth blocks out part of the length, intensity and size of the full orgasm. Also, some people have sex with someone they can’t fully trust, which makes it hard to let go and risk unconsiousness.
holy shit. i definitely enjoyed your post. “quality over quantity” may be my personal motto. from food to alcohol to sex. I never quite understood the appeal of chronic stringing together of many anonymous conquests. unfortunately when getting back together with an ex girlfriend that I previously dated for 4.5 years i was kind of hoping that she became a little bit more “enlightened” sexually during our time apart but she definitely didn’t. she never had a sex drive like mine and i’m always trying to get her to become more uninhibited and consider things like g-spot massage and FE (the concept def is a turn on for me) but but i’m convinced now that she just isn’t all too interested in sex and specifically the “supernatural sex” that you spoke of. I’m hoping I find someone to share it with.
P.S. I bought a book from amazon called female ejaculation and the g spot which was very educational and i HIGHLY recommend it to anyone interested!
I got that book too and it was very helpful! I also found some hippie chick on youtube that was giving good advice on how to achieve FE. I bought another book from amazon around the same time called Squirms Squeals and Squirts or something of that nature, it wasn’t very helpful or interesting for that matter. Yeh, I think a big part of making a woman squirt is that she wants to squirt. I had no idea I could do this until I started talking about it with a partner and started googling it and reading up on the techniques and got it in my head that if some porn chick could do it…then I CAN do it.
I’m convinced most women can do it!
I have been fortunate to have had relationships with a handful of amazing women. I still keep in touch with the majority of them from time to time.
Two of those women were FE. I am adventurous to say the least and the first time (6 years ago) was one of those times where the world beyond my lovers face doesn’t exist and all you can feel is her soft skin and long hair, while I act out my feelings for her physically. I remember it quite clearly. It started out innocently enough after coming home from a movie and a slow sweet kiss turned into taking off our clothes as thought they were on fire. I remember feeling so close to her, so struck by her beautiful face and how my heart pounded the entire time. I remember her face when it became a mix of surprise, pleasure and what I thought was agony. She had been enjoying herself as must as I had been and then all of a sudden “ohmygodihavetopee” but shortly after that, she let go and I was taken aback for only an instant and she had gone rigid, her hands clenched the comforter and her head tilted back. It seemed longer but after about half a minute, she looked like she was at the end of a roller coaster ride. You can see why I have a clear recollection. I was thinking of wearing a loincloth and moving about the apartment on swinging vines. However, that was her first time (and mine) but later she felt grossed out by it, even though I was 100% supportive, I cleaned up and wanted to try again. Hell, I brought her more wine and chocolate while she sat in bed being quite pleased with herself. So, bittersweet, my first time. It was the sexual zenith of that relationship. She said her orgasm “rocked her world” but wasn’t conformable trying again. Oh well.
The other was on the opposite end of the spectrum. Well, I’ll save that for another day. Maybe.
People’s sexual appetites are varied and in a relationship, at least for me, intimacy/sex/closeness are an expression and cross many different parts of who we are as a couple. The sharing, closeness, trust and attraction for ones partner are the other side of great sex. Great sex is great, but when you add in all the rest, there aren’t proper words to describe it.
Meanwhile back in reality, I am now cooking for one, having come in second in a race for the girl. I lost out to a big promotion 2,000 miles away. So, word on the street is that any information I will be providing on FE and relationships will be HISTORY lessons.
BB thinks SHE can ramble aimlessly? She got nothin’ on me.