Wow! This stuff is amazing! Who really cares if the effects are from others’ response to my wearing it or a change in my attitude and comportment when I do. First, some background. I’m 57, athletic and fit, have a wide variety of interests. I’ve been married for 30+ years to a woman with those same characteristics; she is a lively, fun, interesting, outgoing, very sensual and attractive woman. Other men are always very interested in her, I think because of her attractiveness and empathic nature combined with her obvious sensuality. She has hardly ever seemed to notice odors (no comments like "you (or someone else) smell great/interesting/whatever). We have a very close and “open” relationship, frequent and great sex, and are best of friends.
I bought a variety of products, mainly in “to go” sizes to try them out, including Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, Instant Gentleman, Turn Up The Heat and A314, plus received a freebie travel size of Spaceland. In trying to figure out what to buy and how to use it, I very much appreciated the posts of bosshank on Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home and links he posted.
First trials have been at home to look for any effects on my wife, and just out and around in general, but I’ve probably been paying closer attention to the people around me. I decided to try the approach of starting with a little, looking for effects, and adding more gradually adn later. I’ve used one or two drops of A314 around the base of my neck every day and alternately tried adding a spray of IH or IShine on either my wrists or back/side of my neck, or A314 and a spray of IG on my chest/neck.
I don’t know if it’s just coincidence, but things sure seem to be going more smoothly than usual, with people offering me little courtesies like “hop in line here in front of me” or, at the airport, “both of your bags are a few pounds over, but we’ll just ignore it; and it also looks like I can get you better seats on both flights.” So many people seem to be in a good mood when I interact with them for even just few minutes while wearing IS. What’s up with that?? My demeanor hasn’t changed, nor has anything else I’m aware of. I’ve also been getting a ton of much-more-interested looks from women of all ages.
At home in the evenings, and without telling my wife, I have been using Instant Honesty and Instant Shine. I am seeing a lot more interest from her in starting deep, emotional conversations and being pyhsically close to me. I was kind of waiting for and did notice the response bosshank and others have mentioned - her looking at me in a kind of funny way but not knowing what it was about me that was different. The biggest kick, though, was when I tried TUTH later in the evening. What a response I got the first night! She practically attacked me as soon as the kids were in bed! The next night, same thing except that I went to bed a long while before she did, and when she came in later she said something like “I absolutely have to have some of that!” Then she went right after getting some. I love it! This stuff will make great date nights!