I think about sex probably every couple of minutes, but I’m happy to actually have sex every other day. I guess I like the anticipation!
I don’t know about you guys, but my sex drive has fluctuated over the years, and by that I don’t mean “tailed off since puberty”! There’s been times when I’ve needed some kind of action a couple of times a day, and other times when once a week has been fine. Where I am now is fine by me… although sadly I don’t actually get it every other day at the moment. (Now, where did I put those mones??! )
I think about sex constantly, but moreso in pleasing women than myself… I always think of exploring a woman slowly , and really savoring her body, with a lot of foreplay. I think if I had to choose between my own ejaculation and getting woman to orgasm I would choose the latter.. When I was younger I was more self centred.. Now my greatest pleasure is making a woman so horny she wants to rape me.. But this takes time and I feel it requires a lot of restraint on my part.
If I had to choose between a quick fuck, or a long makeout session I’d choose the latter…with age its all about quality sex and not quantity.
I think some people might find this interesting as I am the only person to vote for it, but never. Im 20, I’ve had sex with only two girls, but that was years ago (17ish). Im VERY picky about what kind of girls I find attractive and its like im missing the one night stand gene,because I can’t get turned on by a girl I’m not into, not just looks but mostly personality that I can’t seem to find. I’ve had my chances too. mind you I haven’t had a girlfriend either for a few years bc I haven’t found anyone im interested in.
Ive met those girls I could have fallen for that weren’t interested. wasn’t meant to be I say. Call me a goody good guy ( im not a bad guy, I love to party and be wild), maybe ‘romantic’ but the girl im going to fall on love with and marry is out there on this planet somewhere, and until I find her, It will be totally worth the wait Until then I have other ways to curve hornyess
Me and my ex boyfriend used to have sex multiple times a day and don’t get me wrong, it was great but it created problems. I think it created a dependence on one another once the relation ship started taking turns for the worse. We would break up and then get back together because we missed the sex. We thought we loved each other because we were so in love with the sex. I found out only after we really called it quits that I didn’t really love him. It kind of blinded me and made me deal with a guy that I didn’t want to have to deal with anymore.
So I voted once a week, although 3 times a week would be fine too. I think its important to build on the relationship aspect, and to continue to do so through out the relationship. If all you’re doing is having sex every 2 hours then how do you have time to do anything else? In the ideal world everyone would be having sex all the time, but too much of something good can turn in to something bad, thats why you do all things in moderation.
As a sportswoman that used steriods to occassionally measure up with men, there was a time where once a day was just taking care of it. As I got older and wiser, I realized that that much sex leaves little room to be human in that relationship.
If a relationship is held together by sex, there’s usually not much to build on. If couples are having sex everyday I sure hope that they have lots of time to nurture their minds and soul within that relationship also. Then once a day is just right then.
I’ve only ever had sex with one woman…my wife.
Perks to a single partner is you really learn what each other likes. You get really comfortable and there is not much awkwardness.
But what do I know? It’s not like I have anything to compare it to
Truth be told, it depends heavily on my distraction level.
If I keep very busy/distracted with lots of hobbies, I can go 3-4 days without the desire to have sex. But if I have nothing else distracting my mind, about once per day
I’m more mental than physical, going for several months to years without acting on it. But once I’m with a special someone I am an animal and it all comes out like an endless volcano lol at that point it can be daily.
So I’ve ticked several boxes here. I’m one of those oddballs that enjoy the entire package from a man as opposed to trusting a “rabbit”, I just don’t ge the same…level of thrill so to spea. It’s in the touch, smell taste of a man, combined with his equipment that is able to put me happily over the edge…so when I can get some…I go for it…though it doesn’t rule my day, it’s in the top 5 needs…eat, sleep, sex, work/purpose and play-friends,fun adrenaline activities (my family is an automatic)
(Now, where did I put those mones??! 
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Until then I have other ways to curve hornyess