We make love 3-5 times per week, but about once per week, I get the feeling it’s out of ‘duty’ and not excitement on her part. What is good for an ongoing hot relationship?
Dude, how long have you been married, 2 weeks? Thats killer frequency.
Anywho, Ive found good results with TUTH. Since IM over 40 (as you are) Ive opted for the double strength version (after trying the regular version and needing multiple sprays to get a solid reaction). Just takes one full shot split between wrists and rubbed on neck and the heat is -usually- turned up. Doesnt work magic, gotta get her motor running like usual, but it runs hotter.
Be careful tho, cuz it works best when she’s ovulating, so employ countermeasures if she takes off like wildfire and you dont plan on procreating!
::in a singing voice::
Amm-Ohhhhhhh…
seriously id only do this if she was game, simply because when we hide stuff like this from people we are spending a significant amount of time with, they are full of questions that they may or may NOT speak…
why do you smell different ?
why do i feel ___ way ?
if she is game,
i HIGHLY recommend ISexiness A for her.
when i wear it, self effects make me more sexually aggressive than normal.
i pretty much want to pounce.
Ammo for you.
i expect to hear TUTH from most people,
but you wont hear it from me.
guess it works real well with specific chemistry,
so trying it in a to-go couldnt hurt.
it just makes me irritated,so i dont use it.
if you sense its just out of duty, perhaps you need to use the Instant Honesty in a different manner. sit down and talk. even talk can be foreplay. you may find out a lot of things that you can do to help her get in the mood, sans sexual pheros.
also, 3-5 times a week would burn a person out, if their fridge wasn’t full of gatorade, and supplements…
You’re 53… How old is your wife? If she’s about your age she’s likely to either have already gone through or is about to go through menopause and that can change things quite a bit where libido is concerned.
Another thought…Before you jump on the phero’s, have you spoken to her about this? Asked her if that feeling you are getting is right, and if so, what might be causing it?
dont you remember doing it that many times in a day?
i may be weird,Centaur, but i sometimes need to be told what is normal for certain ages.
im not sure why once a day would be exausting?
work-related?
schedule related?
you are one of the best examples i have for male-feedback,
i value your insight on this.
uhg.
i want to know more about why libido should be affected,
but at the same time i feel im setting myself up for “expectation” of certain things at certain ages.
my female post menopausal friends are freaks !
and they tell me to just wait…
im talking freaks about wanting it more, not less…
Everyone is different but the majority of women who get symptomatic in menopause suffer from the decreased oestrogen levels. Libido decreases, mood & energy can be affected and physically you get vaginal dryness & thinning of tissues so intercourse can be uncomfortable or painful… HRT be very helpful though, doesn’t matter if it’s prescribed meds or if it’s the natural supplements, both work.
Shades, we’re married 1 year as of Saturday.
W’re both 53, and she has gone through menopause,Xiphoid
Lor, I am out of Ammo, Tuth makes her want to hug me alnight while we sleep
Centaur, the problem is she gets sleepy very easily, nods off while reading or watching tv. Sometimes foreplay makes her relax TOO much,especial neck and back rubs. And yes I take suppliments, goat weed, tribulas,arginine, multi- vitamins, etc.
She was what some call a ‘cougar’, datig mostly youngrer guys, and I guess I want to not let her down in that area. Thanks everyone
Read somewhere in the past that some post menopausal women do experience an increase in desire. I remember it being related to no longer having a fear of becoming pregnant and therefore being more relaxed about coitus.
I don’t have to worry about pregnacy or timing her cycles, but do have work around her job times
Everybody’s got an answer … I hope “IT’S DUTY” isn’t in your head. We OFTEN add stuff to our thoughts when things become BORING/ROUTINE. “Why isn’t she screaming anymore” "She didn’t scratch me. What gives?" “I wish she’d squill like a pig, like she used to!” Overthinking r us?
I say shake the world up a little! Get yourself a TO-GO bottle of Instant Jerk (The cops) … hit yourself with a couple of sprays, and cover it with a couple of sprays of TUTH! She may very well scream out, “IT’S YOUR DUTY … TO WAX THIS BOOTAY!” 
Now, on a SAFER note … 2 or 3 drops of A314 with your normal “IT GETS TO HER” wear, may help you give her that “THERE’S NEW MEAT IN MY BED” hunger as well. 
Yeah! Yeah! Hell Yeah! For the sake of science!
P.S. Annnnnnnnnnnd if she’s wet and got a cummer when you’re both done … the DUTY became fruity! You did okay, Kiddo!
If you kiss her neck, bite her arm, and then handle your business. You should try her arm first. The back porch instead of the bedroom is cool, too! This is a JUST IN CASE you’re one of those that forgot that things should not be done in the BEDROOM everytime. There’s something about SHE’S NOW MINE that make men change their way of doing things they consider nawty and illegal, which is fun and hot! Don’t stop pulling her hair, spanking her, or whatever it is that makes her talk about it for weeks after, because she’s yours fellas! Smear that chocolate! Bite that butt!
Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
Dr. Phil-M&M … I’m out!
man that’s a lot!!! i never had that much sex with my girlfriends.
Exact-cally! 
Married … 53 … and getting it 3-5 times a week??? I bow to the KING! DUTY or not … He IS ONE lucky MOFO!
hey sweetsense, you don’t need pheros, you need viagra
if you are out of Ammo,
is it because it worked well?
im guessing maybe not so much if your inquiring about other things?
just curious 
see if you can research the MX301+ series.
just a fun thought
meow, I do use Viagra on occasion (when we have plenty of time,like our days off),but she told me I better not use Callais
Lor , when I use Ammo, she seems to miss me more when we’re apart
M&M, 3-4 probably more like it, like every other day,like Saturday morning- Sunday night - Tuesday morning etc. 3 times she’ll be shaking and clinchy, the 4th very passive.I’m just trying to make it excting everytime. The reason I feel she’s doing it out duty is because when she starts it, she’s realy into it, but she’s old school and thinks if I get errect, she as my wife has to perform, even though I tell her I’d rather wait til we are both really into it .I still think she has narcolapsy
I think when I first got married, it was twice a week. when we were trying for a child, it became every other day. after the kid… it was every other week. second pregnancy was almost two straight weeks, and I lost 5 lbs those weeks. not from excercise, but from depletion. I had munchies all the time, and I drank a tonne of water. Right now, it seems to be every week and a half, due to stress, jobs, pregnancy, and bad schedules. I know she wants me, but just cant right now
if you eat healthy, get plenty of nutrients and are well hydrated, I could see every day as a fun possibility. but for me, the orgasms just aren’t as explosive, and it took longer to get there, and those two problems just add to an already addictive habit(the ‘light’ cigarette principle, smoke more of them to get the same high). sometimes…I’m just content with foreplay and getting her done while I recharge. this is not to say that I couldn’t make a hatstand within seconds of thinking about it, its just that I really prefer her pleasure to my own when it happens that often.
I “think” I need it at least once a week, since my mood gets more and more depressive and irritable, and sex is just the best anti-depressant I know. I would like at least once every 3 days… but we’re not talking about me… if this man and his wife are any indication of what to expect in the next 20 years… I’m too excited.
if she’s slightly narcoleptic, perhaps try some TAF in the bedroom during foreplay.