Yes, that’s right - hello to sex in 60 minutes. Yes we were on vacation in a beautiful all inclusive resort…still though, that sort of thing doesn’t happen THAT quickly. She was a beautiful 40 something successful French canadian at the bar. After a talk with a friend about inner game, I was fired up and ready…Note, I am not what one would call a natural player, have not slept with many girls - nor is that my goal - love is the goal. But sometimes wild things may happen..
I have tried to break down in my head how this was even possible. But one thing is for sure, I acted waaaaay different than my usual shy self..maybe it was a combination of alcohol and sun - but here goes, broken down by what I think were the key principles and in the order I applied them:
Oh, 3 sprays of MX301 to neck and 1 IG, hot 80+ degree summer night, outdoor dance club..
Principle 1: Extremely Confident - kept my spine as erect yet as comfortable as possible. Did not sway back and forth (a big problem of mine) AND EYE Contact - a lot of it. Strong eye contact that did not bolt away or become shy even for a second. I immediately felt like it was on after that… My voice was loud and clear and unashamed. I talked with conviction and a big ass smile. GAME…ON. She, being in her 40s, was quite comfortable and turned on…
Principle 2: NEG - Yes, I negged the hell out of her. RIght off the bat, “where are you from?”. She was from Montreal. I’m from NYC. Of course she said “oh I love NYC blah blah…” and I asked what she loved and once she responded I negged with extreme confidence “that’s what everyone says…how about something original… etc…”
Principle 3: DHV - “What do you do in NYC…” she asked.. “Well I work on this little street called Wall..did you know, there are trillons of dollars of flowing in and out of there every day” ![]()
Principle 4: Kino After about 5-10 minutes of where are you from/what do you do..We started dancing. It’s quite easy to touch while dancing - holding hands, spinning her etc…all the while keeping my super confidence body language up and talking to her at the same time…
Principle 5: Location Change #1 - We moved from front of the bar to a corner of the dance floor to dance..
Principle 6: Made her Jump through hoops with Neg and kiss rewards - While we’re dancing I asked for more original things she liked about NYC. “the energy” she said..OK a little better answer and kiss her on the cheak while she’s dancing. “But comon, tell me something BETTER!”…“the culture blah blah blah…”. OK, I give her a big smile of approval and then kissed her on the lips. But I still wasn’t satisfied, after her next answer, I give her another kiss on the lips but this time with toungue – and she was receptive of it..Yes we were frenching within 30 minutes of hello.
Principle 7: Confident Excuse and pull to isolate #2 - I said after 5-10 minutes of dancing with her: “its sooo hot out here, let’s go by the beach and get some breeze…”. Without even asking for a approval, I grab her hand and start leading the way to a mini hut with a bed like cushon on the edge of the beach. Why would she silently agree with me? Well I was confident the whole time. I think that really helped. It communicated that I knew was I doing and I didn’t look at all for her approval. I won’t go into more details as to what happened after that but you get the picture..heavy kissing, groping, and fingering her in 30-40 minutes on the beach and then it was back to my room…
Principle 8: Smell good and excite the VNO -
. 3 sprays of MX301 to front and sides of neck. One spray of IG to back of hand. 2 sprays Aqua di Gio to back of my neck. She said I smelled good and tried to guess what I was wearing and that she can usually guess right but was wrong this time, another easy neg..while at the same time she got some big ass whiffs of the 15mc/g of none I had on me…heated up and pulsing through a few minutes of dancing…