Alright, until last night there was a girl constantly blowing up my phone, calling me and texting most of the day. I was actually getting pretty attached to her, we were already making plans to go on trips together and everything. We would talk through the night until the early hours of the morning. We were really starting to connect on a level I didn’t think possible. She was wanting to relocate closer to me and everything. Then as of yesterday, no responses to my texts. No calls. Nothing.
Now, granted, going a day and a half without hearing from a girl isn’t that big a deal. Something could have happened to her phone. She’s probably been extremely busy. Whatever. But if you consider her normal behavior up to this point - it got me thinking, and there is one thing that has me worried. She is at a family reunion at the moment, and probably met up with her sister. Her sister is the one I mentioned in my thread - Another's Interpretation - the one that I tried for the kiss with and she stopped answering my texts and calls.
I need another’s thoughts on this because I’m really at a loss here and have probably been thinking too much into this. Thanks!
In my experience no conclusions should be drawn when there’s s lack of communication until a few days. Try to concentrate on other things and find distractions because the moment you stop worrying is probably when she will call, as silly as it sounds that’s how it’s worked with me in the past.
I think its best if you have some time away anyway, but you need to make sure you’re the one pulling away while leaving on that high note.
I remember when I first met my girl we would talk constantly via text, work etc. I kid you not when I tell you that my text count per month in that first month hit the 8K mark.
One thing I used to do was every morning I would write her a special morning wake up text and she loved it. However, because it was every morning, it was no longer so special, she told me she’d rather be surprised on occasion than to expect it.
So, that’s what I did. I stopped and every now and then would make that contact and those days in between built up that anticipation, got her ready to blow so to speak.
But also like John said, it doesn’t mean anything she could just be busy. Whatever you do, DON’T bring it up, don’t text her asking why she hasn’t texted you or called. Just wait until she contacts you again and then respond with something like. “How cute, I was just thinking about you too.”
I say you show up outside her window, smashing picturesof the twoof you and lighting poetry on fire. You’ll need to buy a robe to pull this off correctly.
like most of the other users have already said.
Hang in there, don’t crazy dwelling over it. Assumptions can really fuck you over espically when you think of the worst possible situation. I’ve been through this type of situation afew times apart from the kissing sister thing. Just wait let the leaves settle and see what her input on the situation is when you two socialise.
LMAO. Really guys. Too bad I can’t check the internet at work. No, she left me a message earlier saying how she missed me and to call her back, etc. Then texted me. So things are good.
Really, you’re mind can bring up the worst possible scenario like this only when it matters to you so effing bad. I have so many women that want me, and this girl is the only one I want, she’s the epitome of my perfect woman. It’s been over a year of searching and fuck if I know how it happened, all I know is I have an incredible connection with her.
Those things could be a test man. If she said she wants to move in with you, then she might have wanted to test you whether you’ll be extremely clingy when you will actually see each other every single day.
Here’s an update everybody. Last Saturday that girl called me up at work, left a message, and responded warmly when I texted her to let her know I was working and would call her later. Well, as I was calling her later I was entering the tavern part of my work to have a couple drinks. I mentioned this, and she asked me if I’d rather call her back later. Well, either she didn’t care to hear I would be hitting the tavern (doesn’t care for alcohol, or the potential problem of other girls hitting on me and vise versa) or because I agreed to call her back rather than talk with her (a shit test?) - she is mad at me. She didn’t answer my texts again, when I called her friend answered and said she was in the restroom and would call me back later (which to present has yet to happen.)
Should I try to call this girl back tonight before work? I’m fairly sure she’s pissed off at me for some reason or other, and rather than let it pass by I want to fix it. The night we had, and the closeness since with the long talks til all hours of the night are something I’ve never experienced before. Suggestions?
Forget about her completely for a while. Wait till she makes the first move to initiate contact with you again. Once she does, call out on her bullshit behaviour and tell her that you want to have an honest relationship, so if she feels mad about something, she should talk to you about it, rather than try to start up some drama shit. Because your situation sounds like a typical case of a girl starting out some drama due to boredom in her life.
Funny shit. 