As far as I could see, I was unsuccessful with my first trial of pheromones but, I’m going to give it another try. I’ve reordered Openness, Honesty, Female Magic, Shine, and now I added A314 to the bag. Major thanks to April for that gift of Come Talk to Me. Much appreciated.
Im glad that you are not giving up most of us had relatively unsuccessful experience! Just try one product at a time, you can wear more if it is a social product like io cttm ih or ishine.
Yeah, as Mockingbird sez, we’ve all had unsuccessful experiences. When we start out we’re very impatient and we wanna see success right off the bat. Very few get so lucky right out of the gate. The good news is that persistance pays off if you don’t get so darn lucky.
Personally, I enjoy the learning curve that comes with this group of products, it makes me appreciate their potential even more when I see things happen that have no other rational explanation other than “Good gravy! It HAD to be the pheromones!”
Just once will all it will take to make you a believer. Hang in there. It also halps to read as much of the material on this forum as you can. This site is one big teaching tool, take advantage of what is here!
It can take a while sometimes to get the feel for what the pheromones are doing. Hang in there and keep working at it - it will come to you once you find your “sweet spot”.
Read Renny’s My stupid newbie tricks thread - it is a great resource for those just starting out.
Its a pheromone everybody gets on their first try and the results arent outwardly visible in 90% of cases, more a feeling the “target” will get.
As for all the others, you should use your pheromones to give yourself a certain image in somebodys mind then, for lack of a better word, exploit that.
Read up on congruence and be aware of the lasting image your chosen 'pheromones will create in a targets mind. Then work on getting that image to work for you while eliminating any negatives. It all comes with time and experience. You’ll get there.
So baldman what your saying is Instant Shine changes peoples perception of you but not nessecerally there behaviour towards you, thus making hits hard to see? This has been my experience of Instant Gentleman which I love but I’ve never been able to see hits from Instant shine possibly because it’s behaving in the same way as Instant Gentleman, perception not outward, obvious behaviour? I don’t get self effects of Instant Shine and thought the effects on others where obvious for the whole world to see so maybe I’ve been using Instant Shine all wrong
Worn regularly around the same people they will start to mentally peg you as someone who can bring them out of a bad mood and make them feel good which, obviously, is a good thing for you, and, probably the best starting situation you can have to use some of the ‘bigger hitting’ pheromones.
When you first start out using pheromones seeing hits can be quite hard. Instant shine hits are probably the hardest of all to spot for new users(IMO) since they can often be very subtle on the outside but quite big on the inside.
I’ve been using pheromones for a few months now and can see hits from all products apart from very minor hits with Instant Female Magic and Instant Shine.
I find it bizzare that a lot of the guys think that Instant Female Magic is good for PMS and thats about it where as woman wear it themselves because it makes them feel great. I think your right by saying hits can be very subtle on the outside but quite big on the inside and I think that applies for both Instant Shine and Instant Female magic.
Reps for your posts, you’ve pointed me in the right direction with those two products.