Hello everyone
i am a 19 year old male, blond.
for the moment i am in denmark, my birth country, but mostly i am working in different places around the globe as a wind-farm technician.
i found myself randomly browsing the net when i found this site, i immediately became interested, i had heard of pheromones being used but never to what extent.
so after reading around i became curious enough to sign up, i have tons of questions and i am not afraid to ask
but first i would like to explain why i am so interested.
the thing is i live a very varied life, for starters i am the youngest technician anyone in the business i know, know off, that can be a bit more than daunting at times.
now everyone knows how hard it can be to earn respect as the youngest, it’s not a big problem, but if pheromones could help, then why not.
the months i spend abroad then becomes quite a nuisance when i get home.
there is a period where i need to seriously readjust myself, because of the personality traits one pick up when working in that enviroment.
when we work together the stress levels are extremely high, that is vented as rough jokes, us being danish jokes are interchangeable with personal insult, the rougher the better.
one can easily imagine how that can affect ones social life if not restrained, i have managed so far but again could be fun to see what could be done.
some might look at this and say ‘but pheromones cant solve your problems’. well of course not, most of it is simply a part of the life im living and it doesnt need to change, but there is situations where i think it could be helpful.
any suggestions are welcome, as i only know what i have read here.
when i am in denmark i am on vacation so here i enjoy going to parties, chilling out with a group of friends, enjoy a beer.
but usually nothing more serious than that.
hey there!
welcome,
Yea pheromones wont fix everything but it can help.
I’d consider getting A314 for it’s ability to make you seem like the alpha as well as raising confidence, seems like that would help a lot. IG can do the same too. IO or IH would be great to buffer the effects to help people open up and feel comfortable around you too…
welcome!
and let us know how things go. someone will be around to give you the free GC as well. enjoy!
would IO or IH help make me less intimidating in the eyes of others??
i was thinking of making any experiments public via a blog format if i can be arsed to make the page, else it will probably be a journal or something in here.
I think you have about the right idea with IH and IO. They will both help make you less intimidating, and more approachable. A314 would have the opposite effect however. it would make you more alpha.
You also have a good mindset about pheromones, they are no miracle potion, I’m glad you understand that. they should work very well for you with that mindset.
If you have any more questions, let us know and we are always glad to help out.
A wind farm Tech…! That would have to be the coolest job in the world! I envy you. I’m making a micro one myself at the moment and have always taken an interest in solar, wind and hydro (micro systems) for the last 20 years… before most people were even aware of such things in my country. Being only 16 at the time of first interest, no would take me seriously. But now, I’m working on Hydro and wind grid tie prototypes (as a hobby) and people are now VERY interested in what I have devolved so far. You are in a growth industry and if you stick with it, I’m sure, given time you will be one of the top dogs.
A314 is probably going to be the best mone for you at work. And try the ones others have suggested as well.
Respect doesn’t have much to do with your age. At least in the United States, age is not an issue in the workplace. Perhaps it’s different for people in your career field. If people are going to disrespect you, it’s not because of your age, and you would recieve the same disrespect you’re getting now when your older. Respect levels do not change with age.
More then pheromones, maybe your personality needs to change. You leave me with little information to form a statement on, but it overwhelmingly seems to me that you are doing stuff that you don’t want to do, (rough-joking, as you have referred to it as) and when you get home, you’re not who you want to be, because you said that you need to re-adjust yourself; now that you’re back home from being who you don’t want to be. Make sense? You’re not going to be happy if you have to live two different lives. Pheromones are not suppose to alter your mental make up, and won’t. Perhaps the effects of them will change who you become as a person over time, but if you’re doing the same old stuff over and over again, (and heres my point) pheromones are not going to undo your actions. They are servants of you, not masters of you, and if you go to work in that stressful enviroment, and allow yourself to be stressed out by it, pheromones are not going to stop you from doing what you’re making yourself do. Chemistry (pheromones) does not defeat Mental activity (what you decide, how you think, act, and what you choose to feel.)
In other words, pheromones CAN help you. They can be an agent of change in your life, as you clean up the messes, but you have to clean up the messes. For example, instant shine, the product that makes people (including the wearer) happy, mixed with an attuitude that says “i dont need to change, and i’m going to continue getting mad at people and allowing other peoples anger to bother me”, is not going to give you ideal results. Why? Because what you DECIDE in your MIND, is more important then what pheromones you were.
On the other hand, if you wore instant shine, and decided to be happy, make the best out of everything, and to try to share your joy with whoever will accept it; if anyone will.(if they won’t you don’t care, and you don’t stop being happy, or trying to make them happy), then you’ll eventually find people that are happy around you, and you’ll be a happier person too. If you want to keep your job, keep it, but don’t keep letting negative junk affect you. Don’t worry about other peoples crap, or rough jokes, or personal insults.
If you want to party, chill, and be happy, you’re going to have to fix the root first, then pheromones will help you. If you go to pheromones first, and never fix the root, then you’ll be somewhat better off, you’ll find happiness, but the root will never be fixed, and the “tree” (you) will still have posion.
If you still want to try pheromones, here are some I would recommend for you:
Instant Shine - people will be happier around you, and you’ll be happier. BUT LOOK FOR IT, things don’t just come flying out of nowhere – all the time, sometimes they do.
A314 - You will be respected more, it just happens. However, if someone has already made up their mind to disrespect you, then it may take a few times, but they are bound to come around. Be respectable!
That’s just my recomendations for you at work.
If you’re not looking for a woman, but want to have lots of female friends, I recommend Come Talk To Me.
If you are looking for attraction based relationships, try ammo, when it becomes avaibable. I hate to recommend an out of stock product to a newbie, but you shall not be disappointed.
A general rule of thumb is, at least one drop of a314 with WHATEVER you wear, won’t disappoint you.
And it seems to me like Instant Shine would be your best “anti depressant” for when you get back home. But you might want to try it in high doses, such as the 4X version.
Good luck to you! Please ask if you have any questions.
I disagree with that statment. Respect comes with knowledge and being able to put that knowledge into action. If you don’t have either one of those you don’t have respect. All of that comes with time and experience. eg who would want to play in the financial markets when they find out their teacher has never traded one stock in their life (I could teach you, I’ve been researching them for years, but I have not traded a single stock for real yet… would you do what I say???) The same applies with life and the respect that is gained throughout it. Age does have a lot to play in this roll. However, it doesn’t mean you can’t gain respect at a younger age if you are doing it and know what you are talking about.
Alfa1: “it doesn’t mean you can’t gain respect at a younger age if you are doing it and know what you are talking about.”
That is more or less the point I was trying to make. Sorry if I came off otherwise.
Off topic: your signuture is more then amazing. "The “Law of Vibration” states that everything is in motion, and the “Law of Polarity” states that everything has a polar opposite. When you put the Law of Vibration and the Law of Polarity together what you get from that is, if you’re not moving in one direction, then by default you have to move the other way. So, if you’re not growing you’re decaying. If you’re not evolving, you’re dissolving. Nothing stays the same. " I like that.
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