Grins and Groans with Pheromones

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Women's Journals
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TAF - Initial impressions from a ladies perspective

2 Sprays of TAF (also known as Molecule F) to the chest - 2.5 mcg each

As some of you are starting to figure out, I rather like self effects of pheromone. Okay, I LOVE self effects! :smiley: I started on this pheromone journey to find something that would make me the belle of the ball when I was hanging out. I figured if I increased the number of men I met, I’d have a better chance of finding ‘the one.’

Little did I know that in addition to attracting attention, I’d also fully enjoy how these products make me feel when I’m at home working. TAF is one such product that has made me appreciate this magical thing called self effects.

TAF is supposed to be a focus molecule. From what I’ve read, if you pair it with another pheromone, it’s supposed to intensify the results. You’ll notice the results that much more. I didn’t pair it with anything last night because I like experimenting with my products solo first. And I always do a test run at home before I hit the streets.

I did this initial 2 sprays while looking out the window. I live on the 14th floor and there’s a highway I can see looking down. Upon spraying TAF, I noticed that I started focusing on the cars that were passing by. Not all of them at once, but each individual car. Really zoning in on them. :open_mouth:

I started reading a book with TAF. (Something for work.) I like it! Things that I was glossing over before, I was able to really get in to. I can see this being some really good stuff for studying. It doesn’t make you want to study. It’s not a motivational kick in the butt. But I find that once I started, I really got into the task. This was a godsend for me in that department.

Also did some writing (which is what I do for a living). This is where TAF shines for me. I got lost in a project for a good 90 minutes. I mean I completely lost track of time. Hurray! I like working with that kind of intensity. :slight_smile: I often try to achieve this type of focus by having an energy drink before I work, but sometimes that makes me jittery and has the opposite affect. With TAF it’s a buzzy focus, without the same jittery anxiety as caffeine.

The initial buzz of TAF lasted for maybe 2 hours. Then I could feel it slowing down a bit. It went down an octave in intensity, but it didn’t stop me from working. Until I washed it off 5 hours later (before going to bed), I could feel it slightly jumping around. It would calm down, then it would ramp back up a bit. It’s a very interesting feeling. I find that when I test at home all by myself I’m able to better discern between the different jumps a molecule makes.

At 1am – 4 hours into the TAF – I found myself starting to clean up. But I was very precise about cleaning up. I was folding the clothes very neatly. Then I started packing things on my dresser (I’m moving). But everything was precise… this has to go here… this has to be folded a certain way. I wanted to do things the right way.

I’m going to pair TAF with MX135 (or even my favorite P94) to see if how that focus factor feels with another product and in a social setting.

Final Results:

  • TAF is focus power.

  • So far a great molecule when I need to really get into a project I’m working on.

  • A little goes a long way. 5mcg was the perfect starting point for me.

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Hey Girlfriday, I was reading this and it grabbed my attention..I have noticed this on several pheros and I have always wondered about it. I have noticed that if I go into a warmer environment, I will sometimes get a kick from what Im wearing. I run a little warm anyway, and if I walk across a big mall or something, and get my blood flowing, I will get a bump from my pheros. Mainly from pheros with -none. I will get a little flush on my application points, and sometimes a little buzzy as you said. I notice it the most with A314 and P75, but I know I have felt it with others.

Aside from this phenomenon, Im interested to hear about if certain pheros just have a natural bump in their diffusion for other reasons? Applied Phero lifecycles?? Phero-biorythms?? Or are we triggering them in some other way besides heat? Like our natural flora kicking them up a notch?

Maybe Monesmadmedoit or Mobo or someone else can chime in on this one??

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Try combining it with P103. TAF actually does way more than focus or reset. Wear 2.5 mcg with someone in a car. Understanding the other thing it does is key to understanding why some mixes fail. To me, I see beta nol, TAK, TAF, P102, 103 and 104 as related. But the effects and smells I get from these are not typical. Some of my results on P96 don’t match either.

TAF works at nanograms.

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Will do… I have P103 too. Just wondering if I went to heavy handed with 12.5 mcg in the 5 ml bottle. Normally I start off small with 5mcg, but for some reason I decided to go big on this one.

Headed out of the city in a couple of days and I’ll finally be driving. I’ll have my dad in the car, so it’ll be interesting to see how he reacts with TAF, lol! (Welcome to my science experiment, Father… Muhahahaha!!!)

I took another dose of TAF today solo. I got a ton of work done without my usual feeling of, “Uugh, I don’t wanna do this right now!!!” In fact, I’m still working and it’s been a full 9 hours.

There was a slight glitch today, but I’ll explain more in my next update. I can’t tell if it was TAF or just me.

As usual, thank you for your suggestions monesmadedoit. I really do learn a lot under your impromptu tutelage. :slight_smile:

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TAF - Day 2 at Work

2 Sprays of TAF to the neck - 2.5mcg each
(A bit wiped onto my outer wrists for smelling pleasure while typing)

TAF (or Molecule F, if you prefer) and I vibed out again yesterday. Same dosage as the first day. And actually, I probably could have gone lower.

I worked from 3pm - 1am, which is a good stretch for me in the summer when I normally get the lazy bug creeping in. TAF helped me zone in on whatever I was doing.

3pm-5pm - First I meditated for a few minutes. (I like TAF for this purpose.) Worked for an hour. Threw a pizza in the oven and ate it like a barracuda. TAF is still working around the pizza in my belly.

5pm - This is where TAF starts to go into what I describe as a wave. You ever heard of the Pomodoro Method? It’s a time management technique where you work for 25 minutes and break for 5 minutes. Well that’s what TAF feels like at this point. It takes you strong for a while, and then it mellows out. It alternates between these two states.

7:15pm - Holy shit, I feel like my blood sugar is dropping! (No, I’m not diabetic.) I’m incredibly thirsty and HUNGRY. Slight jitters like I just had an energy drink. And all of sudden I’m crazy talkative and making insane jokes with my sister who had been playing video games in the living room with my daughter. (TAF??? Is that YOU???) I throw a nice big salad together and chow down. It helped a lot to ease my hunger, but I was still a bit jittery.

9:30pm - Jittery feeling starting to subside, and it’s back to TAF, the wave version. I work till about 1am and then I fooled around on the internet till about 2am.

Didn’t wash it off because I was curious to see how it would affect my sleep. Some vivid dreams, but nothing that made me feel nervous.

Today I’m going to get a massage. Thinking about using one spray of TAF. Will report back later.

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2.5 mcg is a good dose. Don’t overdo it. It could upregulate GABA, cause impaired REM sleep, etc. I limit myself to about 10 mcg per week. Used wisely, instead of megadoses of caffeine or ephedrine, this has value for students, truck drivers, etc. Caffeine has a real tachyphylaxis problem. I also see F as useful for ADHD. Now, if we could prevent road accidents, that means something. Some of Diane’s old posts will give you insight. Average peeps cannot wear 10-50 mcg. No should they.

I see nothing wrong with med students using this. Patients die at 3AM because people are tired. Some tired-ass resident or attending at a rural hospital. “F’ck it. Call the code. Pronounce him.”

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Hold up- where have I been and how have I missed your journal?!

I agree- Neroli def smells like sexy big man and not like oranges. Hate the smell of MX135 also but don’t think it comes in another fragrance.

lol- love how you described the purpose of p94, when you wanna get high but don’t want to do illegal substances. I haven’t tried this one yet, but I might have to for the eye contact thing. I have pretty great eyes but whenever I lock eyes with someone the feeling is too intense so I look away quickly-- I like to savor those moments for people (men) I really like.

what IS IT with men in NY wanting babies so badly?! I’m having the same problem. In fact- reading your journal is so much fun bc I can relate to you so well!

Pretty impressive that the guy from your friend’s stoop joined you at the bar to watch a game-- nothing happened with that? No number? Obviously if he’s wandering, the relationship can’t be very solid. Or he’s just a cheater.

Kinda wish I heard about TAF when I was studying all the time!

oh and p.s thanks for the shout-out- we truly are on the same vibe. for sure!

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Hey LadyScientist… Actually MX135 comes in cookie scented (MX235) and grapefruit (MX335). I think I’m going to try MX335 next time. Seems like that would be the easiest to cover. Based on what I’ve read about your non-phero scents, that might work for you too.

I’m usually not a staring kind of person. When I’m feeling lovey, yes. But if I’m at a bar or just hanging out, I don’t find myself staring a whole lot. I REALLY like P94 for enabling me to deliver more eye contact. Hell, I REALLY like P94 for the self-effects. :stuck_out_tongue:

Nothing ever happened with the stoop guy, lol! He was childless too (and he wanted kids) so even if he were available that plucks him out of my league. Sheesh… if I wanted more kids I can guarantee you I wouldn’t be able to find one in a 100 mile radius. However because I’m content and just looking for love, every man I meet is on the baby making trajectory. I think it is a NY thing though. I’ve lived in other cities and NY is the only place I’ve found this to be a regular reality.

My guess is that you get so tired of dating here (because there are a lot of singles) that when you do meet someone who matches most of what you want and doesn’t give you too much grief, you’re inclined to jump at the opportunity.

I’m in Miami for a while, so I’m curious to see if the same thing happens here.

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Greetings Girlfriday, have you taken Miami by storm? Missing your posts. Please grace us with a few “here and theres” when you have time!

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You must’ve been reading my mind Outset! I’ve been frantically apartment hunting since I got here… trying to learn my way around… getting a bit of beach time in.

I just went to South Beach last night to hang out. It’s REALLY touristy, lol! $55 for 2 margaritas, only to hang out with other out-of-towners??? No can do. :open_mouth: I’ve got to find out where the locals congregate. Even if I am technically a tourist, I usually don’t frequent tourist eateries or bars. I wanna go where the locals make merriment.

Anyway those are my groans.

However there have been some grins. Last week while searching for an apartment, I wore 2 Sprays of MX135 every day.

DAY 1:
Damn that chocolatini smell! When this bottle is done I’m going with MX335, which is the grapefruit scent. (Same formula, different scent, hurray!)

Visited the food court at a local mall. I was reeking of MX135 after walking from the parking lot to the mall in this insane heat. The Hispanic order taker was a grumpy girl to the two customers ahead of me. When I got up there, I was prepared for more of the same. But she ended up being really, really nice. I mean smiling, happy nice.

She spoke to one of the ladies making my chile cheese fries, and that lady ended up giving me 2 large chile cheese fries instead of the 1 I ordered. When I said to her, “No… I only ordered 1!” she said, “No, it’s okay. You can have both!”

I thanked the original order taker and the mini-me and I commenced to filling our bellies.

Was that MX135 at work? I think so.

DAY 2:
First thing in the morning I visited the office of real estate agent who was helping me find a place. My aroma was still fresh since it had been less than an hour since I did my two MX135 sprays.

While waiting for my agent, I started chatting with the boss man in the office. Hispanic guy, mid 40’s, handsome! (Married.)

When my agent arrived, I started filling out some paperwork. When I asked about cable providers in that area, the boss man (who was in his office) came out and assisted me. A few minutes later I asked my agent about the distance between two locations. Once again the boss man came out of his office to assist me.

Mind you, I wasn’t talking to the boss man. I was directing these questions to my competent agent. But on three different questions, boss man popped out of his office to respond to me.

DAY 3:
Back to the food court from DAY 1. Different restaurant, very nice cashier. There was a man standing in front of me ordering… Late 50’s, Caribbean accent. No eye contact on the line.

I sat down with my food and waited for my cousin. The same guy who was in line ahead of me walks past my table.

“Is anyone sitting there?” He points to two seats to my left.

“Help yourself!” I respond.

He gets on the phone and I discover that he’s a surgeon. (I think he was trying to show off, lol!) After his phone call, he asks if I’m on my lunch break. This leads to 15 minutes of small talk. At the end of the conversation he offers his number in hopes that he can wine and dine the NYC transplant. Very nice man, but out of my age range.

GENERAL OBSERVATIONS:
One thing I am noticing about people here is that they’re a wee bit… RUDE. On at least 6-7 different occasions I’ve held the door open for the person behind me and not once have I heard a “thank you.” I observed my daughter hold the door open for a woman at the gas station. She just walked right on through the door without saying a word. I’ve noticed this with and without MX135.

I’ve lived in New York, Los Angeles, Philadelphia, Baltimore, Washington DC, Paris, Montreal, Vancouver, Amsterdam, etc. I’ve never had this problem anywhere else and it bothers the shit out of me.

I spoke to another out-of-towner at the mall the other day and she also commented how rude the people were. A flight attendant told her that the people in Miami can be like that. So it’s not just me. (Oh joy.) It’s just a different vibe that I need to figure out.

I am feeling like MX135 is helping in certain situations, though. For the first two weeks I was here, I didn’t really wear any pheromones. I was literally ready to hop back on the plane to NY. I was not digging this city AT ALL!!! And trust… I’ve lived in ritzy doorman buildings overlooking the park, and I’ve lived in working class neighborhoods… I’m used to making friends quite easily no matter where I am – pheromones not necessary. So it has really taken me aback that Miami is proving to be a tough nut to crack.

But I have to admit that with MX135, I am getting some better attention. The hits aren’t overwhelming, but it’s enough where I see some potential here.

I just ordered some Instant Shine and Instant Sexiness A to see how they work here. My FedEx will be here tomorrow, so stay tuned. This should be interesting!

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I didn’t realize you moved! I must have missed something! I love Miami for a weekend away but I don’t think I could ever move there. The hospitals are the top in the country, so don’t be surprised at meeting really renown surgeons/doctors ( I met a neuro surgeon there at a juice bar and I STILL have him in my spank bank even though nothing happened between us).

A nice cool hip/kinda young area is near Wynwood Walls-- go check it out!

oh def try the Vanilla Dream fragrance (SOOO much better than the others so far)

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LS… I’m here for a year – testing the water. Still have my spot in NYC, but I’m renting it out. I am 100% sure I’ll be back in NYC in June. :wink: My daughter loves the beach so it’s partially her doing for being here. She has humored me through my French country spree, so I’m giving her the beach before she goes to high school.

I went to Wynwood Walls the first week I was here. (My daughter is a growing artist.) It does have that hipster-ish vibe. They have some cute little stores. It was the middle of the day when I went, so it wasn’t super busy, but the art was awesome. I have to try the bar scene there after hours. Also, seems like a good place to buy some property while it’s still on the rise.

I saw you swooning over Vanilla Dream. It’s on my hit list. I also want to try Coconut Vanilla.

Do you have any favorites P’s right now for daily wear?

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“How MX135 is Keeping from (completely) Hating Miami” Nice morsels of news in that post, thanks for sharing :slight_smile: I didn’t know that people had a reputation for being rude in Miami. I can’t believe that woman didn’t thank your daughter for holding the door open. It’s one thing to be rude to an adult but kids, come on, different playing field. People normally soften up -as they should!

Seems the MX135 is helping so like you said, there is potential. When you mix in some Putatives the hits will probably increase exponentially! You’re going to love the Instant Sexiness A and Instant Shine. They’re tried and true go-to’s from the consumer line. Easy to gauge doses and consistent results. Can’t wait to read more of your Miami adventures…good luck with the apartment hunt! Do enjoy the weather and lots of beach time with your ‘mini-you.’ The summer is going by incredibly fast.

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You sound like such an awesome mom! She’s lucky to have you!

I’m surprised to hear of this rudeness- I feel like NYC can be that way and the culture in Miami is mostly latin- latin cultures tend to be more friendly. I hold the doors for the elderly/disabled in my building all the time and the security guards have had to thank me for doing it, they see people walk by right past and don’t stop all day.

I’m still pretty new too with all the products so def do not have a favorite putative at the moment. I don’t really use it for anything but boys so I think my purchasing is very biased.

Glad you’ll be returning to NYC! around the time that I may be leaving? We shall see!

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Pissy Attitude VERSUS Instant Shine

I got my goodies this morning - Instant Shine and Instant Sexiness A. I have a few of the putatives and experimentals, but this is my first try with the consumer line. Yes, I know it seems backwards, but I like to throw caution to the wind with everything I do in life. :stuck_out_tongue:

I was meeting with the real estate agent this afternoon, so I decided to go with the Instant Shine first. Over the weekend this agent had been giving me major grief. I said he was ‘competent’ in my last post. Nah! I take that back. :roll_eyes:

<START RANT>
He did a basic background check and found someone with the same name and birth date as mine who had a rap sheet the size of Texas. The thing is, I have a very common name. It’s so common that even when I applied for a library card, they found someone with my exact name and birthdate. Online there are at least a dozen people with my exact name. He didn’t use my social, none of the previous addresses matched mine, and the race of the woman was completely different. But when he called, he insinuated that I was the woman behind this huge rap sheet. He was basically fishing to see if I would admit something, which REALLY pissed me off. :angry: :angry:
</END RANT>

Needless to say, I wasn’t in the mood for any crap today. I layered first with an Al Rehab perfume first (since that was the first thing my hand touched in the suitcase) then 1.5 sprays of Instant Shine. (I don’t think the first pump was a full one.)

I didn’t get any self effects, which is surprising for me. I thought for sure Pharrell was going to start singing in my head! But it could have been because I was already on edge thinking about this agent.

My father drove me to the agents office and the whole way he was Mr. Happy Good Times. We got lost on the way there and I was freaking out. Meanwhile he’s like, “No big deal… we’re just learning our way around. Now we know what’s on this road.”

Now let me tell you why this is a big deal. My dad was even more pissed off with the way this real estate agent was handling things. Between the two of us, I was the sane one. Prior to spraying the Instant Shine he had nothing but terrible things to say about this guy.

All of a sudden we get in the car with the windows rolled up and he’s super cool with everything. Didn’t even give a shit that we got lost. I would have a hard time saying that this wasn’t Instant Shine at work. In fact, I was surprised by my dads carefree attitude. I almost felt guilty that I was all worked up and he wasn’t, lol!

Got to the listing agents office and my agent asks for a check. He didn’t tell me to bring the check. He just said bring the paperwork. I was instantly pissed off. We were going to have to head back to the house, get the check then drive all the way back to the agents office. Of course I’m steaming.

Once again my dad is mad cool with everything. As we walked away he was super pleasant, while I was ready to come out of my skin and strangle this agent. If it weren’t for the fact that I can move in on Thursday, I would have dropped the agent like a hot potato right then and there.

But then the agent redeemed himself. He said he would follow us back to the house so we wouldn’t have to bring the check back. And that’s when I FINALLY relaxed. I don’t know if the Instant Shine affected my agent, but I was happy he stepped up to the plate.

Once that ordeal was over I felt great the rest of the afternoon. Honestly I can’t say if that was Instant Shine or me just being relieved that I only have to deal with this agent one more time at the signing, but I did feel good.

SUMMARY OF RESULTS:

  • Upon spraying, I didn’t feel any self effects. I really should have tried this while I was calm, so I could have gotten a baseline of the changes.

  • As I type this report I’m about 5.5 hours into Instant Shine. I have to admit that I do feel really good. Am I happy because I’m getting a place that’s 10 minutes from the beach or because of Instant Shine??? I honestly don’t know yet.

  • My dad clearly reacted to Instant Shine while we were in the car with the windows rolled up. I could tell the difference from his attitude in the house to his attitude in the car. He quickly morphed into Mr. Happy Pants. It was a tangible change.

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Awww… thanks for the compliment! I treat my daughter the way I wish my mother would have treated me. I go to every event and I treat dreams very seriously. She’s only young like this once, so it’s the least I can do. Besides that, I always remember the bumper sticker that says, “Be nice to your kids, one day they’ll pick your nursing home.” :smiley:

I can’t peg this rudeness thing down here! But today (I just remembered) I held the door for a woman at the post office and she actually said thank you. So maybe I just had a string of piss ants.

I hear ya about the P’s. I started off buying for the boys, but quickly discovered that I love the self effects just as much as I love the attention. P94 is my homie for life in that department! I’m working with Instant Shine and Instant Sexiness A now, so we’ll see.

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Instant Shine - A Girl’s Review - Day 2

Welcome back Instant Shine!
1 Spray to the neck
1 Spray to the back of the forearm (rub, rub)

Today was a stress free zone. I started off feeling good because we were going furniture shopping and I got the real estate agent hassles out of the way via text. Hair is up in a funky little bun. I’m wearing my favorite leggings with a fitted blue tank top, and the body is looking pretty tone. Perfect time for a revisit to Instant Shine.

This time I sat down on the sofa while I sprayed so I could really explore the self effect depth of this potion. What I felt was a very light, barely there tinge of additional happiness. Don’t get me wrong, I could feel something brewing. But it was veeeerrrry mild. I will describe it as a gentle wave of warmth. Kinda like that ‘Alright!’ feeling you get when you find a $20 bill in a pair of pants you haven’t worn in months. Not overwhelming or complex, but pleasant.

I sat there for about 20 minutes and observed that Instant Shine did amp up a wee bit more. Now I’m recognizing this feeling as the same thing I experienced two days ago. It’s not something I can tangibly put my finger on. It’s not like my pupils dilate or I get super frisky or She-Ra confident. For me it’s a gentle feeling of niceness.

I’m definitely going to up the dosage on this one before I start combo-ing it. I want to see if I can enhance the self effects.

As far as treatment from other people, Instant Shine is doing a stellar job. If you’ll recall from a couple of journal posts ago, I wasn’t digging on the first month impressions of Miami. MX135 was helping, but Instant Shine is kicking ass and taking names.

Purchased a dining room set today and the only delivery date they had was Tuesday. I really wanted to have something this Friday so we could have a nice family dinner on our first night in the new place. The salesman worked his magic and squeezed us in for Friday. Huzzah! Keep in mind this is the second unsolicited favor I got while wearing Instant Shine. I didn’t even ask the salesman if he could work us in. (And no, I didn’t buy the most expensive set there, nor was this guy trying to score a date!) He just did it on his own accord. :slight_smile:

At around the 5 hour mark I did develop a slight headache, which isn’t usual for me. In the past I’ve noticed that certain pheromones do this to me, so I’ll be keeping a close eye on things.

SUMMARY OF RESULTS:

  • The self effects are there, but very mild. Personally, I don’t like mild self-effects. I like mones that bang me over the head and drag me away caveman style. It is for that reason P94 and even TAF remain two of my favorites. I’m hoping I can get that happy, happy, joy, joy thing going tomorrow with 3 sprays.

  • I feel like the people around me get more out of Instant Shine than I do. I’m summarizing the best hits, but Instant Shine is definitely making Miami easier to deal with. The people I’m around seem a lot more chill. Not sexual… just chill.

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Nice hits with Instant Shine Girlfriday! I hope it continues to pave the way for ya’ as you get situated in the new place :slight_smile:

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Finally made it into my new spot, almost all furniture has been delivered, and I’m back online. (Hurray!)

To celebrate, I did:
1 Spray of Instant Sexiness A to the neck
1 Spray of Instant Sexiness A to the back of the forearm (rub, rub)
Very Hollywood by Michael Kors

I threw caution to the wind with Very Hollywood. I haven’t worn it in ages, but it actually worked really well with the Neroli scent. I would consider it a great cover if you don’t like Neroli.

I knew that my period was rapidly approaching and I was feeling kind of tired yesterday. Upon spraying I didn’t notice any self-effects, which was a bummer. This needs to be tried when I’m not under a PMS spell. :wink:

Headed out to Target to pick up some household stuff. Actually this is the third time this week I’ve been to Target. One of the workers must be starting to recognize me because as she walked past me she said, “Hey! Nice to see you again!” That pleasantly took me by surprise because she hadn’t said anything all week.

Got up to the register and I was really chipper with the cashier. I had a big box at the bottom of the cart and I said, “I turned this over just so you could get to it easily!” She totally ignored my chipper-ness, lol! Not even a cheesy smile. But when another cashier came over after the transaction was done, she seemed to be happy.

I had to send a family member a Moneygram so I headed over to Wal-Mart next. I was standing in back of a lady with a teeny little baby in the stroller. The baby started crying and when the lady picked her up I was cooing and oohing like crazy. I asked the woman, “How many days is she?” She glanced at me with an Evileen Wicked Witch of the West look and responded, “15 days.” To which I responded, “Awwww… she’s such a beautiful little angel!” She said nothing in response. Straight to crickets.

Hmmmm… It was the same kind of middle finger vibe I got from the cashier at Target. Eerily similar, in fact.

I haven’t done a whole lot of research on Instant Sexiness A, but I need to go back through the archives to see if it causes bitchiness from other women. Even though I knew I was a day or two away from the red river flowing, I was still happy. A bit tired, but not snappy, short or snippy. Yet 2 out of the 3 women I spoke to looked like they wanted to bite my head off. Could it be me kicking off a bitchy pheromone? :smiley: For some reason, I didn’t encounter any males while running errands. Obviously I need to gauge the male attention from IS/A.

SUMMARY OF RESULTS:

  • No noticeable self effects.
  • Females were very standoffish. Even though I noticed it, it didn’t bother me. Now that I’m thinking about it, perhaps THAT is the self effect. Not caring what anyone else thought of me.
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OK, so here is my guy assessment, please take it with a grain of salt.

It is either one or all of the below:

-They are jealous. The cashier sees you with the sexy, happy, vibe making jokes etc and she is working, wearing a red Target smock, and doesn’t want to be there.

-You have been to Target so many times now that the women working there are syncing up with your monthly cycle. :slight_smile:

-Baby Mom..she just popped a squealer 15 days ago and is probably not feeling that good about her body right now, and you come by and dose her with all your Instant Sexiness and she resents it..she hates you…and she goes home and eats 2 bars of chocolate.

Warning…Female stereo type comment coming:

IMO, and IME, women are much harder on each other than guys are, and much more judgmental. For instance:

Two women see a new hot gal come into the party, and they are like, “Do you see her dress? Her boobs are gonna fall out. Slut much??”

Two guys see her and say simultaneously, “Nice rack.”

Guys dont instantly judge other guys when they come in the room. They see a new guy come into the party and think, “What a cool Spiderman tee shirt. I wonder where I can get one?”

I will let some of the ladies comment further as to whether IS/A rubs other women the wrong way, as I dont wear it, yet :slight_smile: And Monesmademedoit or LadyScientist are the ones to talk to about how it may be affected by your girlie cycle. Im sure it has some effect.

So, Im sorry for rambling, I was up at 3am this morning catching a flight home and I came straight into work. My latest package from AD was waiting for me so I dosed myself with a goodly amount of P103 and now I dont give a flying f_ck about getting anything done. But I do feel like a happy mellow fellow.:cool: