Guy i work with and who i “chase”, is very reserved person anyway. Very moody, not very open person and extremely hard to approach, which makes him even more interesting for me.
Until i started using pheros, he was okay. Now he is ignoring me, like i was a piece of furniture or smth… He only approaches me when he like really HAS to, like when there is something about work that really needs to be done.
First day i used pheros, he was like completely ignoring me for whole day and then at the end of the day he just came straight up to me, gave me some stuff, explained a little but the whole time he was staring straight into my eyes
Now he’s ignoring me again. Every attempt to communicate fails.
im a newbie and i really don’t get it… am I doing something wrong??
First day i used 1 drop of Primal. Now i use 2 drops, which should be okay… Or should i go back to using 1?
Seems like you noticed a pattern: no mones okay; with mones he’s ignoring you. Ditch the mones 'n go nekid. Maybe the racy signature is frightening to him. After all, Primal is known to be killer sh!t. Stuff like this happens to male pheromone users all the time.
Do u have any Instant Openness or Instant Honesty…those have worked for me…well I’m still in the process of getting that certain guys attention. But so far I’ve noticed he comes around more when I wear these.
That sounds to me like he may have a hard time dealing with being attracted to you. Reserved, moody… maybe also shy? If in the ancient past he has had negative results from letting his attraction be known, he might also be ignoring you as a way to stop himself being hurt. Most men are not offended by being gently hit on, but you might need to structure an opportunity for him to take things forward.
I could of course be completely wrong here - and it’s always tricky fishing in the company pond…
Yep, PQ- that’s the impression I got, too. I’ll second CharmfulScorpio’s rec for IH. Then it’ll be even harder for him to contain himself, hahaha! Something’s gotta give here!
Kiara might need to make it obvious (what might seem to her ridiculously obvious) that she would respond positively so that it’s clear to him she is not just flirting without intent. And might need to suggest something to do together without making it her idea/plan. But that’s just written from a guy’s perspective - I don’t have a great insight into girl ‘game’
Being a moody guy I might have a few worthwhile tidbits. Sure he might be afraid of being hurt–but I doubt it–might not want to fish in the company pond–possible–or being the moody type might not be into interaction at that particular time. The verbal centers of the male brain are easily burnt out compared to women. Maybe his quota was up for the day. Mine runs dry around 1:00 PM and takes 2 or 3 hours to recover, so I avoid interaction as much as possible. Mindless activities such as channel or internet surfing seems to be good therapy.
Hard time dealing with being attracted to me… hm… that makes sense. It just may be it.
i guess im going back to 1 drop, i still remember that look he gave me on the first day of using pheros
Im waiting for my instant openness & sexyness, and i really hope that stuff gets here soon cos i dont have much time left.
Ok, the description you gave describes me about a year ago, and even currently in some situations.
He may have a social disorder and not realize it. For me it is social anxiety, which prevents me from socializing with people when I really want to. Social anxiety is different from shyness as social anxiety is crippling, and can make the person feel like they need to flee to their own abode in order to recuperate. He may also be shellshocked at the fact that you take a liking to him - inferiority complex. These root problems will most likely cause a moody/push away persona as you are invading his comfort zone.
My advice is to wear Instant Honesty or Instant Openness if and when you do get the chance to use it around him. Instant Honesty has opened me up to be more confident/comfortable around the women that I like. As far as your approach is concerned, I would definately open up to him and try to get him comfortable around you. If he is non-responsive, then let him be for a short while, then try again. He will eventually understand that you are sincere about your attraction to him, and are not just being flirtatious to tease him and/or playing a mind game to get him to open up. These were my reasons not to talk to anybody that approached me when I was going through my most intense phase.
I sincerely doubt that one or 2 drops of primal for women (it is for women, isn’t it?) is doing absolutely anything, to tell you the truth. Androstenol can be worn in mega, mega doses (see Spaceland). Androtics has a similar formula with LAM (anol and cops), and I use it by whole dropperful smeared all over. And I find it useful for self-effects primarily as oil products don’t seem to have a big throw.
If I were you, I’d try Isexi (4-5 sprays) or Mx 135, 3-4 sprays.
You might be trying way too hard. Sometimes girls think they are good at inticing men but just come off as really desperate. It can actually be really insulting when a girl just throws herself at a guy expecting him to be a horny caveman and just go for it. I would try to talk to him casually for a while and then pull away and see if he pursues. Don’t try to overdue the sexual vibes , believe it or not some men don’t think just with their penis.
OMG, the guy i chase is the same way, he doesn’t talk much, very difficult to approach, and that’s what makes me more interested
But yeah, i would tottally ditch the pheros if im not being ignored, becasue it might him feel alittle uncomfortable, especially when your really smexxy wearing them
Mones enhance things. They dont change them. It could be a few things.
Maybe your target is just not ready or interested in a relationship. The mones could be working and making him aroused but if he is not ready he is ignoring you more to try to avoid that arousal.
He could be having confusing mixed messages. Try to use communication type mones first and establish that he is open to a relationship. Primal can be sending out a strong sexual vibe and you want to start with a flirty more open fun approchable vibe. You need to get him to want to see you away from work before you hit him with the primal. Its ok to wear a little bit of a sexual mix at work but I think it should always be paired with a fun communication mix.
Or it could be that such a strong sexual vibe is scaring the hell out of him and again you again need to lure him before you snag him.
Using mones in the work place is not the same as in a club where men feel more comfortable hitting on women. There is a possiblity that because your in the work place he is trying to maintain control. Guys have to be careful in the work place because alot of companies have strict harrasment rules.
True its not as strong as alot of sexual mixes out there but it still is a mix that pushes in that direction. She says he is moody and quiet and I just feel she needs to get past that first. He is ignoring her more since she has been wearing Primal. Some guys like my Husband need alot of cops to achieve a reaction and some guys like the guy I was giving the accidental woodie to at work only need a little. He happens to be a very quiet moody person as well and was reacting to residue left from cops the night before. If a guy can react to that he can react to the small amount of cops in Primal.
I am thinking if she can make him feel more comfortable to open up a little he will respond better and your not going to get comfort with primal.
