Hi, my name is Jody, and I live in North Carolina, just outside of Greensboro. I am 30 years of age, and I am blind (I have been since birth). Some of my hobbies include reading, chess (I am currently in two active tournaments; anyone who plays the game and is interested, just let me know and maybe we can have a friendly correspondence or telephone game), and I love reading and briefing Supreme Court cases. I spend a lot of time learning law. I am currently preparing to open my own PC support business. Feel free to check out my web site: www.techietouch.com
I just stumbled across pheromones on the Internet, so I decided to do a little reading, and I then came across this forum. I am new to the phero world, so I am not quite sure what to buy. I am married, and we are madly in love. However, she never seems to want to be intimate with me, and I don’t mean sex. She won’t just cuddle with me and hold me and caress me and kiss me and tell me she loves me. The only time she does those things is when she finally decides to make love, and we go weeks in between our lovemaking. We’ve been to the doctor, and everything hormonal checks out perfectly normal. I am looking for a product that can help spice our romance up a bit, to revive her passion, something that might help her to want me in that way again. I miss her…more than she knows. Any suggestions?
Hey there Jlove, welcome to the forums! Wow, may i say that it’s great that you seem to have no difficulty doing whatever you want in life, despite being blind. I’m not sure i’d have the same drive as you, so i highly respect you for it. I think we may be able to help here, but can we get just a little bit more information from you first?
What is the personality of both you and your wife? Is she stressed out by work and daily life, or could something else be driving ideas of intimacy from her? And when she IS feeling cuddly, does she communicate her feelings more, or does she do that all the time and just get more physically intimate (cuddly, etc) when she gets passionate? Please give me a little more info and i’ll see what i can suggest for you. Looking forward to hearing more from you! Cheers for now!
Stress is indeed a huge libido killer. If that is the issue your wife will need to find a way to mitigate that in her life – no magic bullet for that. (been there, done that).
If she is just more introverted than you are, some instant honesty might be good. This is probably my favorite product, as much for the self-effects as for the effects on others. I’m strongly introverted and some days this really eases my social interactions.
Random question: I’m also curious to know what kind of accessibility issues (if any) you find on the internet. I know that websites are supposed to have code with all the pictures, etc. so that all content is accessible through voice programs, but how often do you find that is lacking?
That is very sweet of you to go to these lengths create that connection. I’m not married, but I have a Significant other who is very cold and almost never cuddles and barely ever kisses me unless were in the bedroom.
But with pheromones I have slowly gotten him to relax and just the other night he was hold me, kissing me, cuddling with me and telling me he wanted to just kiss all night. It was magical. And it wasn’t the first time it had happened with pheros either. So yes you can get to this point with your wife, but first you need to build onto it.
I’d like to know a little more about you though. Are you generally friendly? Shy? Confident?
Are you passive or aggressive?
Also, is it just romance your seeking or would you like to have more/better sex? Get respect from others or have a better social life?
I wish you luck in your ventures and hope that it all works out for you. I mean, if someone as cold as my guy could become so loving he wanted to kiss me all night and cuddle I’m sure a women, who’s nature instinct is to be loving, would react well to pheromones.
Let us know if you have any questions.
We’re both definitely not shy about expressing our feelings. She tells me that she loves me, that she’s in love with me, and that she can’t imagine her life without me. The problem is that she is very rarely, as you call it, “cuddly.” The only time she will cuddle with me is when she wants to make love (and, like I said, there’s apparently an issue there). I have tried to tell her that we can cuddle without making love, but she won’t do it.
She’s not as stressed now. Things are going pretty well…the only thing she’s stressed a little about is getting a better job, but she’s not curled up panicking.
My wife is great with words…I just would like for her to show me a little more physical manifestations of her love.
More times than you will ever know. While it is true that developers of sites are encouraged to use ALT tags for MSAA accessibility, it is not required and many do not. I am constantly annoyed, if not completely thwarted by the now ever-growing GUI-dependent PC. There are days when I would gladly go back to straight keyboard use…a mouse on the desk of a blind person is merely decorative…lol. BTW, go check out my site…
Wow this is a refreshing change from what we normally get. Your wife is a lucky lady.
I suggest some AMMO just to spice it up a bit even though your looking for more affection. It is mildly arousing but has great pull as well.
IH for a deep intimate connected feeling. Ishine for a warm charismatic charm.
Right now IFM is out of stock but I would suggest when it comes back you get this one as well. It has A1 in it which has been dubbed the “love” mone and increases affection as well as calms and comforts. Great if she gets PMS to LOL
Now before you think…wow thats a lot of products. They have to go size in the store so you can try them out before you invest in the big bottle. Each has 40 sprays and they are a great value when your unsure of which product to get.
Welcome to the forum, we all have to learn. The 2X means double strength, a/b means slightly different versions of a product. T U T H is Turn Up The Heat, one of the products here.
Hope this helps. Be sure to tell us more about yourself so you can get the $25 gift card.
If you see x2 or x4 after a product name, it means it is double or quadruple strength ( as in amount of pheromones per spray), some of us use higher strength products because it can, depending on your sweet spot, work out cheaper.
Anything with MX before it is a test mix, experienced people help with the research by testing mixes for Androtics, anything with a P at the start,eg P74, is a single molecule that may have some useful properties, again, experienced users test these for androtics.
Instant Sexiness A is sometimes abbreviated to IS/A, there is also a B variant, I’m sure you can work out the abbreviation for that one.
Turn up the Heat (T U T H) is a sexual pheromone for guys which basically says ’ I’m horny, lets get it on NOW’. A lot of guys see this and go for it, often with disastrous results when it scares the intended target away.
You have probably already discovered how big this forum is, your very best friend will be the search button at the top right with over 10,000 members, you can guarantee that your question has been asked before.
As you may have noticed, the forums automatically convert most of the abbreviations into the Androtics product names. If you have any specific ones that DON’T automatically convert, I’m sure people would be willing to help you out.
So, tell us a bit about yourself! How’d you find the site? What are you hoping to achieve with pheromones? What kind of setting do you think you’ll use them in?
…and anything else that you want to talk about. We’re all friendly here, and have no problem answering your questions.
Your website is very simple, neat, and informative, which I like!
Is anyone working on a gizmo that would convert a graphical user interface to one that was both a combination of tactile user interface and vocal? Like a screen you can touch that would convert menus and links to braille but have longer content converted to vocal?
You are by no means alone with the lack of intimacy issues, there are plenty of guys on here in the same boat. There are two threads linked from my signature below that may be of some help, my journal ( I am in a very similar position to yourself ) and bosshank’s excellent married guys thread.
You’ve had some excellent recommendations already regarding products, I can add nothing except my support, you’re amongst the friendliest bunch of guys and gals I have ever worked with, enjoy the ride.
Not at all…the questions you’re asking are actually very intelligent. The answer is no. There is nothing like that. What I use at home is a program which will read the screen to me, but it is atrocious when it comes to graphics, and forget about pictures…can’t tell me anything about them.
You wouldn’t believe some of the questions I get about being blind…“how do you walk around in your house?”…well, the same way you do…“how do you cook?”…Ok, that one is more legit…I use feel and smell…“how do you make love?”…Extremely well…lol…
I actually do better when giving massages (and thats as far as you lot get info going down that road) when i turn off the lights and concentrate on feel. You can feel where muscles are tense and when someone needs more work in one area when you’re not concentrating on sight. Maybe you should be a masseuse, Jlove!
with over 10,000 members, you can guarantee that your question has been asked before.