Hello my name is Roger I am 42 years old from Orlando married 16 years.
The reason I am here is that I am hoping that this can help me be more attractive to my wife kind of rekendel the romance.
I am not a bad looking guy and I am great shape working out 4 times a week but the wife dose not seem to notice.
I am a bit skeptical so if someone could point me in the right direction I would be most great full
Cool site by the way thx Roger
Hello and welcome to the forum.
If you are looking for ideas to rekindle things at home there is a thread in my signature block that talks about just that. Give it a read - it has ideas, strategies and the products you can use.
Give it a read and then come back and please ask any questions. Just remember the real idea is relationship. These products will help but the real work is in that area.
Looking forward to your response.
Hi there, Roger, and a warm welcome to the mone forum!
Woah… tough situation for sure. I mean, attraction and rekindling it… has a lot more to do with your relationship along with how you treat each other. What you do to make her feel that she is your ‘girl’. I’ve learned that not being a bad looking guy, being in good shape will not usually get your LTR to just jump on you. Unless she is a very shallow person, vacuous, she will likely not see this so much.
What can you do for showing your interest, respect and admiration of her? That would be more constructive to the relationship, IMHO. As to mones…
You will possibly be needing some A314 and AMMO to get a vibe of Alpha man here to take care of YOU and Sexy guy as well… 
This will support your efforts in your actions toward her of re-enforcing the relationship you have.
Wish you well, Real1ty! 
Welcome to pherotalk Roger!
I am glad you came to us for help. Luckily there are many experienced users on this forum around your age and are married who can assist.
Your gc was issued!
I appreciate your help and am going to try some out .
I do have a good relationship with the wife we are close but I don’t feel that she acts attracted to me that’s all. she is a great wife but I would like it if she was more affectionate at times. was thinking this would help
Things can be tough once you add in jobs and kids and everything else.
I would run first with IH and IShine. Tell her how you feel. Not what you think, but how you see the situation and how it makes you feel. Then ask her for her thoguhts and feelings on the situation.
Have you ever heard of the book Love and Respect? Get ahold of it if you can.
Once you get that discussion going some and based on what is said , then it might be time to throw in some Ammo.
Hi and welcome Roger
The guys here have given you some good advice. Mones can enhance bonds/communication and relationships but not on their own. Some leg work also needed by you and IMO some frank dialogue between you and your wife.
From a female perspective, the monotonousness of daily grind with work, kids etc can take its toll on affection in LTR’s and I believe to be successful and happy we need to work at them.
I’d go with the guys suggestions of IS and IO and IH initially, throw in a bit of A314 with loads of guys here rave about and take some time to talk, romance and woo back your wife.
All relationships change with time, you might be surprised to find she feels similar to you if an open discussion can be had ( try IO and IH). When was the last time you did something romantic and unexpected for her? How did she respond?
It might be worth talking to one of her close female friends, as to plan a surprise break or night out without the kids to worry about. Thoughtfulness and taking the time is worth its weight in gold. It’s not so much about the material value but the time and consideration you demonstrate.
Do you have a shared interest/hobby? Could you both start something new together, a class/project/sport? Laughing releases endorphins the natural feel good mone, so a night out at a comedy club/show and reconnecting with her on a personal level will all contribute to your goal. Mones can help smooth the way but you also need to think outside the box a bit to.
I’d be interested to read a journal should you feel so inclined