The reason i am here… that is one hell of a story..
Basically, I am trying to find an edge to help me save my marriage and rekindle my sex life. Me and my wife are currently seperated, and when we initially seperated i started dating other women as i had planned on getting a divorce, one thing led to another and i wound up sleeping with these other ladies.
After a while we decided to try and work things out and are doing the counseling thing and part of that is being honest so i told her about sleeping with the other women when she asked, but there is a brick wall im having a hard time getting past. Right now she has a hard time opening up to me, and NEVER wants to touch me or let me touch her, she says because everytime i do it makes her think of the other women i slept with and makes her sick, which i can understand and know that it will take time to get past that. She lives with her mom and her mom HATES me and can barely stand me when im around, which just complicates things.
What i need is something to give me an edge, ive read a couple threads and understand that these arent magic potions, i’m just looking for something to … grease the wheels so to speak, some A-1 sauce to add some flavor/interest. My other issue is im financially screwed since im supporting myself and helping her cause she lives seperately (who isnt lately :/) so can only afford probably one product.
I have always known about pheromones, but always been skeptical and remain so to some extent, but this forum is helping and im willing to give the products a shot.
Hi, welcome to the forum. first piece of advice, read everything you can in here (including the women’s section), plenty of people around who know what they are talking about, not me, I’ve been here 2 weeks or so and know jack all!
If I were to advise you to buy one product then I would suggest that you concentrate on saving the marriage before worrying about the sex. For me, Instant Honesty seems to be making my wife open up more but be wary, it will affect you as well. Instant Female Magic may also be of some use but for me it had a far greater effect on women in the work place than the wife.
Don’t expect miracles overnight, after all, she probably feels disrespected, there is no way on earth that she will throw her panties at you and reach for the lube at the first hint of pheros but from what I’ve seen with my own eyes using this stuff, good things come to those that have patience and are prepared to use the wealth of experience in here!
Pheromones can do a lot of things but they will not fix a relationship for you. That will be up to YOU! They can however help a little.
Rather than try to go into everything right here I will tell you to read the thread in my signature block about married guys. That may be some help and might point you in the right direction.
Please come back and ask any questions you might have.
I can understand your desperation, hope everything works out for you soon. like BShank said nothing will completely save your marriage just by itself, you need to act and do something about it too, pheromones will definitely help and give you a boost. there are many areas where it can help you improve such as communciation.
IH is a good choice, deepens the communication and increase “closeness”, for the sexual side of things tuth may or may not be a good choice, this is the thing that can never be sure until you try it, but use it at the right time and start with 1 spray only.
glad you two are working things out at least, don’t miss the chance, good luck.
thanks for the responses. I am not coming into this with the expectation that a product can fix it, just something to help things along, i know that its all about the counseling and working things out, Im not even trying to get laid anymore, ill be happy if i can just get her to want to hold my frickin hand!
Hi nfrman and welcome to the forum… you said yours is a hell of a story, but let me tell you… in this forum, a lot of the people who join the site have marriage problem and sex problem.. and for sure pheromones will help to either come back to your lved one.. or to be with any other girl around you… I would recommend Instant Gentleman, Turn Up The Heat and Instant Female Magic for you pal.. Instant Gentleman will make her see you in a total better way… she will be so kind to you and perhaps flirty… Instant Female Magic will make her relaaaaxxx… that way she will open to you when you try to touch her instead of stopping your hands as you mentioned… you will have to use this two lotions to resolve all problems and be back into her heart… after that you can start using Turn Up The Heat… with Turn Up The Heat, SHE will, literally, ask YOU to have sex with her hehe… it works soo fine but like Bosshank said, you have to put up most of the work, because pheros give you that head start you need to accomplish anything…
Now, onto your financial problem.. I totally understand you.. I also have a hard time trying to get my pheros… I’d say, get the To Go versions of the pheros I mentioned above and you’ll have enough to fix this relationship 100 times in a row lol… and since it’s less quantity, it’s a lot cheaper and the 3 of them will cost you as much as one 30mL bottle…
and also, since you signed up, you will probably get $15 to spend in the pheros.. so that pays for more than one To Go version… welcome again
pheromones can do alot of things but they will not make her forget or get past knowing you were with other women. So while Turn Up The Heat and Ammo may make her aroused they wont make her forgive or forget. I dont suggest sexual pheromones for this situation.
I suggest you start with Instant Honesty for a close connected feeling.
When you have the money look into these…
Instant Female Magic to prehaps calm and ease her. It can also increase affection which will help.
Instant Gentleman for a more mature trusting safe vibe.
Instant Shine just to make her feel better. Its upbeat and warm
Work with those for a while, while you regain her trust and work on your relationship. I know you didnt cheat on her technically but her trust has still been damaged.
Then consider gaining her respect again with actions or course and A314.
After that, if all is going well, I would suggest getting some of the sexual pheromones if that is still a problem.
You are facing a long and difficult battle. And the outlook isn’t all that good. In my experience it’s nearly impossible to recoup your position from such a loss.
Whereas men can often forgive and forget (like in a sports contest where they practically kill themselves on the field but are good buddys off the field), women work a little differently. Once you’ve crossed a certain line the bridges oft get burned. Sometimes the only (and best) choice is to move on with your life. Sad but true. Been there. Done that.
