Hello Maxx, Welcome to Pherotalk 
A lot of men and women purchase mones for the very same reason. They are great for spicing things up. Takes a few exposures with those close to us because they are preconditioned to act a certain way but after they are around them for those few exposures they begin to process those new feelings and emotion the mones are signaling.
Some great info to read on the forum
Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home By Bosshank
diamond's journal "clinging on to the wreckage" By Diamond
You have a few options to think over.
You can look at TUTH which is very arousing and good to spice things up in the bedroom.
AMMO which is arousing but less aggressive and is good to spark some interest and increase sex appeal. This you can wear anytime.
IH which deepens feelings of intimacy and connection.
I always like to mention Ishine because its such a great versatile product for giving a feeling of upliftment and well being and youthful charm.
If you have questions just ask. Your GC is on its way
Tisha
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