Hello everyone.
For a long time, I’ve followed the press surrounding human pheromones. I believe the science and I am intrigued by the idea of putting chemical secret agents to work on my behalf. I also believe the placebo effect and the power of suggestion so I’m also skeptical. Anyway, browsing and reading here for a few days has convinced me to part with some money and see what I might experience.
A little about me: I’m a white anglo divorced professional man in my late 40’s living in the northeast US. I’m gay and in a committed LTR. Make that very LT. Medically, I’m healthy but no fitness geek. Normal weight, 18% body fat. I take a low dose med for BP and use 2.5mg testosterone patch daily.
My education and career is scientific and technical.
My job involves a corporate office, classrooms and short-term consulting gigs with individuals and small groups. 80% of my time is spent with new clients and the pace of personnel turnover in the office is faster. I’ve no reason to expect that to change.
I’m considered an expert in my field – more of an egg-head usually. ![]()
I’m good at developing technical rapport, but I have always had to work at purely social interactions outside my own circle of friends. Inside that circle, I’m relaxed, open and they say I’m fun to be around. As I’ve gotten older, though, I’ve become more self-absorbed and reclusive.
My goals or hopes for using pheromones:
Faster development of rapport and trust. More positive first impressions.
At work, create an aura of respect and authority more quickly.
In social situations, put myself and others in more relaxed and open frame of mind. I’d not be opposed to a small boost in sex appeal or enhanced bedroom antics, but I’m not on the prowl and my partner and I are very compatible already.
(Hmmm, maybe all that was too much information. I’ll just relax here on the couch while you review my files, doc.
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Based on what I’ve read, I was thinking to start my experiments with A314, Instant Honesty and Instant Shine.
Of course, I have lots of questions:
Are these products regulated? How do I know the vial I’m buying contains anything other than common cosmetics? Who certifies concentration, purity, safety? What are the normal variations in concentration of active ingredients? How stable are the mixtures; what is their shelf life? Has anyone ever used the guarantee? Does anyone publish rigorous or fuzzy analysis of all the reports in this forum? I’m curious about statistical methods and the science.
I expect I’ll find answers to most of these in different threads here, so I’ll keep reading.
I’ll welcome any questions, comments or suggestions.
My thanks to you all.
S