I have been lurking around the site for about a month or so and decided that it was time to finally test out some of the products myself. At this point I am not fully convinced that pheromones work- but I do believe in the untapped power of the unconscious mind.
A bit of an introduction- I am a 23 year old male living in Chicago. I work in an office during the day, and I spend my nights either working out, hanging out, or just relaxing at home. I am in a great relationship with a women I love, but I feel that I do not have enough close friends besides my girlfriend.
I give out the vibe that I am full of myself, and while good for dating, this has become too harsh for winning over friends. I am looking for something to soften up my personality, and make me more approachable. In a sense, I want to get into the friend zone. After a bit of searching, I think that instant shine might be the best product for me.
Please let me know if you agree on what product(s) would be the best for me in my situation to make more friends. I am excited to get moving on this!
You should certainly try out the nol based products, ih and io. Read the product descriptions. I think they’re just what you are looking for. They will take the edge off the harshness and make conversations flow easily.
can you tell us a bit more about how you approach people? do you approach people, and they shy away, or are you waiting for people to approach you? also, do you have any long term goals with pheros? perhaps to use with your gf, at work, etc.
ishine is a great product. it will help soften up your vibe. however, we want to make sure we get to the root of the problem, which can be determined by your answer to the question above. it might be that you just need some social opening, in which case io would be a good product for you too.
let us know some more details about how you interact with people and we can get you on the right track.
For your situation, I would definitely start with Ammo. It is a great all around product that will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost and can be worn in any environment.
To soften your personality and get past the friend zone, Instant Honesty would be perfect for you. It adds intimacy and depth to conversations. It will make people feel more comfortable around you and they will open up to you more.
I spend hours reading threads about guys who want to get out of the friends zone and you want to get in it. Nice, Lol.
As Gone with the wind suggested you need to take the edge of the apparent harsh vibe you give of.
Instant shine gives of a cheerful, happy vibe that will relax you and have others around you feeling great, thus, wanting to be around you more. It draws people in.
Instant Honesty is a communication pheromone just like Instant Openness.Instant Honesty is for a deeper level of communication, others feel really close to you and instant openness is like an ice breaker that will have people really chatty.
I would still want to know a bit more about your approach with others and why is it so hard for you to make friends. Reaching out when the opportunity arises is always a good way to start.
A little more about myself…I don’t have any problems opening up people. I can approach strangers fine, and am great with small talk. I just have a problem bridging the gap between quick acquaintance and meaningful relationships. It could stem from a fear of being let down (you can’t be let down by people who aren’t your friends)?
Maybe a product to give me the extra edge, and force myself to go out of my way a little more to make friends. I would be open for more ideas, but I am leaning towards either the openness or honesty right now. I will make my purchase sometime over the weekend.
Long term goals with pheromones would be split into two parts. One, to make more casual friends, and second would be to help me get ahead/respected in the business world. I put that part second because at 23 who wants to work all day .
cool. i hear ya on the “getting out there to make new friends” thing. that’s part of the reason i started with pheros too.
if you’re fine with opening strangers and can carry on small talk, i suggest ih. i use it when i want deeper conversations. this is good if you want to really know someone and make that transition from just an acquaintance to somebody who is an actual friend. people our age need social buddies – friends to go out with, play sports with, maybe some good/better female friends to stay in touch with the feminine side and keep things in balance. provided you’re able to meet and open these people, ih can help you create the connection. io is more for when somebody can’t open strangers.
you can also keep an eye on a314 or ig. those will help with the respect at work and also give your friends a “this guy is pretty neat; i enjoy being around him” vibe. a314 is a bit expensive and can wait until you’re serious about getting respect at work. you might spring for the ig to-go. ig and ih together give a vibe that you’re a trustworthy fellow that can hold genuine conversations.
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