I am a 34 year old married male. I live North of Chicago.
I have been having trouble with my wife lately. She lives in Florida for work reasons. I see her every so often, and one would think she would be on me like white on rice when she is here. But that is not the situation.
She never mentioned anything about divorce and I have no reason to believe she is in an extramarital affair, but it really bugs me that I am the only one doing it after practically begging for “some”.
I have tried a product called Loverboy from a local couples store but to avail. The best things I got from that was a successful job interview (when I know I messed it up bad) and it smells much like Coolwater. Way in the past (99’..?) I used something that worked as I was working as a cab driver at the time. I would get action and still get my fare. I just can’t remember for the life of me what the brand name was.
So as for my research, I looked and looked to find the best pheromones but I found too many, what looked like to be, bogus reviews to sell their own product. Then one day I came up with the idea to search Google with keywords: pheromones forum. This is how I came to this site. I was impressed by just browsing around and I ended up joining. Seems like a good bunch of people who are experimenting with different combinations to achieve different results. I hadn’t a clue that this was possible, let alone so many types.
My ultimate goal is to hopefully get us back together not only sexually but also to better our relationship altogether. Even as an office data entry clerk I am generally an alpha at this moment, but I wasn’t before in my first marriage. (My current is my second)
I truly believe you will need these 2 products for the current situation you are in and you willing to get your marriage emotionally as well as physically at a higher level. Instant Honesty is what I would like to recommend to you first. Instant Honesty will really do as it says and since you are in a marriage and committed it was be very easy for her to open up. It will deepen the conversation which will deepen your bond. Make sure you take full advantage of this so you both get deeper and emotionally closer with each other. The next product I would recommend is TUTH. Turn Up The Heat is a sexual product. It will make you seem like you want sex and it will arouse her as well. This will get it to the level you want, playing all cards correctly ofcourse
If you are having trouble opening up, which I doubt it, but seems like the distance between you two might make it somewhat harder. Instant Openness works great with Instant Honesty. It will make it easier to roll off into conversations.
All those 3 products should help you benefit the most my friend!
Any questions, feel free to ask me, I’ll be glad to help you
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I know where you are coming from thinking that why doesnt she want this as bad as i do since i havent seen her and weve both been without. The answer lies with how men and women are different in this aspect. Not all but the good girls seem to be more so this way. I dont think there is reason to believe that she is cheating on you either and will not tell you that if you dont believe its the case. Women tend to want to reconnect with you after you have been away from each and want to feel the closeness and intimacy first before the rest.
For guys it seems to be more of a stress reliever and way we associate emotional bond, and intimacy and that she relationship is okay. I think the suggestions above are a great start since re connecting after being away seems like what you need to be happening and showing her that you care for other things than just sex. It seems that they almost feel like it is a hookup rather than romantic and intimate. Almost like there needs to be time to reacclimate to their partner to feel the comfort and openness that is required for females to feel comfortable and relaxed in order to want to take it to the bedroom.
Ishine is a great one overall too that is a mood uplifter.
I would follow the other suggestions and read up more on TUTH to instill some sexual feelings in her, and also the IO, IH which will open the conversation and closeness factor up that is needed in your case. Start there and report your findings because I too am in a Long term relationship so me and the others also in your scenario would love to hear the feedback !
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Soon after making the original post, I went on unemployment and had the toughest time catching up. But now I am back on track and made my first order. Unfortunately the $25 coupon expired. Boo!
Thanks for the help seekingadvice. I sure made the order for those three.
