I’m new here & hoping for some experienced advice.
I am an attractive woman, 6’ tall, blond and turning heads. In adition to being smart and accomplished I often struggle to connect with men. It may be that I am too hard on them and intimidating.
I desire young fit men with really great aspirations but I often turn there advances into a shit show if they approach me in a cocky way. I have begun to realize that my young and single male colleagues considered me one of the guys and act a great deal different around me than the other female colleagues. I realize I send mixed signals to them by being chummy but I prefer being treated like a lady even if there is no romantic possibility and even at a ball game. The younger men whom I work and am friends with are very uncensored around me.
Another thing I notice is that mature/older men in business and social settings always try at least 3x harder to compliment me and act very classy around me. When the younger men try to impress me they try in a totally different way, it’s not a display of how great they will treat me but more of a macho boast that I find difficult to respond well to. I usually challenge them when they do.
I wonder if it is the age difference affecting the males maturity or if there is a pheromone that would make me appear less intimidating, more approachable, more feminin or beta and/or perhaps more youthful/fertile to attract younger men and compell them to act more sophisticated in their approach. The friendships I have with straight men my age and younger seem to me less advantageous than the interactions I have with more mature men. I’m becoming frustrated and thinking of removing myself from some situations/friendships.
Why will a 43 year old man who wants to sleep with me pick me up and do me favors and always act like a gentleman around me and a young man who wants to sleep with me will meet me out, rarely go out of his way and sometimes act crude with bad language and manners in front of me? Is it because they aren’t looking for anything serious? Is it immaturity? Is it because I already rejected their advances and they are either burned or not up to give chase?
Is there by any chance a pheromone cure for this?
Please send the voucher for $15 off and any advice is certainly appreciated. Thanks
I have tried 3 different products from various manufactures (Temptress, Liquid Trust & Pheromore) and Temptress would be the only one that I can say I saw the reaction. I got online to order it again and found your forume so I’m happy I can look into perhaps even better options for myself.
Hi hypnotic and welcome to the forums and as your your dilemma let me try and give you some advice. For the intimidation factor you might want to try instant openness, and instant shine. The former will make you seem more approachable and easier to talk to while the latter will make people happier around you as well as yourself. Oh yea for the young men it’s cause they are from a different generation that’s usually full of shit( excuse my language) but that’s just the truth. You tend to have to look for more intelligent younger men if you want them to treat you correctly.
Hey hypnotic, Welcome! Look into Instant Sexiness mix B and molecule TAH. I think you will like it. Read up some of the reports about their use in the women’s section. By the way how old are you? I know, I know, shouldn’t be asking this to a lady. But you know pheromone use is dependent on a lot of factors, like age, diet, personality, blood group etc. So, if you would like to add more personal description to this thread please do so. It will really help us in giving you better suggestions. Enjoy!
Thank you for the suggestions, I’m excited to try them out.
I’m reading a lot about this Instant Shine and I’d like to know more. Is it appropriate for a female to wear, because the only bottle I am finding is for males? What about an intimidating female?
I have been feeling very anxious lately and until now assumed it is money related stress and fear of what’s next but after reading through a lot of this forum I am beginning to wonder if it has anything to do with the phomones I have been wearing. I have had many struggles in life and financial hardship isn’t rare but I never recall the weight that I have recently been feeling on my chest. It literally feels like I have 80lbs on my chest. Hopefully one of these new products can make me feel lighter. I will lay off the ones I have until my order comes and then test the new ones out.
instant shine works for both females and males. It gives you just a young youthful vibe that doesn’t just apply to men and it also makes you feel more confident and happier etc. Doesn’t matter if your intimidating or not shine will work for you.
Get a to-go bottle of IShine and ISexi mix B. That way you will know how they affect you before you commit to a larger bottle.
IShine will definitely make you feel much lighter. If you think there is no real reason for you to be feeling this weight then this can really help you a great deal. Good luck!
Instant Shine is really great for women as well as men. Uplifting. For the anxiety you describe, you might also like IFM - I’d try a To-Go size of the women’s version with the herbal additive. Just be aware that some men react to it by becoming quiet or a little down.
Now I am begining to understand. Your words intrigue me and I will try to answer your questions and tell you what I have learned. For some very strange reason older guys attract younger women. Older guys ARE more experienced, but not all of them have learned from their mistakes. I will guarantee you that you will NOT be happy with the youunger crowd. More later..
Now I am begining to understand. Your words intrigue me and I will try to answer your questions and tell you what I have learned. For some very strange reason older guys attract younger women. Older guys ARE more experienced, but not all of them have learned from their mistakes. I will guarantee you that you will NOT be happy with the youunger crowd. More later..
I’m an older man that often dates younger women–not solely due to preferences, but that’s who’s around me most of the time. First, many of my GFs have commented about your exact dilemma. I think it’s partially a generational difference and a lack of experience (social skills) on the part of younger men.
I was taught to treat all women like a lady (thank my mother 'n father for that!) and to consider the needs of others before mine. Swearing wasn’t tolerated at school or in our house. If you slipped, you were beat senseless (yes, we were beaten at school). Also, back in the day, we actually studied etiquette in school and had to practice on one another. So although she may be a bitch or I merely want to get in her pants, I treated her with respect and loving care. I do it automatically and usually enjoy pleasing her. And, yes, younger women really appreciate such behavior. Oddly, older women are used to the old ways and are not nearly as appreciative! I can also say, this extends into the bedroom and I always make she reaches nirvanna before I. I can’t express how many younger women were surprised and pleased with such a small courtesy. However, for you David D followers, having manners and thinking of the needs of others doesn’t mean you’re a pushover or whimp. You still gotta be a man and stand up for what you believe in. You merely apply a little class and style to your interactions with others. It will get you far, especially in this day and age.
I respectfully disagree, at the same time looking at your age Guardian
That looks like a good batch you’ve ordered, looking forward to hearing results. Some guys (I know quite a few) like more alpha women, but it sounds like you are wanting to change your image in general. Good luck and welcome to the forums
I feel I need to respond for you to completely understand what I meant, as someone repsectfully disagreed with me.
Most alpha females are intimidating to many men, but I think the term intimidating need to be clarified. Stong attitude, confident, determined, competititve, perhaps would be better terms to use. I find that the alpha attitude is the thing that attracts me to your personality type. Intimidating might be misunderstood. If you feel you are intimidating, then I would bet that you intimidating to the younger and older type of guys that do not understand you personality type.
I do not want a woman that is like a lifeless dish rag, but one that will take no BS from anyone , even me, and one that I always know where I stand with. ALso that knows who she is and exactly what she wants in a man.
When I referred to the younger set in my previous post, I meant the odds are very much against you finding a younger guy that will be able to deal with your personality type..
Perhaps my PSYCH background helps…
I hope this helps…
Guardian
I have tried 3 different products from various manufactures (Temptress, Liquid Trust & Pheromore) and Temptress would be the only one that I can say I saw the reaction. I got online to order it again and found your forume so I’m happy I can look into perhaps even better options for myself.
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