Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Kelly! 
I guess one of those guys should ask you how to have a girlfriend huh!
j/k. 
Try MX300! Some female users reported it as a women version of A314, men’s surefire pheromone for trust and respect.
It attracts respect both from female and male targets.
And since you’re still a lady, you can also try the Instant Female Wardrobe. It contains the best pheromones for ladies, specifically the ISexiness, described as that one black sexy dress you wear when you’re out hunting for that prey of yours. 
But hey, you’re an engineer. You can afford one regular size of IShine for that happy vibe, 1 regular IHonesty for deeper rapport, 1 regular AMMO for your use when you’re on your lesbian mood and wants to attract girls, 1 regular MX135 for party use (and teasing guys), and 1 regular MX300. You can even take 1 TAL although I’ll echo mrseeker’s warning.
And search TAC around. It might get your interest. 
And since you’re intrigued by the men’s alpha phero, I suggest you get also 1 regular size of A314B, this is the “softer” version of the sprays, but this is a very good choice if you will ultimately wanna try the oil. The A version is blatant.
You can have a look-see at the store and read each products descriptions to further enlighten you. (https://a314.com/) Items without descriptions are possibly putatives or MX, but you can still search them around the forums for user reports or feedbacks.
And so, I am dishing out your $25 Intro GC now to help you realize that first monster order of yours. Its in your email now and waiting to be retrieved and used. 
Happy pheroing!
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