Hi AccidentalKitten, welcome to the community…
Instant Shine sounds like a good product for you as it creates a magnetic aura/charisma toward women (and men also). It also boosts self confidence, lifts up your mood and the mood of others around you, and even can make it easier to be expressive/witty and find things to say…Some say it makes them appear more youthful. It also would help with any intimidation a bit.
Instant Openness, CTTM2, and Instant Honesty has a good thread for comparison here:
Generally the IO will get even strangers to feel comfortable talking and being open as far as socializing or making friends. CTTM2 is more balanced as far as quality of conversation once you talk, but a bit less likely for them to start. IH would be good for trust and bonding such as with your husband, and can act a bit like a truth serum if you want to find out stuff from others
All will lessen intimidation and are friendly and social.
IS-B probably will be the product you will like since it will bring down intimidation more toward a softer, kittenish vibe. Other women will find the vibe much more approachable and friendly. IS-A is more dominant/take charge but if someone is already like that it can occasionally be too much, so they use it in combination with one of the socials like IS to be more friendly and approachable.
P96 can create love and bonding feelings, the spark like when you first met for a relationship.
MX135 and MX300 I would read about also… You can search from the upper right Search on the top of the forums.
The new store will be at https://a314.com and the gift certificate can be used there when it opens. You can add your email there to be notified beforehand. Androtics is currently short on staff after a recent move and have to catch up on a backlog of orders first.
So you will have time to read 13 years of journals in the womens section with real world experiences and all the various potential uses and combinations…You can start your own journal there as well to keep track of your uses and get advice from others. Any questions you cant find you can post or feel free to PM..