Hi everyone.
Been married for 15 years and trying to add a little spark. Wife and I are still great together and the relationship is solid, but there a need for a little push to get things started in the bedroom (looong gaps/infrequency). Something to combat aging (mid 40’s) and routine, maybe.
Hi FrontalLobotomy,
Ok, there are four products that come to mind to put the fire back into that relationship. You guys don’t seem to have unresolved issues, so it can be quite easy.
IShine: This will boost your mood as well as hers. You’ll feel not good, but great with one another.
IGentleman: This will send a very manly vibe, establishing you as the ‘man’ of the house if you feel that’s relevant. Some women find this vibe very sexy.
Ammo: This will send a sexy and charming vibe. You will be more attractive for her and other women as well. It will help creating a “he’s mine” vibe.
TUTH: This will help bring the passion back in the bedroom.
All these can help.
If you feel you need help on the trust/bonding aspect or if you have issues to discuss or solve, try Instant Honesty.
Can you please tell us where you are from? Your age? Your wife’s age? Your personality? And hers? And why do you think the frequency is so low? It can help refine some recommendations.
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Hope to hear from you.
We live in Texas, and we’re both 45. Also both quiet introverted homebody types. We enjoy reading snuggled on the couch, or watching a movie, etc. We’re very compatible that way. (it’s not like one of us wants to go skydiving and the other is vying for a night on the town). I can’t really pinpoint why the frequency problem exists, though. It’s always been lower than I’d like (~3x month), but in the last year its plummeted (1x month), and now going on 2.5 month gap, which is why I’m looking for options. There have been some extenuating (non-relationship) circumstances recently (funeral, illnesses, etc), so it’s easy for me to make excuses, but the overall trend is down. The most frustrating is that many days we have some amorous time, then I’ll get a rain-check and a “we’ll finish this tonight”. And we don’t. That happens ALOT. I want to make the opportunities count, and not turn into yet another unfinished liaison.
Thanks for the details.
I believe the recommendations I made above hold well to your situation.
I still recommend to add Instant Honesty to your list to try and get to the bottom of the problem. Talking and understanding often goes a long way in a long-term relationship 
. IH helps getting the untold… to be to told.
Try each product separately and see what they do for you. Find your best dose for each one too. Consider starting a journal with your results and we’ll advise you next on the best combos to try. You can count on this friendly community’s continuous support.
I forgot to mention that my wife is also very scent sensitive, so I may want to start with more subtle fragrances. IShine seems to be the only one that mentions the overall scent (light orange). Do any of other 4 you recommended have bold fragrances I might want to be wary of?
Ammo is a bit more bolder. If your wife is sensitive you can go for the ‘World’ edition of Ammo which is lighter than regular ammo. The best is to test .
Conjurator has you well recommended here and I simply popped in to welcome you to the community! You are going to quite enjoy the interesting little changes these little vials bring to your daily life. They definitely do ignite a few good sparks.
You will find the community here to be nice and full of diverse knowledge and experience. You have a veritable research library at your fingertips and if you cannot find something people are inclined to help as you ask.
Again welcome and happy pheroing.
Hello FrontalLobotomy!
Welcome to PheromoneTalk!
I have a PM for you. Please check it out.
Happy Pheroing!
Welcome Frontal,
I have to go with Conjurator completely here as those are solid suggestions. I am married to and I find sometimes to get things going in the bedroom I need to connect with my wife emotionally and I think a lot of guys don’t realize that. So the IH is very important because it promotes bonding. If you are on a budget the do have the smaller 5ML bottles to.
Good Luck and I would love to see a journal of another married guy as I have the same problems and would be interested in seeing how it goes for you.
Hello FrontalLobotomy!
Welcome to PheromoneTalk!
Try the IG+IH. I’ve seen some married user saying good things about that pair. TUTH of course, may work in the bedroom time, although I’ve seen some reporting TUTH causing not the desired effects to wives. TAC is something to be researched about, if you are adventurous enough to try some experimental mixes.
Your GC is now in your email.
Happy Pheroing
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FrontalLobotomy, any updates? Did you try any of the mones? Any luck with the frequency? I’m married with a similar problem. Wife is working full time and going to school, too busy and preoccupied to have a libido. It’s a crying shame because she is an oral artist if you KWIM and multiorgasmic when we’re intimate, but 2-3 times a month aren’t enough to keep me happy!
Hi imawildman2,
I see you are not new to this forum. But if you never had a 25$ gift certificate, you might be eligible to get one. To do so, create your own introduction thread. This will make you eligible to a 25$ gift certificate. You’ll also get recommendations from experienced users for your situation.
Have a nice day.
If you are researching molecules I would also take a look at P96 as this goes a very long way in a marriage and by far the one of the best ones for a married couple. This does also work on men and women.
Hi there!
I see you’ve never used your GC. And so I did a little checking and I found out that you have no existing account at the store, https://a314.com/ yet.
Maybe it’s the reason why.
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Happy pheroing!