I always like to read a lot and I stumbled upon the pheromones and their effects. A month ago I broke up with my girlfriend and well, I didn’t it suffer it too much really, because I really liked someone else from ages, but I thought she never were interested in me…
I was wrong. We’ve kissed each other many times and almost had sexual intercourse, but she’s kind of afraid to have a relationship with me as she says she preffers to stay as just friends and she asks me to not do anything to catch up her attention (it’s funny because it’s just a matter to do eye contact and being a little closer into her to make things happen).
So I would like to know which combination would help me to help her to make up her mind, I know already she’s attracted to me but.. she doesn’t seem ready to take a desicion still (has been 2 years without a relationship for her, from that point I understand the fears).
I hope I can get some advice from you guys, I’ve being ‘window-shopping’ eBay for some days but I ended here as it seems the most trustable site.
From what you have said it sounds like she is afraid of getting close to you, maybe because she is afraid of losing you as a friend, or getting hurt if things don’t work out.
You may be able to benefit from 2 sprays of Instant Honesty before getting together. This will help the two of you become closer and feel connected so that later, when the moment is right, you can add a spray or two of TUTH to help bring out the raw desire in her and make it easier for her to allow herself to have what she really wants (you!).
Also, be sure to read up on the forum, as there are many many informative and worthwhile articles to read that will help you make up your mind!
Good luck, I hope you find what you’re looking for here!
I’ve already made an order of A314, TUTH and IShine, got kind of impatient, don’t know if I still can modify it as it’s sunday , should change the IShine for IH.. seems more appropiate.
As about her, it’s kind of weird, because I thought I was already tagged in the friend zone forever, and then this happened. I’m the kind of guy that almost always get flagged in the friend zone, so I’m kind of used to it. But from her talk I can see some fears about losing what she does have now for trying something more intimate like a relationship.
I like to read a lot so I’ve already stumbled upon in a lot of journals, tips, tricks and such in these forums, more as a passive reader but I’ll do my best to participate more actively as soon as I get my order.
This is kind of a expensive thing to play with but if I see results I don’t mind paying for it, and of course I know they can’t do everything, you have to do your part too
Interesting mix of items - I think I see what you are trying to do - but be a little careful - it is kinda tricky.
I would have gone this route: IH, Ishine, and TUTH. But you need to lead with the IH and Ishine. She needs to feel connected to you and happy to be around you. Then as things build up you slide in the TUTH. Just like the name says - at the right moment, you “turn up the heat”. Not try to create heat when there isn’t - which is what a lot of guys do and just scare them off - but build up what you have already generated.
Becuase it is the weekend I am sure you can make any changes you want to.
She already said that she likes me (not in a ‘as friends’ way), but she preffers to stays as friends, and I mostly think is because she’s kind of insecure about relationships and thinking maybe it would blew it trying something more.
I think I can work it out getting her out of her fears, making her feel she’s secure and happy to spend time together with me, and for that seems IH with IS are good starters, and to finish the day a touch of TUTH when the things get more spicy.
Thanks for the replies, it’s nice to participate in this forums.
You’ve gotten some great advice from the guys - Instant Honesty and Instant Shine should really help your situation. Sometimes too much “sexy stuff” can scare a girl away, because she is afraid she might act on those feelings before she is emotionally ready.
I hear what you are saying but somehow I fear that this girl might just put you in the friends zone.
The guys have some real amazing ways to get out of this danger zone and get you back into that I want you badly in my life track again.
I do not know too much about you guys relationship but whatever you do make sure you don’t always jump when she calls and make her feel that no matter what she does she can’t loose you. That is one sign of a guy who might be put into that zone.
Hehe.. well of course I know I’m in the friend zone.. or at least thought I was.
Was fine with it, as I was in a relationship with someone else, but she started to act strangely in the last months, and in lot of situations we ended up kissing each other, and in the last 2 situations we almost had sex so I’m quite confused really.
Now she preffers to put a stop to it and ask me to please not provoke these kind of situations again.. heres when I put a WTF face, if she sees me as a friend only, why she’s unsure about how she will react if I seduce her?
Now it doesn’t matter really as she doesn’t want to talk with me lol, but anyway, then found this whole thing of pheromones and their effects and thought maybe with them I could have a last shot with her to see how it goes before just turn around and say good bye.
, should change the IShine for IH.. seems more appropiate.
