Hi, I am Leila. I live on the East Coast, United States of America (EEUU).
Right now I am looking for the best pheromone(s) or pheromone perfumes to relax an ex, and draw him back in… I have competition, and I don’t lose easily.
I’ve been using other company’s product with fair success; we tend to see each other voluntarily once or twice a week, but only briefly (~20 minutes). When he was exposed to it, I got schoolboy-ish behavior the first couple times, but he still stood outside my car. Subsequent exposures, and he took to sitting in the car talking, instead. It elicits talkativeness/emotional sharing from him.
We broke up due to intense fights; the cause is mostly resolved. Nothing unforgivable; I am looking to renew trust and closeness with him. Lust-inducing pheromones might not work very well; he is disinclined from any “activities” since getting seriously ill, though in the past an androstenol-based formula worked well on him. I am open to any lust-inducing ones that will work on even the most depressed libidos.
Any suggestions for 'mones or mixes to draw him back and make the other girl a non-issue? She lives in a far away country, but is visiting him as a “friend”… She just delayed her flight back home significantly and (I believe) lied about the circumstances… So, I believe I am correct in thinking that she wants him for her own.
Please help! Thank you in advance.
TLDR:
Goals:
Reunite with EX
Suggestions for mones, mixes, perfumes that will do any/any combo of the following:
Draw male ex (age 40) closer
Renew Trust
Make male ex crave my company
Elicit lust in a significantly depressed libido
Outshine any other women
I hope we can all help you in resolving this situation for you.
I personally don’t have experience with the women’s products but my understanding is that ISa and ISb are good products for attraction, the difference in the two being the strength.
However I do know that Instant Shine and IH would be some good options for your situation. Instant Shine is good for putting people in happy, vibrant moods so it’s a good idea to have this one in almost any mix. Instant Honesty is particularly good for your situation to bring that deep bonding connection and to promote trust and deep honest discussion.
If nothing else, I would suggest looking into justintime469’s journal in the men’s journal section. He is probably one of the few who has tested some of the women’s products on himself and he’s about the same age as your guy (I believe). He even has a nice little guide in his journal to help navigate individual tests and such.
He might just chime in here himself too.
Wow, that would be a tough task. Pheromone or not she risked for your man by coming over and it looks like the guy is liking the idea of a foreign girl flying over just to be with him.
Right now, she’s occupying most of his world and you will certainly use all efforts you have in store to get his attention, even with mones.
I will still recommend you the IShine and ISexinessB combo around him for instant attraction. Add IHonesty if you think you can be with him alone in a longer period, enough for the two of you to have a heart to heart. If you think you can handle whatever will come out from his mouth, use the IShine+IOpenness+IHonesty combo. IShine+IHonesty would be enough if the two of you are in the mood to talk.
There are other MXs and putatives you can try, but since we don’t recommend it to Androtics newbies, I will point you to the journals sections to personally look for it. Check out the journals of somechick, Lillian, Lady Scientist, and others.
Your GC is now in your email.
Happy Pheroing!
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Dee has a good point - while pheromones can help they are not magic and will not suddenly change someone’s mind as I am sure you already know.
Both Dee & Jdub gave you what is probably the best answer ISb & Ishine for general attraction and the IH to get to the bottom of things if the opportunity arises.
Thank you for the gift card! I believe you are right, on all counts. I’m fairly bummed by the situation, but I’m giving it one last go.
Any thoughts on MX135 in this scenario? I’ve read up on the hits, and I’m wondering if the charismatic+superstar aspects would be a good addition to the mones you suggested. He’s very charismatic himself.
Thank you for the welcome! You are right. He is luckily very susceptible to pheromones; part of the problem may be that I stopped wearing my signature blend-- being lackadaisical with that certainly didn’t help.
I do have a timeline for cutting my losses, but it will first allow repeated exposures with the pheromones you and others are recommending, to check for improvement on the building rapport. If that goes well, it’ll be time for a no b.s. conversation. Tired of the half-truths, half-loyalty, and lies. But of course I can’t discuss honesty vs concealment, or ask for loyalty, without significantly improving the vibe between us and any negative perceptions, first.
Welcome! I would take a look at the Female Wardrobe as it will have everything you need to get started. I would test the IS/B very first thing for attraction and I have tested this one like Jdub mentioned and would safe this is a safe bet.
Then I would test the IS/A and would not test on him right away, but test on others in public to see the reactions you get from men. IS/A I did not like at all and some men like myself don’t, so this is why I would test on others first.
But if IS/A is a good fit then use that one, the key is to use the one that fits you best. So I would say Dee’s suggestions of IS/B and IShine combo should be a good bet.
The kit also has IShine, IO, and IH also.
There are also the new women’s oils as well and would snoop around the journals to see if you find anything on them yet.
I would suggest the Women’s Kit because I do think that IS/B and IShine will be your best bet to start with and you can’t go wrong with this kit.
I would also research MX274 as this one had men following me around and you may also have luck with this one down the road.
Welcome to this forum. I’m glad to see you already got solid advice above from fellow users. Please consider starting a journal of your experience, this way, we can provide you with help and guidance along your journey.
