Welcome Hizzy!
Thasts an interesting name you have chosen.
I must say you have great patience. I landed here in search of fragrances. and one day of reading was enough and i jumped my first order. actually i found this site 1 year prior to that time. and after testing and regretted my decision to ignore it in first place.
I am definitely not from AD but i know for sure, it a wonderful place and mones do help you achieve , to certain extent, your goals.
Now about your goals…
GO for men’s wardrobe- it will help you get hold of your initial results and has everything you need as newbie. testing and finding your sweet spot is a good idea.
Once you know how they are working for you , you can go advance. Do think of making your journal , so you know what worked well & how & revisit your own experiences. You can make your reports anywhere , but become a reporting users will get you more goodies(surprise) here. Try it and in no time you will know what i am saying… not ruining your fun by telling it all here. 
and for the current goal, Take
IShine- makes celebrity status and center of attention
A314 - respect & trust aura, mature and sensible guy
IG - instant gentlemen
And tuth-- Arouses your women.
So use each one separately first and then go for mixing 2 or 3 of them.
I give you
idea. pick some DHC oil( thats for women to apply to arouse the men)
Now what you can do is, apply a drop on you GF, say its a perfume base ( without revealing rest details) and then apply IShine on top of it.(on the same spot of skin)
And you use ANy of the first three above and layer with TUTH ( on yourself)
Do this when you know you will have enough time and space to get between the sheets.
And remember keep this fun experiment after you have good hold of mones after initial testing.
See what happens and share results… I will be lurking here to know how it goes for you… i am sure our ears will be pleased. 
Good luck man
Happy moning.