There are two things that are happening to me right now. First and foremost I have gone through the worst thing that has ever happened to me. My girlfriend of three years and I just ended our relationship, the tricky thing is that for the past 10 months I have been going to school in florida and she is up in ohio. So the distance really killed us slowly. Now she says that this doesnt mean we wont be together later but for now she just needs to get her life in order…so yea. I will be going back to ohio for a month and a half within the next few weeks for break. She said shed like to get dinner, and now I find myself here trying to find something to really give me some extra ammo to win her back and get this going again. What would be the best product?
The second thing is that during the last like…well 12 years of my life I have had a huge crush on this girl (different girl than my ex). She went to school states away so we never really got time to hang out too much…so we’re just friends (she knows I like her though). Over the past year or two we talk on and off almost ever night for hours. I obviously never did anything about it because I was too far away or in other relationships. Now I love my ex more than anything but this is the first time that I and the girl I have a crush on will be aingle at the same time. I will also be able to see her over break as well. So if me winning back my ex fails I really want to try and hang out and start something to the best I can with the other girl. What would help me the most in this situation with the girl I have a crush on?
this is really screwy I know, but if you guys can help me out I would really appreciate it.
Distance is increasing between you and your GF, but you are talking hours every night with another woman? I think she’s sensing that you are growing apart. So she’s either trying to let you down gently OR she senses the relationship is over but wants to keep you around as a plan B while she looks for something better.
Be aware that you are probably in the “friend zone” with crush-girl. She may think of you as her ‘male girlfriend’.
As the pick-up artists say, “Go [date] Ten Other Women”. You may find someone better than either of them, or the idea that you are a man in demand will increase their attraction to you. Either way, you will have more choice and you will not be needy, giving you the right mental frame (which is more important than all the pheros in the world IMO).
yea I can see how that came out haha, no I also talked to her as well just as much if not more so than the other girl. I never wavered and loved her with everything part of me. There’s a lot to the story that I left out or else id be typing multiple pages lol. My ex destroyed me recently by shutting me down when I wanted to talk about it. Then when her and I were finally hanging out in the same place (smoking hookah) she was with this guy and put on a show flirthing with him hard core and giving me looks. He didnt do anything cause Im pretty sure he knew what was going on and was scared stiff. So since that terrible experience I have begun to show more interest in the other girl.
But yea, what products should I use in both situations…which ones would help me to attain my goals per say.
what does the TAF one do?and like the P74, P83, P79…it doesn’t really say what they do but that they all help so to speak lol. Sry if this is a dumb question, thank you for all the great help so far though. Also, let’s say I only had a 100 bucks to spend haha…i’m kinda broke. What should I get?
Your GF probably does sense your pulling away. There is one thing worse to a women then having their man run out and randomly screw someone. Its him having a actual relationship with another women. Talking for hours is a intimate relationship even if your not doing anything else. It can cause problems, when you have a female who is your friend you need to put in extra time with your GF to offset those natural feelings of insecurity. I am not telling you that you should not have female friends, after all I am married and my best friend is a male but its something you need to tread carefully into. You may not even realize your sending signals but you are and she has probably picked up on them.
I would stay away from the putatives and the advanced stuff and go for the basic proven products because it takes experience to use the advanced stuff correctly and you wont have a ton of chances to get it right.
I hear ya, I was an idiot…but I know I can still fix things. Now yea I agree about the basic products…I really don’t know what I’m doing lol. Um, but with a hundred dollars which products should I get? Whats the best “bang for my buck” so to speak. I mean I might be able to go a little over 100 to cover shipping and what not but definitely not like 150-200 or something. Thanks for the help so far!
Tyl, I got the pheros in to-go (small) sizes for my initial order, good for experimenting. If I were you, I’d get the ones that Tisha recommended in the to-go size: Ammunition, Instant Honesty and Instant Female Magic. (I personally also like Instant Shine. Whenever I put it on I’m like one of those marines in Starcraft when he’s given a stim pack shot… “That’s the stuff!!”)
Tyl, Go over to the introductions forum, introduce yourself (if you havent yet), and ask what products they suggest. This whole thread could probably be even moved over there because it in a sense does give some of the info they look for in the intro forum. Then you may qualify for the $25 which will help even more. I was/am on a budget as well, so the GC helped a bunch. Other than that, get a bunch of to-go sizes, so you can try a few different things.
If you really want your ex and you to survive… remove the distance. Pheromones don’t do anything to help with that little murderer of relationships. It’s a rare relationship indeed that can handle distance for very long.
Personally, I would just find someone I could date in person if I were you.
I know, I know…it sucks. I will be out of school within less than a year. Hopefully we can last through that…of course thats if we get back together at all.
but yea…how many sprays does each travel bottle have?
so I just bought the travel size of ammo and instant female magic. You say 40 sprays?? that sounds like more than enough for now. I’m going to use it for new years eve. I think that’ll be a great time to move in lol. Um, where should I spray this? ..and how much??
k, I know there is a search function…but Im kind of retarted and am getting really confused. I just got my package in today and was given “Instant Openess” for free…so now Im really confused. What the heck do I wear? I have Instant Female Magic, AMMO, and Instant Openess…is there a killer combo with those?? I just need a really good mix to break the ice and have a great time with this girl tomorrow night…hopefully leading to something more.
Ammo is a female attraction pheromone (and it smells really good) Instant Female Magic is said to make women around you feel more relaxed and calm. It’s also been noted that it can depress men around you or even yourself, so spray it in areas away from your face so you don’t inhale too much. Instant Openness is supposed to promote people talking to you more easily and keeping the conversation going.
Ammo is the only of the three that is scented (or it is the only one I can smell…)
I recommend 1 spray ammo, 2 sprays IFM and 2 sprays IO. Maybe add another spray of ammo halfway through the date (excuse yourself to the bathroom.)
You can spray the mones anywhere, but it is not recommended you spray anything with -none (like AMMO) in your hair because -none is a sticky molecule and it won’t wash out for days. Common places to spray are…
Neck, jawline, face (NOT FEMALE MAGIC) shoulders, chest, back of the neck, wrists, hands, etc.
Yep you can spray IO in your hair. I use that stuff at pretty high doses, but I like really deep conversation pretty much anytime of the day… If you want to keep the convo light don’t use too much IO.