Help me get this Girl! Advice needed

The difference between pick up, and this situation is it’s already in that relationship, we fell in love mode.

The principles of attraction still apply but only to a certain extent.

sharp post andy.

I think I’ve been trying to avoid thinking about what I want recently because I know it’s immoral. What I want is a steady gf I can be with until I get my life back on track, then I’d dump her when I feel I’m ready to go after the old girl. It sounds so wrong, but that’s what I want. I always told myself I wanted a girl who goes to the gym, mainly because I feel I have an authority over them. I have studied exercise and training for over 10 years. So this one seems like a good one to go for. She goes at the same times as me and the guy who works there doesn’t hover over her like with EVERY other girl.

And about calling her ‘good’, I actually didnt say those exact same words. I remember it being a bit more obscure, but she giggled, and since then the two other times I saw her, she’s said ‘hi’ first. So I don’t think it really was detrimental… yet… She’s only about a 7, so I think some compliments may help.

I have my plan all ready for tomorrow. Will be wearing:
1 spray MX297 and CTTM on wrists, 2 sprays IS and IO on neck

If she agrees to walk with me a bit after, in the locker room before I leave I’ll add:
1 or 1/2 spray TUTH 2x under shirt, 1 spray IH
Would have put on AMMO, but it’s still on delay. May have to get this sorted out. Been over 2 weeks now.

Will update tomorrow night whether success or failure.

With my luck she won’t even BE THERE TOMORROW…

Goodluck masu!

UPDATE:

Just my freaking luck, classes were cancelled so I didn’t even see her. Assuming she didnt even go!What a let down. And what’s worse, I asked a friend/another guy who works there if he’d seen her today. He says no he hasn’t, and then about 2 hours later comes up to me and says ‘hey, i know the name of that chick u were asking about’

So in my head, I’m thinking “how could he have found out her name?” and I could only think of one way, he probably went and asked someone who knew her ‘hey, that guy wanted to know ur friend’s name’ etc… Now shit’s going to somehow get back to her that I ‘like’ her, like this is freaking high school. She’ll start avoiding me most probably if that happens. I should have kept my mouth shut and just left this between me and her. The only way to buffer this is to have her see me gaming other women there so she won’t feel I’m out for her.

The one positive thing is that maybe my AMMO will have arrived by Thursday when I’ll HOPEFULLY see her. Clearance Delay for over 2 weeks… seriously… something’s wrong there no? Should i call someone?

EDIT: I bet it’s because it’s called AMMO! they should really change the name!

That sucks Masu, could somehow work out to your benefit though. Dont let it get to you.

You’re starting to really overanalzye all this. I do this at times too, and believe me when you’re all in your head, you’re not making the right decisions and before you know it, you’ve made things worse than if you just take a deep breath and just let things happen.

I’m not worrying too much guys. There’s no time limit to any of this, so I can wait for as long as I want. Even if she’s not there Thursday, there’s still saturday and all next week etc… I’ll only update from now on if I get to speak to her.

And AGAIN, I check the tracking list today and it’s Clearance Delay. I ordered my AMMO on the 4th of August! Does anyone know if it’ll eventually come, or will it just stay there indefinitely?

an employee stole it and now is enjoying your AMMO lol

haha, no but I swear it’s because it’s called AMMO. anything called ammunition would probably be inspected in international shipping. they are probably doing tests on it to see if it is an explosive or merely just contains a burning agent.

I e-mailed DHL today and they said that they contacted customs but there is nothing they can do, but it will be shipped eventually. the waiting reallllly sucks. i could have used some AMMO for the past week.

ANYWAY! Going to try with this girl again tomorrow. Going out with a couple of friends on friday and would like for her to join me.

Funny story about tonight though, went out with my friend and his girl. They got into lots of small fights throughout the evening, then we decided to go to a pool hall. So I go into the bathroom when we get there and spray some TUTH 2x because there are other girls around. Only had on 1 spray of IO and IS each prior.

Well after the TUTH, it was like she completely forgot she was angry at him, and kept getting really close to us (he was always standing near me), she kept saying outloud how horny she was and that she wanted to fukk him right there and started unbuttoning his pants! afterwards at dinner in a classy restaurant all she could talk about were sexual experiences (and loud) and kept saying how horny she was. and she is usually open and somewhat crazy, but NEVER physically sexual before in public.

Now mind you, none of this was aimed at ME, but at my friend. I do think the TUTH had an effect on her but it kind of worries me how she couldn’t tell it was from me. Makes me excited about when I’ll have a girl all to myself or if i’m in an alcohol infested environment.

Can i give you a little advise, Leave her be she goes to the gym to work out when know one is there at night, read the signs,
my girl is a BodyBuilder and trust me she does not want anyone bothering her, while she is trying to train,

here ill give you a little trick if you want a chance, k
and for the love of god say this with a straight face, our you look like an ass, and i say stand your ground, and get some A314 with IG and IH
i have done this before when i wanted to talk to my GF at the time,

Now when the ass is around and this works for me when i saw the same kind of guy around a chick that i wanted to talk to and you know he is older, simple say,

wow is that your wife you have been braging about wow i did not know she is amzing and young looking to and i must say dude you did good for your age wow you must be pushing on what 30 or 35 now, and go on like that is his true wife,

a you took Alpha away secound you did not use a cheese line 3 third now he looks like a dick and she will for sure she will stay right away,

now he might get pissed and want to fight but just stand your ground dont flinch

then if he calls you out just say hey look i thougth she was your wife, thats all and walk away dont look back dont say nothing else, he will run his mouth becuase he looked like an ass but be the bigger man,

most guys at the gym are all talk i know a few that are all action, and from this guy he is all talk

good luck so you know its not about the pick up line it is about the actions to which you bring alpha to you,

I’d like an update on this situation…what’s been going on here?

Yea, No kidding. Hows that whole situation masu?

Yup same h ere

Hey guys,

well things seem to have hit a wall with this girl. Each week, the days I go to the gym alternate, so I won’t see her for a whole week at a time. What I’ve noticed though is that less and less girls tend to come when the pervert who works there is around. I notice on his off days, the place is filled with a lot of women. It’s only the new ones who give him attention.

Anyway, I’ve noticed this girl has also begun to come specifically on the days when he’s not there, which is fine with me. I always wanted him out of the way. He must have screwed up somehow. Bad news is she may be 27 or 28, which is a bit too old for me, but I’m glad I found out, I’m less invested in her now, but can still use her for a bit.

I started talking to another girl, she actually came to me out of all the other guys in the gym, to ask me how to use a certain machine. Again though, I haven’t seen this one in over a week, and it also turns out she has a pre-adolescent son. I’m still young, so I don’t really want any drama with men in their late 30s or 40s if it comes to that.

I’m beginning to think the gym is not a good place to find women if you’re a young man. I guess young girls (18-25) don’t go as often to work out because they can get by from just not eating. Seems like most women who work out (who are dedicated) are in their 30s and/or divorced. And they all look like they’re in their 20s because the gym keeps them looking young… And it keeps them tricking me!

Still though, I’m gonna keep trying for the two I do talk to, and I should be working there in a couple of weeks, so it’ll increase my status to some extent as well as give me more reasons to open convo with them.

Plan is the same though, open convo with 2 sprays IO and IS on neck, 1 spray CTTM on wrist. If she wants to see me after the workout, then I’ll add 1 spray IH (2x) and 1 spray TUTH (2x) while in the locker room.

Sorry I couldn’t have a better update. Was hoping I’d have something better to give you guys.

…so what’s the flippin problem? At that age and divorced they’re probably able to support themselves financially and not looking for anything more than fun. If a woman in her 30’s shows interest in a guy barely over 20 trust me, she’s not expecting you to be prince charming and take care of her. And if she looks as good as if not better than the girls 10 years younger than her…so much the better.

Do you have any clue how much of a DHV/attraction switch having an older woman is? Chicks your age see you with an older woman and all sorts of thoughts go through their heads.
1.) She must be using him for sex…which probably means he’s good at it.
2.) He must be pretty mature to be dating an older woman
You see what I’m saying?

You’re right to a certain extent Radman, but as I said, these girls look young so I wouldn’t be able to use them to gain the ‘he must be mature’ vibe. But yeah, I’m still not giving up on these. Also trying to meet more there, so I can get some more social proof. And hopefully when I start working there, things will be a bit easier.

Good news is that I should be seeing her this week at the gym, so I’ll get some alone time with her hopefully.

Will update in a couple of days.

This is good! Aside from social proof, you should go for whoever that is pretty cute and that is into you :wink: Don’t linger on her, unless you want soemthing serious!

honestly, I’m going for them all right now. As long as I’m seen talking to a woman and have her feel good, I feel it’s a win, even if I don’t find them attractive.

ALSO,
an update on my AMMO…

STILL have not received it. This is unreal now… been 40 days since it was shipped and 37 days on Clearance Delay. I think even if i lived on the moon it would have arrived sooner.

I’m almost ready to even order my NEXT batch of mones, that’s how long it’s been. Was hoping to use the AMMO with my IS, IO, and IH. Sucks because I am very much in need of an -rone, but I have none and produce low amounts naturally.

When you place your next order e-mail me (jslavalle@androtics.com) the Order # (or forward the invoice.). I will toss an Ammo in just in case. Thats really weird.

hey thanks a lot.

I’m gonna get some IJ with my next purchase also. I haven’t forgotten about that little experiment you wanted me to do with my friend.

I’m thinking the problem with the AMMO is maybe it’s name? Since this is crossing borders, I’d think customs would be a suspicious of a package of liquid called Ammunition. And it was the only thing I bought with that Order, just the AMMO, so maybe that’s what made it more suspicious… They must be testing the hell out of it.